To think I can make this work even though he’s so small?

[Taoffg]

Can’t actually believe I’m posting this. Been seeing someone for two months, first couple of weeks it was a couple of coffees and then it became more. I am fast falling for this person, he is everything I have been looking for in someone and has shown nothing but kindness, decency and care.

But I do love sex and it’s a big part of a relationship for me. We’ve had some fumbles and I can tell he is very small even when erect. It’s not thin as well as short, mainly just short. I feel a bit ridiculous saying this as of course size shouldn’t matter if you truly want to be with someone and I think I actually could ignore that part of it if I needed to, but I’m wondering if anyone else has a man like this but sex is still good and fulfilling as in the penetration? I know there’s plenty of other stuff to do but this is new territory for me as I think it is much below average size!

ps NC for obvious reasons but been on here for years!

An inch?! That wouldn't work for me

Exactly this. Give it a go. You don’t know until you’ve tried. Certainly no one here is going to know!

you can’t just simply transpose things the other way because men are the power holding group compared to women - it doesn’t work

I can see why your an unwilling advocate -

@OriginalSkang sorry I don’t understand this sentence …?

Gosh, three fingers’ width is tiny. Poor bloke. I do think you should give it a chance, though, if he’s a great man, because as others have said, he still might be excellent at sex.

girl wants what a girl wants. Mikey micro penis isnt going to measure up, stopping dicking around with him and find girthy Lenny long length and get what you need.

Just take him for a ride and find out.

Where is the laughing emoji reaction when you need it???!!! 😂

@topcat2014 i am really hoping this is the case

Seeing is believing. You need to see it first before you make any decisions

I know I miss it

@Zippidydoodah no three fingers together in length

You're just going to have to decide once you've given it a go a few times.
I once had a BF with a short and thin penis and I honestly could barely feel him inside of me..... sex was disappointing at best but equally so was any other aspect of our sex life so that didn't help matters either! If he was really good at oral or hands then maybe I could have looked past PIV
He was a complete prat in other respects of our relationship which was why it ended

Too right! They love it when we're funnier than them too! Gets them all hot and bothered

Yes i was thinking the same.I think it's really shallow to judge or choose a partner for the size of either.As grown adults someone really should love someone for who they are inside as a person, not what their body parts look like.

This three fingers thing is so confusing. Three fingers end to end (which would be long)?! Three fingers if your hand is on its side (which is like 2 inches)? Can you hazard a measurement in metric or imperial?!

Yes, so it’s the size of three finger’s width. That’s what you’re using as a unit of measurement - the width of 3 fingers. You could have just said about 3 to 5cm.

You said its as long as your three fingers together? How would them being together have any bearing on it's length? Unless you mean one after the other? In which case it's surely fine unless you have very short fingers?

Just wanted to add that when I met my husband we spent quite a few dates with only feeling him through jeans etc and they really hid his huge wonderful penis that i absolutelycannotget enough of!!!! 😁😁

Hi op is there a reason it’s been 2 months and only fumbles? I thought in this day and age it was a few dates in. Could this be a reason from him not trying to shag you yet?

It’s as long as the width of 3 fingers. Put your three fingers together and turn your hand on its side. That’s how tall she thinks his etect penis is - the same as the width of 3 fingers together.

Its not what it looks like, its what it feels like inside the OP.

If youre asexual and dont care about sexual intimacy that's cool for you, but dont expect everyone else to feel that way. For the vast majority of people sex is an intrinsic part of a relationship, and that means size can matter.

Thats not shallow. Your judgement on that is very one dimensional.

@Taoffg well there’s only one way to find out for sure if it’s an issue or not!

Anyone else looking at their fingers right now?!

Men absolutely do have the same attitude towards women’s looks.