Noisy hotel sex. Why?

[Tiredthismorning]

Why do people have such noisy sex in hotels? I have just got home from a wedding yesterday, after which I stayed in a hotel. The couple in the next room had vocal sex at 2am and again at 8am. Proper shrieks and moans and grunts and words that I could hear through the wall from both of them, for a good half an hour both times.

Have your fun by all means. But why make so much noise?? I know hotel rooms are private but hotels aren't, especially not in the middle of the night.

AIBU to think it's no less selfish (and quite a bit more unreasonable) than keeping other guests up with music or any other noise. It's not the first time I've been kept awake like this.

Antisocial behaviour IMO. 2am particularly unacceptable, 8am on a Sunday morning also unacceptable - people like to sleep longer at the weekends. Doesn't really matter that it was sex noises. Half an hour of any loud noise at those times is really bad behaviour in a hotel.
Mind you, I began having sex at university so I always knew there were people very close by, so we did it quietly. In contrast, my 2 Gen Z kids are at uni and both have had to listen to lots of noisy sex in their halls.

Still making sexual suggestions to women online?

I'm thinking loudly play the Benny Hill theme tune 😁
That'll put them off their stride

Or shout 'she's faking it' at a critical moment.

Oh no, sex people!

Because they are away having fun. Ear plugs are always your friend in hotels!

Well don't you sound like a barrel of laughs...

Honestly, if I overheard someone shagging while at a hotel for a funeral, I'd just find it funny. If the walls are thin enough that such noise keeps you awake, I'd take it as a sign to book a proper hotel for the important event next time. You don't go budget and get surprised when people are having budget fun! 😅

It's on the AIBU forum, and it's a thread about sex.

Very odd that you'd find my comments creepy with that in mind, perhaps lighten up a bit...

Or shout something off putting like - at least your not vomiting everywhere like norovirus couple in that bed last night.

For
Some
People
Sex
Is
A
Private
Thing.

(Or
Should
Be.)

Hope
That
Helps.

I have a very healthy sex life, the kids are over the other side of the house so we can afford to be a bit noisy without being heard.

But screaming like you’re in a porno is purely performative. I think people who do that in hotels want other people to hear, that begs the question of why? Are they exhibitionists or do they get to fuck so rarely they need other people to know they’ve had a shag. It’s all a bit odd.

Also, men moaning during sex is bogging.

I’m guessing you feel the need to tell women to lighten up pretty often. Good luck with that.

For fuck sake, why do you think I'm a man??

I've been on MN for years and from my hundreds of comments, it's very clear I'm a woman.

God forbid it be possible that a WOMAN can enjoy sex 🙄

You can enjoy sex without wailing like a Banshee so the poor bastards in the room next door have to hear it. It’s performative.

You can. Lots of other people can’t.

I’m not buying it. There is a difference between organic groans, heavy breathing and a bit of noise vs frying your vocal cords screaming at maximum decibels.

It’s like riding a rollercoaster. You really don’t need to scream for the whole ride, that’s a choice.

Sorry, I thought you were a man because of the comments telling women they need to find someone to give them ‘uncontrollable and involuntary noisy orgasms’ and suggesting that women don’t ‘enjoy sex’ if they don’t want to hear it loudly in a hotel. It was just that familiar tone. Woman, then. 🤷‍♀️

Is this your critique Looking for suggestive remarks ?

Your sentence isn’t clear, but your intent is, as on the rest of your posts.

I was going to reply to this thread but you have said everything I would have done! All of this.

Obviously looking for any reason to not let others make remarks. More interested in checking posts which align with your thinking ?

If there is a man in this thread I would very much like to know. I do not consent to a man contributing on this delicate matter.

If you (or anyone) literally can’t, then what do you do when your children are at home?

Men seem to manage not to do it as well, so I’m another one who doesn’t believe this.

If you’re not a Turkish man I’ll eat my fez.

@SkeeterinamberI’m not sure why but as soon as I read your comment all I could picture was Maeve from mobland saying it! Iconic😂