Check list for holiday I want to go alone one, first steps

[HayuBingeWatcher]

Holiday is booked, depart last day in Oct all in our names
if I decided to hop out on my own what’s my plan B list?
I have my passport and a copy of the flight and hotel detals

i need to pre book overnight so he doesn’t find me and just an overhead bag, 2 weeks

can he end up joining me out there, it’s all paid for so I suppose that’s a yes?

im sick of all of it, can I pack up and go alone, I don’t have a car I have licence

Check list, email of flight and holiday details
email overnight stay before flight - this needs amending I have a licence , no car
not a big issue
ive packed a big for in flight
please Halle me, 20 odd years married I need to do this I need some help organising

Surely he would go to the airport?
If he knows the airport and the hotel ?

What has he done?
You could cancel his flight only?

But he could take another flight

Could you take / destroy his passport

Are you trying to leave your husband? Your post doesn't really make much sense to me - happy to help with travel checklists but need to understand the parameters.

I don't advise following the PP's suggestion of destroying someone password (since that is, of course, illegal).

Illagal yes but if her life is in danger and she needs to get away from him.and he may follow her and something bad happen to her, then i think its reasonable

If she just wants a holiday without him then no its not acceptable

He won’t bother following me
i need a solo checklist - everything is paid and arranged
I just need to sort things from a solo travel

i have everything sorted as a couple gong on holiday in 2 weeks time, I’ve never traveled alone before

im sorry I sound so desperate, I really do need some help please

I have proof of payment in emails and bank cards in my name
my passport and driving license (no own car to get to the airport though)

He won’t bother following me or cancelling anything
i think I have 1 weeks with access to money for being abroad. The only thing not pre paid would be the travel from Essex to the airport apart from that, I have emails confirming everything else

what methods of payment do you ahve - credit card, debit card, cash?
phone with the ability for data roaming?
do any of your bookings need an app?

Currently I have all you mentioned, I can also draw cash
flights in 2 weeks

what do you nean when you say 1 week with access to money? are these joint accounts? if so how can you get something into your sole control?

Imapprec7your replies, money isn’t an issue. My issue is i]that I’ve never travelled alone and I want this 2 weeks holiday on my own]
I need to know what I need to take/have with me document wise
I need to arrange transport to get to the airport
and anything else I need as I’ve never travelled alone before
I’m not in danger, he won’t give a care or notice if I’ve gone or not
he won’t bother going without me
im just asking for support to get away on a planned trip I’ve paid for in joint accounts

OK not in danger. Phew.

Is it a visa free country?

Do you have more than one form of payment card? And some cash in local currency?

And is it somewhere with ride shares (bolt, uber or whatever)? Transfer from airport to hotel?

I’ve been to 50 countries and there is very little that can’t be solved with reliable payment methods. And a passport with enough time left.

So you want to go away, alone. So you want to sneak off and leave him at home? But after two weeks you'll head home? What is he going to do/ day when you get back.

As far as checklist goes. Just book a taxi. Take headphones and chargers plus reading material on some form

What? So you’ve booked a holiday with your partner but on the day you’re going to actually go alone? Why?

Insurance details on phone.

Why did you book for two and not one?

Maybe use the two weeks to formulate a plan for the rest of your life

The whys don’t matter now
sometimes things don’t work out and over time things come to light
I haven’t got the mental space to explain it and he doesn’t warrant an explanation for my change of mind]it’s joint money, joint access and I’ve spent over 20 years thinking of others
ihave nothing left right now
i either try and ask here for help here or cancel the whole thing and revert back
I can’t keep on with the sleepless nights and pretending anymore

After the basics - passport, money, travel insurance (do you have travel insurance?) then the next most important thing for me would be a plan.

I wouldn't want to an every day out necessarily, but to have a general idea of what's there and what I wanted to do.

Is it a lounge on the beach / by the pool kind of holiday (in which case, have you got all the swim suits / sun lotion / reading books / magazines you need?)

Or is it a holiday where you explore the local area - if so, do you know what's available and how you get there? Especially if it's this kind of holiday I:d want a plan for a few places I wanted to go before leaving the UK. And then pack appropriately.

Good luck OP! I hope you have a lovely holiday.

Do you need an app to check in to your flight, and access your boarding pass?

Thank you!

it is doable it’s just not something I’ve ever done on my own before
yes, T ins and everything needed, it’s AI, I’ve planned and packed for 2 over the last few months. I think I can scale myself down to one overhead and a carry on for 2 weeks laying around on the beach.

i feel like I need to print copies of docs, that’s showing my age! I have email confirmation although I have forwarded them to myself with screenshots from his email as he booked it

You don't need much op.

Boarding pass on phone, passport, credit card, debit card, bikkni.

Sounds like you are on a package holiday so there's nothing else to plan.

Have a nice time.

Have you got a GHIC?

And remember to check in online.

Have you checked in online? It’s been a while since I flew, so i can’t remember how early you can check in online.