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Unvaccinated children shouldn't be allowed in mainstream childcare or school

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ApronSprings · Yesterday 21:42

To think children shouldn't be allowed in nurseries or schools if their parents refuse to vaccinate them..

I'm excluding children who medically can't have them for some reason, and this will be too rare to cause a problem, and they deserve the benefit of herd immunity.

But I'm growing tired of the nutcase conspiracy theorists who failed GCSE science but think they've somehow found something missed by experts.

The only argument against this is that it keeps them home with their quack parents and reduces the opportunity for them to be exposed to normal people. But I don't think we should risk other people's lives for it if their parents aren't willing to do the same.

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ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:55

Luddite26 · Yesterday 22:50

my DD caught whooping cough in 1999 even though she had been vaccinated was poorly for weeks.
Then she was the first cohort to have the rushed through HPV vaccine. Been ill ever since. Does it make me a quack to question if every vaccine is worth having?
I have always participated in vaccination programmes unquestionably but some now I do question. I don't have young children now so it's not up to me
but are you having flu and COVID vaccines yourself should they be mandatory now for all.

Why would you attribute being ill ever since to the vaccine?

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ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 22:55

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:53

It would be the parents stopping them from attending school, rather than it being the state. If they want them to attend school then they need to vaccinate them.

I don't see what that would achieve. I know people who don't vaccinate and home educate by choice. Even if it wasn't by choice, your children would still encounter them in the stores, at the parks, in recreation, at extracurricular activities, on planes. So taking them out of school won't stop your exposure to those children at all.

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 22:55

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:55

Why would you attribute being ill ever since to the vaccine?

Oh my God. You really are a bot. Please everyone stop engaging with this person.

Teacup40 · Yesterday 22:57

Those without a brain shouldn't have an opinion, Just a thought...

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:57

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 22:54

I don't agree that children should be punished for the irresponsible decisions of their feckless parents. They have a right to be educated by people who are actually fit to educate them.

I would rather see parents who fail to vaccinate their children prosecuted for neglect.

And further prosecuted if they contribute to an outbreak of a disease which was previously eradicated?

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Becuriousnotjudgemental1980 · Yesterday 22:57

I agree. There’s a kid in my son’s year who’s recovering from leukaemia and something like measles or chicken pox could land him in intensive care or worse. Why should he miss out on a education because of others shitty parenting?

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:58

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 22:55

Oh my God. You really are a bot. Please everyone stop engaging with this person.

Huh?
So you attribute anything in your life that happens after a vaccine to being caused by the vaccine?!

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Batties · Yesterday 22:58

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:57

And further prosecuted if they contribute to an outbreak of a disease which was previously eradicated?

How could something which had been eradicated return?

ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 22:58

Teacup40 · Yesterday 22:57

Those without a brain shouldn't have an opinion, Just a thought...

That could apply on both sides of the debate though. The only ones really worth engaging with are those who are educated enough to know that it's not completely black and white.

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:59

Becuriousnotjudgemental1980 · Yesterday 22:57

I agree. There’s a kid in my son’s year who’s recovering from leukaemia and something like measles or chicken pox could land him in intensive care or worse. Why should he miss out on a education because of others shitty parenting?

Exactly this!

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ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 23:00

Batties · Yesterday 22:58

How could something which had been eradicated return?

It couldn't. Some might be almost eradicated and could bounce back from that if there is a host population, but eradicated can't come back.

Batties · Yesterday 23:00

ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 23:00

It couldn't. Some might be almost eradicated and could bounce back from that if there is a host population, but eradicated can't come back.

That’s what I thought.

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 23:01

ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 22:58

That could apply on both sides of the debate though. The only ones really worth engaging with are those who are educated enough to know that it's not completely black and white.

This! We don't wear tin foil hats and skip around the woods like fairy's 😂 these people would not say this stuff to our faces either. Thanks for the laugh OP

Cantgetausername87 · Yesterday 23:02

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 22:55

Oh my God. You really are a bot. Please everyone stop engaging with this person.

I think it was a fair question. I'm really not having a "jab" but how do you go about it? Is every life event post vaccination directly related to the vacine? You said your child had been ill ever since I'm genuinely curious...

Gabbycat245 · Yesterday 23:03

fashionqueen0123 · Yesterday 22:46

Some adults my age didn’t get the second MMR booster hence the spreading of mumps at universities about 20 years ago.

So I wouldn’t assume an adult who caught it was totally unvaccinated.

I think they make it mandatory in some areas of Australia as well as parts of the USA.

In case you didn't know, anyone in this category can get their second dose as an adult. I did, particularly because I was not immune to rubella (pre-IVF testing).

ApronSprings · Yesterday 23:04

Hoodle · Yesterday 22:44

There’s no irony at all.

What’s very obvious is anti-vaxxer selfishness. That’s why you see queues of anti-vax parents at jab clinics if there’s a big outbreak. They hide behind herd immunity until the immunity breaks down and then all the ‘concerns’ go out the window when they’re looking at a high risk of infection.

I have heard antivax parents become anxious when there's outbreaks, and it blows my mind. Surely if you were concerned about your child catching it you'd get vaccinated?

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ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 23:05

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 23:01

This! We don't wear tin foil hats and skip around the woods like fairy's 😂 these people would not say this stuff to our faces either. Thanks for the laugh OP

Some people on this site could probably do with a dose of skipping around the woods like fairies. Maybe without the tinfoil hats, though we could have a competition to see who can make the best and most interesting one.

Forgedsnak · Yesterday 23:06

@ApronSprings no ultimately it would be the state. The state should not and cannot coercively control parents into vaccinating their children. The state has no right to dictate personal medical choices. The children belong to the parents until they are old enough to decide for themselves.

I think anyone who doesn’t vaccinate their children is bonkers but I will defend their right to make that choice.

ApronSprings · Yesterday 23:06

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 23:01

This! We don't wear tin foil hats and skip around the woods like fairy's 😂 these people would not say this stuff to our faces either. Thanks for the laugh OP

I'm sure they won't want to be in the face of someone unvaccinated. You are right about that.

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ApronSprings · Yesterday 23:08

Forgedsnak · Yesterday 23:06

@ApronSprings no ultimately it would be the state. The state should not and cannot coercively control parents into vaccinating their children. The state has no right to dictate personal medical choices. The children belong to the parents until they are old enough to decide for themselves.

I think anyone who doesn’t vaccinate their children is bonkers but I will defend their right to make that choice.

I hear what you are saying, but now that there is such an increase in cases and some areas of the UK only half of parents are vaccinating their children.
Don't we trust the state to step in when parents are abusing their child? If a child was denied medical treatment they would be referred to social services, why is this any different?

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attichoarder · Yesterday 23:08

Hoodle · Yesterday 22:44

There’s no irony at all.

What’s very obvious is anti-vaxxer selfishness. That’s why you see queues of anti-vax parents at jab clinics if there’s a big outbreak. They hide behind herd immunity until the immunity breaks down and then all the ‘concerns’ go out the window when they’re looking at a high risk of infection.

That is not the case for everyone who decides against a vaccine and I haven’t personally seen that happen where I live

fashionqueen0123 · Yesterday 23:09

Gabbycat245 · Yesterday 23:03

In case you didn't know, anyone in this category can get their second dose as an adult. I did, particularly because I was not immune to rubella (pre-IVF testing).

Good to know. Some of my friends got it at uni as they rolled out clinics when it started spreading. But I didn’t because I’d already caught mumps as a kid - thanks to not having that second jab!

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 23:09

Forgedsnak · Yesterday 23:06

@ApronSprings no ultimately it would be the state. The state should not and cannot coercively control parents into vaccinating their children. The state has no right to dictate personal medical choices. The children belong to the parents until they are old enough to decide for themselves.

I think anyone who doesn’t vaccinate their children is bonkers but I will defend their right to make that choice.

The children belong to their parents?

Children are people, not possessions. They have rights of their own. And sometimes that includes the right to be protected from their parents.

ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 23:09

ApronSprings · Yesterday 23:06

I'm sure they won't want to be in the face of someone unvaccinated. You are right about that.

You should try skipping around the woods some time. Or even just spending some time in some remote and isolated nature. You don't need the tinfoil hat but sun hats would be recommended. It's great for the spirit.

Clarabell77 · Yesterday 23:10

ByRoseBiscuit · Yesterday 22:06

You presume wrong, I was vaccinated as a child, but they can get less effective as you age, especially the mumps vaccine

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Mumps vaccine wasn’t available when I was a child, I just googled and it only started in the UK in 1988.

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