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Unvaccinated children shouldn't be allowed in mainstream childcare or school

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ApronSprings · Yesterday 21:42

To think children shouldn't be allowed in nurseries or schools if their parents refuse to vaccinate them..

I'm excluding children who medically can't have them for some reason, and this will be too rare to cause a problem, and they deserve the benefit of herd immunity.

But I'm growing tired of the nutcase conspiracy theorists who failed GCSE science but think they've somehow found something missed by experts.

The only argument against this is that it keeps them home with their quack parents and reduces the opportunity for them to be exposed to normal people. But I don't think we should risk other people's lives for it if their parents aren't willing to do the same.

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Brokentoes85 · Yesterday 22:39

Voted unreasonable. You lost the argument when you started to insult others by using terms "quacks" and "normal people"

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:39

attichoarder · Yesterday 22:32

Not all risks are fully verified or have been fully researched, there are contraindications which have been linked to vaccines in the past where parents have sufficient concerns. Even children have a vaccine they are exposed and sone parents will have concerns. We often make decisions for our children and we make them with the best of intentions.

That's the same for anything. It's impossible for anything to be "fully" researched.

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ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:41

Brokentoes85 · Yesterday 22:39

Voted unreasonable. You lost the argument when you started to insult others by using terms "quacks" and "normal people"

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Of course anyone who refuses vaccines without a good reason is a quack.

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curious79 · Yesterday 22:41

What is evident from your responses to everyone is that you yourself have absolutely no idea about how vaccines work all the risks associated with them, including viral shedding post the actual vaccination. Did you fail your science GCSEs? Personally, I got A’s in my straight science A-levels and have a science degree

whitenoise101 · Yesterday 22:42

curious79 · Yesterday 22:38

Amazing how parents of vaccinated children are still so worried about their children catching diseases (that they’ve been vaccinated against) from unvaccinated children. Do you see the irony?

It’s not just that though. I couldn’t have the MMR as a child due to an egg allergy. As an adult I can’t have it as I’m severely immunocompromised
if I catch measles I’m likely to be really unwell because of my blood disorder
herd immunity protects me but children who could be vaccinated, aren’t being so the amount of measles in the community goes up

ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 22:43

Gealach · Yesterday 22:38

Vaccinations work on herd immunity.

Take Measles for example. About 1% of people who are vaccinated do not end up being immune. Then you’ll have a certain % of people who can’t get the vaccine, people who are immunocompromised or small babies ect.,,

In order to actually stop the spread of measles you need a 95% rate of vaccination.

I know there are some that can't and need herd immunity to protect them. I also know there are some who the vaccine doesn't 'take' for, which is why there are multiple doses, to reduce that. However, for most children, vaccines should protect them individually as well.

As I have mentioned above, I just knew there was something wrong with how my child responded to a vaccine and stepped away from it. Doctors couldn't explain it, but I knew. I was validated 25 years later when the issue was diagnosed. I think I made the right decision, so will always support vaccine choice. With what I know about my genetics and family history now, every vaccine is carefully weighed up and a bit scary for me. The difference is I now know why. I'd have home schooled if forced to choose.

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:43

curious79 · Yesterday 22:41

What is evident from your responses to everyone is that you yourself have absolutely no idea about how vaccines work all the risks associated with them, including viral shedding post the actual vaccination. Did you fail your science GCSEs? Personally, I got A’s in my straight science A-levels and have a science degree

You got excellent GCSEs but don't know how to use an apostrophe correctly?

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Hoodle · Yesterday 22:44

curious79 · Yesterday 22:38

Amazing how parents of vaccinated children are still so worried about their children catching diseases (that they’ve been vaccinated against) from unvaccinated children. Do you see the irony?

There’s no irony at all.

What’s very obvious is anti-vaxxer selfishness. That’s why you see queues of anti-vax parents at jab clinics if there’s a big outbreak. They hide behind herd immunity until the immunity breaks down and then all the ‘concerns’ go out the window when they’re looking at a high risk of infection.

nowhite · Yesterday 22:44

I totally agree - it’s the stupid parents punishing their children - no-one else’s responsibility. It makes me absolutely furious

ktopfwcv · Yesterday 22:45

Minasama · Yesterday 22:21

I think the problem is that the parents who are ignorant enough to not vaccinate are often the same ones who struggle with school being mandatory and not 100% tailored to the individual child. So they might not worry too much about not having to get their child to school any more. They’ll be off for some sensory play in the woods, rather than worrying about GCSE Chemistry.

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Are you trying to make a dig at parents who home educate?

Jeschara · Yesterday 22:45

I had my children vaccinated, they are much older now.
If I decided I did not want my children vaccinated I would not be discussing it with anybody. It really is personal choice.
I disagree with what you are suggesting and as other posters say, you cannot deny a child a school place because of parental choice.

fashionqueen0123 · Yesterday 22:46

Some adults my age didn’t get the second MMR booster hence the spreading of mumps at universities about 20 years ago.

So I wouldn’t assume an adult who caught it was totally unvaccinated.

I think they make it mandatory in some areas of Australia as well as parts of the USA.

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 22:47

I heard a quote once "I won't set my child on fire, to keep yours warm". I find this debate highly amusing. You don't have to worry - your children are protected by the amazing vaccines aren't they? 😍

ReplacingTheFilter · Yesterday 22:47

ktopfwcv · Yesterday 22:45

Are you trying to make a dig at parents who home educate?

I wouldn't worry about it. Anyone who thinks kids of an age they are doing GCSE Chemistry still have any interest in play time in the woods is a bit silly. I mean, we still play in the woods, but we call it hiking now.

freshofdablock · Yesterday 22:47

curious79 · Yesterday 22:38

Amazing how parents of vaccinated children are still so worried about their children catching diseases (that they’ve been vaccinated against) from unvaccinated children. Do you see the irony?

Everything about these people is ironic. I contribute it to the 1000 vaccines running through their system.

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:47

Jeschara · Yesterday 22:45

I had my children vaccinated, they are much older now.
If I decided I did not want my children vaccinated I would not be discussing it with anybody. It really is personal choice.
I disagree with what you are suggesting and as other posters say, you cannot deny a child a school place because of parental choice.

Parents would be denying their child a school place as well as denying them basic free healthcare.

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SomersetCider · Yesterday 22:48

Alwaystired23 · Yesterday 21:58

Wouldn't the vaccinated children be protected?

Not necessarily. I had all my childhood vaccinations and for some reason, acquired absolutely no immunity to rubella. This was discovered when I became pregnant and I had to have a separate vaccination as an adult.

Vaccines aren’t 100% effective- most people who are vaccinated against a disease will become immune to it. A few people, like me with rubella, will not. If the vast majority of people who are medically able to have them get their vaccines, it doesn’t really matter that they don’t work for a relatively small number of people, because herd immunity is achieved and the illness stops circulating in the general population. A vaccine doesn’t have to be 100% effective to be worthwhile, it just has to be effective enough to make most people immune so that the disease stops circulating.

If enough people aren’t vaccinated, the disease starts circulating again and becomes a threat to people who either can’t receive vaccines for medical reasons or received the vaccine but didn’t become immune.

Parker231 · Yesterday 22:48

attichoarder · Yesterday 22:08

People are allowed differing views on vaccinations, some choose to reject certain vaccines for good reasons. We are allowed to choose.

Actions have consequences.

Brokentoes85 · Yesterday 22:50

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:41

Of course anyone who refuses vaccines without a good reason is a quack.

Again. opinion not fact.

Batties · Yesterday 22:50

How are they a risk to other children in school if those other children are vaccinated?

Forgedsnak · Yesterday 22:50

YABVU. People should be encouraged to have vaccines but I don’t want to live somewhere that you can’t access education and other tax payer funded services if you don’t take a vaccine. That’s a very slippery slope.

Luddite26 · Yesterday 22:50

my DD caught whooping cough in 1999 even though she had been vaccinated was poorly for weeks.
Then she was the first cohort to have the rushed through HPV vaccine. Been ill ever since. Does it make me a quack to question if every vaccine is worth having?
I have always participated in vaccination programmes unquestionably but some now I do question. I don't have young children now so it's not up to me
but are you having flu and COVID vaccines yourself should they be mandatory now for all.

Gealach · Yesterday 22:51

maybemaybenot17363 · Yesterday 22:47

I heard a quote once "I won't set my child on fire, to keep yours warm". I find this debate highly amusing. You don't have to worry - your children are protected by the amazing vaccines aren't they? 😍

You need to read this thread. Not everyone who is vaccinated is immune and there will also be a group of people who can’t get vaccinated for medical reasons.

ApronSprings · Yesterday 22:53

Forgedsnak · Yesterday 22:50

YABVU. People should be encouraged to have vaccines but I don’t want to live somewhere that you can’t access education and other tax payer funded services if you don’t take a vaccine. That’s a very slippery slope.

It would be the parents stopping them from attending school, rather than it being the state. If they want them to attend school then they need to vaccinate them.

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MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 22:54

I don't agree that children should be punished for the irresponsible decisions of their feckless parents. They have a right to be educated by people who are actually fit to educate them.

I would rather see parents who fail to vaccinate their children prosecuted for neglect.

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