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To dislike Birmingham?

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redeoof · 10/10/2026 20:55

I’ve worked in the city maybe 4 years now .. there really isn’t much appealing about it. I once overheard a woman on the train say she does guided tours for Manc, London and Birmingham - and Bham is a hard sell.

I’ve been coming into New Street station for years and there’s always been construction and it’s never seemed to progressed to anything.

I walk down New Street and actually feel unsafe. It’s depressing and dreary .. and it should be so much more

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FrothyCothy · 10/10/2026 23:52

I’m there regularly for work and it’s fine in the day - not a lover of the city centre at night though.

The re-paving is taking forever for some reason which is not helping the city centre look attractive.

It’s very handy for picking up some present bits around Christmas on my way home!

Rrei · 10/10/2026 23:55

The city centre does not feel nice. It feels dirty and run down. Central London actually (in most parts) feels so much better and nicer.

MonGrainDeSel · 10/10/2026 23:55

And? Scary things happen in all cities from time to time. It mostly doesn't impact on most people who are in those cities for work or because they live there.

Freshrain · 10/10/2026 23:57

ShamedBySiri · 10/10/2026 22:57

Oh dear.

DH is on the waiting list for a cardiac ablation at the QEH. Initially his cardiologist said it would either be Oxford or Birmingham and I was very happy with the Oxford version, I know my way around Oxford, we can get there within a civilised time frame and I did training at the JR. But when he went for his appointment to assess suitability the cardiac surgeon he saw was from a Birmingham…
On the plus side a very nice chap with no vestige of a Brummie accent.
On the assumption he will be expected to show up between 7&8am on the day I have decided we will have to take a train up the day before and stay overnight in a hotel plus another night for me as (all being well and going to plan) it should involve one night in hospital for him. No way am I going to drive at the crack of dawn and navigate a city I don’t know plus there’s nowhere to park.

So if anyone has recommendations for a decent (bed bug free) hotel not too far from the hospital I’d appreciate the advice.

The QE is on the edge of the University of Birmingham.

There is hotel accommodation on site Here

Obviously not sure of your budget, but the University has it's own station on the Cross City Train line, so you could look near any of the stations and have a very easy route in.

I'd look at The Old Farm Hotel or the Bournbrook Inn in Bournville, or, if you want really basic - cheap but it's just to sleep in, look at The Cotteridge Village Inn (not quite as charming as it sounds) but very cheap and a short walk from there to Kings Norton Station which is 3 stops from the University Station. The 2 in Bournville are probably a tad nicer, and the Edgbaston Park nicer still, but I don't know what your budget is like.

Hotels on campus

Campus accommodation.

https://www.birmingham.ac.uk/facilities/mds-cpd/contact/hotels

MonGrainDeSel · 10/10/2026 23:58

I agree that London is nicer but Birmingham is definitely not at the bottom of the worst cities in the UK. I don't think central Birmingham is any dirtier than London.

Rrei · Yesterday 00:03

MonGrainDeSel · 10/10/2026 23:55

And? Scary things happen in all cities from time to time. It mostly doesn't impact on most people who are in those cities for work or because they live there.

It's a dump. There's so many stabbings and murders in Birmingham.

https://www.westmidlands.police.uk/news/west-midlands/news/news/2026/september/teenager-charged-after-birmingham-stabbing/

Melancholyflower · Yesterday 00:06

TheRobotsAreComing · 10/10/2026 23:24

Choosing to go to Uni in bham was my biggest regret. It never felt like home, people weren't particularly friendly, as you say it was always under construction even 10+ years ago! I did not feel safe. Many students were pick-pocketed. Taxis wouldn't take me home because of the area my student accommodation was in.

It's got so much potential but Manchester has far more heart imo

Were you at UoB?

Tadpolesinponds · Yesterday 00:07

According to "Crimerate", weapon possession (per 1000 people) is over 3 times the national average. Here are some rates
Possession of Weapons
3.15 CrimeRate Index
Robbery
2.42 CrimeRate Index
Vehicle Crime
2.11

In Liverpool, possession of weapons is only 1.38 times the national average. Robbery is 1.18. Vehicle crime is 1.07. So Birmingham is far worse in those areas. On the other hand, there are far more drug offences in Liverpool.

darkdaysareover · Yesterday 00:08

Visited for the first time recently and wouldn't run back any time soon. Strangely there seemed to be a disproportionate amount of young men whizzing round on mobility scooters and SO much litter. Weird vibes.

Tadpolesinponds · Yesterday 00:09

teaandtoastwithmarmite · 10/10/2026 23:52

It’s no more dangerous than any other city to be fair. It has quite a nice feel in the city centre.

More than 3 times the average national rate of possession of weapons.

samthepigeon · Yesterday 00:22

redeoof · 10/10/2026 21:08

Yes. I worked on Colmore Row. Worked on the new Paradise Estate (think that’s its name), been to numerous events at the library. Had a friend who lived there so I would stay over and we’d go to bars and have lunch around the canal. She lived about a 15/20 minutes walk from the centre so we would walk.

I gave New Street as an example dear. It’s a Main Street so you shouldn’t feel intimated to walk down it.

I am interested to know what makes you feel intimidated.

MonGrainDeSel · Yesterday 00:25

Rrei · Yesterday 00:03

OK. I quite like it and don't feel unsafe there.

Ilovelurchers · Yesterday 00:26

WhitneySpears · 10/10/2026 22:27

Primark is in no way, shape or form going to entice me to any city no matter how great it apparently is. The bar is low clearly.

Well fair enough, that's you, isn't it?

Primark is very popular though. I was in there today, and it was full of people, seemingly having a nice time and actively choosing to be in there - despite the vast proliferation of weapons I am reading about on this thread, nobody had put a gun to their head as far as I could see. Some of them were even smiling!

So not everybody feels the same.

I mentioned it because once on holiday in Wales I met a woman, and when she recognised my diabolical accent she made me describe the Birmingham Primark to her in great detail and made her husband promise to take her there on their next mini break. (True Facts).

I don't think liking things you don't like is necessarily the definition of a low bar?

Ilovelurchers · Yesterday 00:30

storyinside · 10/10/2026 22:02

Well I've never been there in my life.

Has this thread made you feel tempted to go?

Ilovelurchers · Yesterday 00:31

Melancholyflower · 10/10/2026 23:14

My son was at uni there and witnessed no stabbings in 5 years!

I grew up here until I left for university aged 18. Returned about 7 years ago. So that's 25 years. Never seen a stabbing.

Freshrain · Yesterday 00:32

I'm not sure how the OP can claim to dislike a City of 1.2 million people, when it seems she has gone from New Street Train Station to Colmore Row, about 1/2 a mile from the train station.
The City is vast, not a tiny route from the OP's workplace to the station.

Quite frankly, I don't think much of Euston with it's way of holding all travellers in a pen until the last minute where everyone has to rush for the platform, but I wouldn't write off the whole City of London on that one small part. Hmm

teaandtoastwithmarmite · Yesterday 00:36

Tadpolesinponds · Yesterday 00:09

More than 3 times the average national rate of possession of weapons.

I’ve not seen any

teaandtoastwithmarmite · Yesterday 00:37

darkdaysareover · Yesterday 00:08

Visited for the first time recently and wouldn't run back any time soon. Strangely there seemed to be a disproportionate amount of young men whizzing round on mobility scooters and SO much litter. Weird vibes.

Where was this? Not seen any young men on mobility scooters

samthepigeon · Yesterday 00:38

Botanique · 10/10/2026 23:17

Was that an attempt to make Chmarket happen ? Grin

How would you even pronounce it?

I hoped it was a cheese market. I like cheese.

gillefc82 · Yesterday 00:47

I’ve never lived in Birmingham but during the past 25 years of working, I have visited the city centre a number of times, as well as visiting other nearby towns (Solihull and Oldbury).

I count myself fortunate to have lived and worked in some of the best cities in the country: I was born in Liverpool and have lived and/or worked in London, Oxford, Windsor and Manchester, as well as making numerous business trips to cities like Edinburgh, Cardiff and Leeds.

IMO Birmingham is no different to the vast majority of UK cities - it has some nice parts and some awful parts. And whilst I’d have to admit to not being the biggest fan of the accent (yes, possibly a bit rich coming from a Scouser! 😂), the biggest plus for Birmingham is its people. All the Brummies I’ve ever met have been personable, down to earth and genuine. Plus, as an Evertonian, I do have a bit of a soft spot for Villa: a proper club, with a proud heritage and history and a decent and knowledgeable fan base.

Redpaisley · Yesterday 00:48

Dexternight · 10/10/2026 21:47

It is like any other city in the UK except London, which is the best.

No it’s not any city in UK expect London. It’s not like Bristol, Brighton, Edinburgh, Sheffield, Manchester, Bath, etc.

LadyWiddiothethird · Yesterday 00:59

I like Birmingham,feel safe there,never seen anything untoward in all the years I have shopped and eaten there.Manchester on the other hand is dire,my daughter lived there,in the centre.Dreadful place.

Tadpolesinponds · Yesterday 01:05

@Ilovelurchers Has Primark suddenly become an aspirational place to shop? You're putting a weird amount of emphasis on what I thought was a very basic, cheapo shop?

FarmGirl78 · Yesterday 01:40

I lived just outside Brum for 8 years and have very fomg memories of it as my ex lived there, and I had many happy times with him and also groups of friends in and around the city centre. I've just been much since I moved back home, but was there last year briefly and didn't notice it had changed much. Maybe it was always a shithole but I never noticed because it was OUR shithole? 🤷🏻‍♀️

I will say one thing though. It's a fucking pain in the arse that they only signpost things ON the junction and not before. "Dudley? Yes of course, you needed the turning 3 yards ago" 🙄 I have no idea why they do it. Manchester is the same. So fucking stupid.

Ilovelurchers · Yesterday 01:56

Tadpolesinponds · Yesterday 01:05

@Ilovelurchers Has Primark suddenly become an aspirational place to shop? You're putting a weird amount of emphasis on what I thought was a very basic, cheapo shop?

The Birmingham Primark is a flagship store. So people do get quite excited about it, yes - I have spoken to lots of people in real life who really enjoy going. It's got a Greggs in it and everything. Not people on Mumsnet, obviously - I have apparently badly misjudged my audience!

But to be fair to me it was far from the only positive thing I mentioned about Birmingham!