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AIBU to think that saying you're menopausal is just bragging about not being dead?

22 replies

GildedFrames · 06/10/2026 11:59

Lighthearted.

What other things are women bragging about when they talk about their lives?

Mentioning having a hair cut - bragging about having hair!

Mentioning period pain - bragging about being fertile!

Mentioning a conversation they had - bragging about the ability to speak!

OP posts:
Brightonkebab · 06/10/2026 12:01

are you ok?

Wishimaywishimight · 06/10/2026 12:05

Brightonkebab · 06/10/2026 12:01

are you ok?

Indeed 🙄

MyManinCaracas · 06/10/2026 12:07

What’s the point of this?

GoodkneeBadKnee · 06/10/2026 12:08

Brightonkebab · 06/10/2026 12:01

are you ok?

I'm thinking not.

somekindofdoughnut · 06/10/2026 12:09

Weirdest thread title in a long time, well done.

LaLoba · 06/10/2026 12:10

😂

RampantIvy · 06/10/2026 12:11

???

Thepeopleversuswork · 06/10/2026 12:11

What? I know the menopause has had a bit of a reboot in recent years but I don't think anyone's bragging about it...

ThatGoldScroller · 06/10/2026 12:12

You’re only posting to brag about how “original” your humour is.

Beryls · 06/10/2026 12:12

😂😂😂 I don't know why but the title has really tickled me

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2026 12:14

I think it’s a TAAT, isn’t it?

CremeDeMure · 06/10/2026 12:15

Is this in response to the thread where the OP says that women who say they are perimenopausal is vain and trying to pretend they are still young?

It is equally as deranged.

Enigma54 · 06/10/2026 12:16

WTAF?? Weird thread OP. Are you bored??

Ecstaticmotion · 06/10/2026 12:17

Haha very good!

Justbrieme · 06/10/2026 12:21

I’m nearly 50 and I’m feeling incredibly, incredibly lucky to not ever have needed to mention the word menopause to anyone not even once, not even to my GP.

Plenty of my friends are in different situations with it and they bring it up but it is not even on my radar.

Ereshkigalangcleg · 06/10/2026 12:26

CremeDeMure · 06/10/2026 12:15

Is this in response to the thread where the OP says that women who say they are perimenopausal is vain and trying to pretend they are still young?

It is equally as deranged.

That was my assumption

Change2banon · 06/10/2026 12:28

Not sure about lighthearted .. more like stupid 🤷‍♀️

SleeplessRoads · 06/10/2026 12:30

So tempted to make a comment that I think the same about cancer sufferers, but I don’t think my inbox can take another barrage 🤣

Livergoingtogivemeup · 06/10/2026 12:37

WTAF ?

Gymnopedie · 06/10/2026 12:40

It's a TAAT. On another thread the OP asserted that menopause and peri are the same thing and that women only say peri because they want to show off that they're still young, and not wrinkly and menopausal.

daisyydaisyy · 06/10/2026 12:44

Come again?

Gymnopedie · 06/10/2026 12:48

To get it you have to have read the OP of this thread:

https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/5585966-aibu-people-calling-it-peri-menopause-instead-of-menopause

I suspect this thread may be deleted as a TAAT.

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