AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

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Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

becoming a millionaire isn’t something everyone would do anything for.

I think BB might have sort of sexual detachment characteristic which enables her to flog her body akin to an offering on a butchers table.

As for school gates and foaming at mouths, I can’t say it’s a topic I’ve heard or can imagine anyone I’ve met broaching, who wants to debate the merits of a woman seeking a record for the most amount of penises she can take. Nah, just nah.

not pretending anything, my baggy fanny comment was used with the intent of sarcasm.. wasn't intended to offend half of you who are then pissed off by a comment i made about Bonnie Blue Waffle 😂😂 wasn't directed towards any of you personally was it? no! but atleast it goes to show, whether you love or hate her personally, people will always find a way of trying defend her 🙄 shame.

BB couldn't exist if the men weren't there to make it possible

She’s ill, and illness is never amusing or entertaining.

It's disgusting.

For me, the most disturbing thing is that her mum appears to be encouraging her

Let's be honest, a lot of the shit that has led her to sleeping with 1000 guys for clicks and fame will have been fermented in her upbringing - aka toxic and dysfunctional parents, one of which is now acting as her cheerleader. She may or not have been subject to SA outside of the home and so what she does now seems normalised to her, with the added incentives of doing porn seeming initially 'easy', highly lucrative and also placing her in the centre of attention.

Am I suggesting shame and abandonment by her mother? no

Enablement and some form of secondary gain (her own 15 minutes of fame probably being very financially looked after by her daughter) are not going to help Bonnie Blue long-term.

You can easily forecast the outcome by looking at people who relied largely on their looks to become a car-crash with a willing audience like Katie Price

Can't fix core issues with money and popularity, it's a temporary high with a nasty hangover

apologies felix. take it your a cat then? got alot of animals on thread here today haven't we 😂😂

I’m pretty sure I understand sarcasm but I can’t understand how your comment was sarcasm. Can you spell it out for me please?

Saying that women who sleep with lots of men have baggy fannies is a well-known sexist insult. I’ve seen men say that any more than one partner makes a woman “loose”, so “lots” isn’t reserved for women who make a job out of it.

Objecting to this kind of sexism isn’t a defence of BB. I can’t stand her, but I can see why you’ve been called out for perpetuating a horrible and untrue stereotype about women.

if you must know, i do have a daughter.. and i can guarantee you, she won't be selling her fanny like Bonnie Blue Waffle ✌🏻 will be raising my daughter to better standards.

I mean, yes, I agree that she doesn't appear to care one bit what other people think of her. And she's clearly been very successful at getting attention and making money from it.

But I really struggle with the rest of this.

“Hopefully her message can spread to all the repressive corners of the globe where women do not have the opportunity to work for themselves.”
I'm not sure that telling women who are repressed that empowerment means making money from increasingly extreme sexual content for men is really progress.

She's an adult and she's perfectly entitled to make her own choices. But just because a woman chooses to do something doesn't automatically make it empowering for women in general. And making a lot of money from something doesn't automatically make it a feminist statement either.

😂

@KermitsABadInfluence last post was meant for you!

Wow mumsnet is crazy today! Im getting over a bug so doom scrolling more than usual. I watched a documentary about BB and it was so depressing. She had no friends and can't ever go out without being hounded. How is that worth the money? I think it's sad that women have fought for years to be seen as equal and yet she supports women being seen as sex objects...it's just frustrating. And the whole baby thing is honestly so disturbing, what's all that about?!

Better work on your own attitude towards women and their bodies before declaring your standards for raising a daughter. Currently all you've shown is she won't be talking to you openly.

Also, you do realise blue waffle isnt a real thing, right? I genuinely don't know if you think you're being clever or funny, because you're spectacularly missing the mark on both.

I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it.

Really? Being a hit man? Drug dealer? Mafia?

Totes respect babes

Dammit, too late

I don’t follow BB at all and don’t really know much about her other than the ‘1.000 men’ thing. Didn’t know she’d had a baby. She comes across as a severely mentally damaged woman. I certainly don’t support anything she does.

my intentions as stated previously was to be funny/sarcastic.. and i hope today, it has provided some funny entertainment for those that maybe silently lurking watching this thread laughing their baggy fanny's off like myself ✌🏻😂😂 atleast i don't have to sell myself cheap in order to entertain 😘 now, bye Kermit, hope you have had a lovely day.

yeah, that would really mess up your childhood/teenage years and adulthood

1/mother never there, or if she is single, may bring home random and potentially dangerous men regularly
2/kids feeling unable to bond with mum, emotional neglect - largely unintentional in many cases, but an outcome of the circumstances
3/kids left to themselves, , worrying if she is going to come home that night
4/drugs/alcohol addiction in the home
5/regular social services involvement and police at the house for welfare checks etc
6/Possible arrests with children having to stay with relatives/foster parents/taken into care

ticking a lot of the ACE trauma scoring criteria in that list

You have made a million through your own business. One would assume you are a clever, astute girl and yet you are keeping up with the shenanigans of a lowly "porn star".
Aye right 😂

I think to answer OP’s question you have to separate the how BB has got the point she is at which the “achievement” (I’m not sure of the right word). Generally I’m pretty indifferent to her, she’s out there and she exists, doesn’t impact my day to day life. In some ways it’s also fairly easy to acknowledge that she’s a lot smarter than people assume given her ability to court attention and get rewards from that. If that’s how she chooses to earn money then so be it.

I saw an advert for a channel 4 documentary the other day, I think it was about police, her van was in whatever city it was and there were girls and boys flocking to it in at least equal numbers. In many ways people seem to think it’s only disgusting old men that are interested but I think the fact that people of varying ages and genders seem to support her (for clarity I don’t support her) is an interesting thing.

@xXMummyTo6Xx Like PPs, I’m not sure you understand what sarcasm is 🥴 Sarcasm is centred around saying things that you don’t really mean, or even saying the opposite of what you mean. So when you made that remark about a woman’s vagina, you actually meant the opposite?

Shit, shouda checked who posted before I replied.
Debbie you really, really, really need to get yourself a more enriching, fulfilling hobby.
Maybe read a book

I have a close friend whose mother was a sex worker and yes, you are spot on here, and there was worse too.

Where I'm from (geographically, economically, socially) a "day school" is just a school.