Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

376 replies

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:43

Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

  1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
  2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
  3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

OP posts:
xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:01

was basically using it as an insult towards Bonnie Blue Waffle which i found to be funny 🙂 i don't agree with what she does 🤢🤢 pure disgusting, even more so when she bring's a baby into her "industry".. she is not a mother!! she is simply a WHORE!!

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:02

@Waitingfordoggo forgot to tag you in my post.

mydiorsandals · 03/10/2026 16:02

This reply has been deleted

Message deleted by MNHQ. Here's a link to our Talk Guidelines.

Now that's naughty !
You should know that having lots of sex doesn't make your fanny go slack - childbirth does that. So that's why she's neatly sidestepped a vaginal delivery to keep Ms Pussy in pristine condition.
I think she has a lot of (stupid) followers and most of the men that attend her events look like they've come from the Small Boat arrivals processing centre at Dover docks.
Make of that what you will.
As long as people keep giving her clicks she'll keep going.
However, it must be lonely to have all that money and no-one special to share it with.

HorrorPudding · 03/10/2026 16:06

I watched the C4 documentary and have read a few things about her. None of it has felt like female empowerment or a woman controlling the narrative She seems happy about it and is no doubt making a lot of money, but I can’t help feeling that she will pay a higher psychological price than any of the men in her orbit.

At 27 she is at the peak of life in many ways and probably feels pretty invincible, but the damage to her will likely be easier to gauge later when she is older. We can be as convinced as she appears to be that she is a robust character playing a savvy and cynical game and being financially rewarded for it but I think the day she wants or has to stop is when the true psychological cost to her may come into view. The money may not be enough of a compensation then.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:14

mydiorsandals · 03/10/2026 16:02

Now that's naughty !
You should know that having lots of sex doesn't make your fanny go slack - childbirth does that. So that's why she's neatly sidestepped a vaginal delivery to keep Ms Pussy in pristine condition.
I think she has a lot of (stupid) followers and most of the men that attend her events look like they've come from the Small Boat arrivals processing centre at Dover docks.
Make of that what you will.
As long as people keep giving her clicks she'll keep going.
However, it must be lonely to have all that money and no-one special to share it with.

i bet you it's not even her baby, how can it be if she claimed she couldn't have kids? she is very clever at making money through the rage-bait content she creates for money! but like i first stated, she is nothing special, any woman could do what she does! but i would like to think the majority of us, have much higher self respect & morals in ourselves to not do the disgusting things she has done.. their is other ways to make money, and the way she does, i don't agree with at all! especially involving the baby, why bring the child into her dirty world?? - it's all just to create more rage-bait content which in return will go into her back account nicely 💰💰 imagine all the dirty pedo's out their now getting a sick twisted kick out of Bonnie Blue Waffle & her baby 🤢🤢 makes me so angry.

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 16:14

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:01

was basically using it as an insult towards Bonnie Blue Waffle which i found to be funny 🙂 i don't agree with what she does 🤢🤢 pure disgusting, even more so when she bring's a baby into her "industry".. she is not a mother!! she is simply a WHORE!!

Ah ok, yeah you’ve misunderstood sarcasm. An insult that the writer thinks sounds funny isn’t sarcasm. It’s just an insult that the writer thinks is funny. But as you now know, many just see it as misogyny rather than humour.

For the record, your use of ‘whore’ here is also not sarcasm.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:17

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 16:14

Ah ok, yeah you’ve misunderstood sarcasm. An insult that the writer thinks sounds funny isn’t sarcasm. It’s just an insult that the writer thinks is funny. But as you now know, many just see it as misogyny rather than humour.

For the record, your use of ‘whore’ here is also not sarcasm.

i wasn't intending the use of whore to be sarcastic, it's a statement of fact, as that is what she is! 🤢🤢

whiteband · 03/10/2026 16:18

I agree that she is deliberately provocative including using a doll (or at lea least I hope it was) pretending it's her baby when doing promotional work for her pornographic content and that people who get all wound up about her are doing exactly what she wants them to so I don't think you are unreasonable for having your reasons to support her but I don't personally agree with you.

Some things are more valuable than wealth and that their are things that are an overwhelming harm in the world and that breaching those just to make a buck suggests she is not a good person.

I don't find her entertaining or even that interesting, just another symptom of the the general brain rot in todays culture.

JasmineMac · 03/10/2026 16:18

This aibu is peak pick me girl.

Even hearing the words bonnie blue makes me queasy, conjures the same inherent emotion as words like herpes and gonorrhea 🤢😂

There are literally 1000's of women the world over to admire/aspire to, reffing someone like her is just fucking baffling.

Superhansrantowindsor · 03/10/2026 16:21

Pretty warped priorities saying you respect any young person being a millionaire no matter how they got there. So is stealing ok? Owning a brothel? Conning old ladies out of their pension?
Anybody with a half pretty face and a slim body could do what she’s doing and make a mint. Prostitution is the oldest profession there is after all.

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 16:21

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:17

i wasn't intending the use of whore to be sarcastic, it's a statement of fact, as that is what she is! 🤢🤢

Your comment about her body also wasn’t sarcasm.

SainteCroissante · 03/10/2026 16:22

To quote you:
"I have respect (...) for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it."

I don't.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:22

JasmineMac · 03/10/2026 16:18

This aibu is peak pick me girl.

Even hearing the words bonnie blue makes me queasy, conjures the same inherent emotion as words like herpes and gonorrhea 🤢😂

There are literally 1000's of women the world over to admire/aspire to, reffing someone like her is just fucking baffling.

can't believe people go as far as using the initials 'BB'.. always related those to big brother 🙄🤣🤣

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:23

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 16:21

Your comment about her body also wasn’t sarcasm.

don't need to repeat yourself twice thankyou.

Felixthewonderdog · 03/10/2026 16:25

wouls be surprised if BB started this thread herself

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:28

wouldn't suprise me.. who's to say im not Bonnie Blue Waffle 😉 haha!

ChorizoDog · 03/10/2026 16:33

It doesn’t matter whether the baby was real
or not, it’s what it represents. Sexualising babies and even post partum women is just a whole new llevel of low.

saying she had a c-section so it’s all perfect down ‘there’. So what all women that have had vaginal births are what, defected?

she’s just disgusting.

Imisscoffee2021 · 03/10/2026 16:36

Yes you are. I didn't give a shit about her using her own body to do whatever with, ut using the image of even a fake child in anything remotely sexual is vile and disgusting and in fact illegal. She has done this. It isn't a joke and it isn't funny. She can debase her own body as much as she wants, but if the baby is real then she's risked it's health and if its fake then she's using imagery of a child in sexually coded imagery which is gross.

Isittimeformynapyet · 03/10/2026 16:36

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 16:23

don't need to repeat yourself twice thankyou.

@Waitingfordoggo only "repeated" herself once.

Words can be so tricky can't they...

ChocolateCinderToffee · 03/10/2026 16:37

SUPPORT her? Why do you need an opinion at all? I’m supremely indifferent.

Yupstillhere · 03/10/2026 16:37

Ha ha ha, okay op. The imagination is strong with this one.

Namechnages · 03/10/2026 16:37

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:17

and that is why pelvic floor excersises are important! it takes 6 weeks for the vagina to heal after child birth, every woman that has a child isn't walking around with a great big hole between her legs is she!!?? im going to end my comment with this thought... baby 6 took 10 minutes for me to push out - so figure that one out 😆 it's a thread about Bonnie Blue, not me or my vagina. Don't want to argue with anyone!

It's pretty disgusting to talk about a woman like that. I expect it from incels and Reddit, not Mumsnet.

And would you say the same about a woman who had sex 1000 times with the same man... She basically had sex for 24 hours. Does the same oenis stretch it the way you state many does?

Also it is well known that it is false and a misogynistic term meant to shame women.

Cheese55 · 03/10/2026 16:38

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 15:39

if you must know, i do have a daughter.. and i can guarantee you, she won't be selling her fanny like Bonnie Blue Waffle ✌🏻 will be raising my daughter to better standards.

So you do realise that talking about women and their sexual 'morals' is also internalised misogyny

PrincessHoneysuckle · 03/10/2026 16:38

I think you've jumped the shark saying you were a millionaire by 27

ForEagerOliveScroller · 03/10/2026 16:38

I have to agree I think she ragebaits everyone in all honesty and I am not entirely convinced how true her stunts are - to have had sex with all those men it would work out at one a minute or something like that.

I do draw a line at her bringing a child into the equation - before that I would have agreed with everything you said

Swipe left for the next trending thread