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AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

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KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:43

Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

  1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
  2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
  3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

OP posts:
OtterlyAstounding · 03/10/2026 14:09

I think her ragebait is obvious and boring, and her lack of self-worth and sexual extremism are nothing new.

I'm not sure why she's garnered so much attention.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 03/10/2026 14:09

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:06

don't assume that just because i have 6 kids, i piss & shit myself & have a baggy fanny!! 100% the opposite actually which i don't need to answer to a stranger on the internet!! haven't ever slept with 1000 men either 🤢🤢 you must have a right outlook on mother's!!?? have you got any kids??

I think the point the PP was making is that if BB is as ‘stretched’ as you say, 6 babies (or any amount really), would stretch her way more than lots of penises.

At least that’s how I read it.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:10

ShitFacedShakespeare · 03/10/2026 14:03

Harsh, but probably biologically true, assuming vaginal births.

vaginal birth's may cause a vagina to stretch in order to push a baby out, but that is something the vagina is designed to do!! but i have to disagree with the fact of multiple births vaginally, cause a baggy fanny, because it hasn't personally for me!! find it insulting how it can naively be suggested.

Purplelightening · 03/10/2026 14:11

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:06

don't assume that just because i have 6 kids, i piss & shit myself & have a baggy fanny!! 100% the opposite actually which i don't need to answer to a stranger on the internet!! haven't ever slept with 1000 men either 🤢🤢 you must have a right outlook on mother's!!?? have you got any kids??

How many many men does a women have to sleep with until her 'fanny becomes baggy'? I have 2 children. I just know biological vaginal births do effect the elasticity of the vagina more than having sex. I think its very misogynistic to use such crude terms to describe a women. In fact the term it's self is used to berate sexually active women. I'd be interested to know if you think that a man who has slept with many women has a thinner penis?

Chaarlene · 03/10/2026 14:12

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 14:00

One of the best day schools in the country. It has came up a few times and she is not a popular figure.

Then change the narrative. Instead of loling at the foamers, ask them why she is the focus of their froth and not the 1000s of skanky blokes lining up to shag her? Open up the conversation with your sons. Tell them to do better. Don't hold her up as a legit 'how to get rich quick' example to your daughters. Come on. Less rofling, more role model.

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:12

I really couldn't give a shit who she sleeps with, how many times or anything else.

Bringing a baby into it is abhorrent. Even if the baby isnt real she is using baby paraphanalia to promote pornography, which is not defensible on any level.

RaininSummer · 03/10/2026 14:14

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ChaToilLeam · 03/10/2026 14:15

The end does not justify the means.

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:16

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:10

vaginal birth's may cause a vagina to stretch in order to push a baby out, but that is something the vagina is designed to do!! but i have to disagree with the fact of multiple births vaginally, cause a baggy fanny, because it hasn't personally for me!! find it insulting how it can naively be suggested.

So what makes you think sleeping with multiple men would cause a 'baggy fanny'?

Funny how its insulting when directed at you, but you're happy to casually throw around the myth that having multiple partners would cause this to happen. I hope you dont have daughters .

OriginalSkang · 03/10/2026 14:16

So you aren't actually supporting her in any way?

If what she does is your idea of entertainment, then good for you I suppose! But if you think what she does is a shining light in a depressing world... you need to get some help!

OtterlyAstounding · 03/10/2026 14:16

Biologically speaking, three or more vaginal births do tend to cause permanent changes to the vagina iirc, but to label that 'baggier' is rather misogynistic.

Equally, having sex with multiple men at such high rates probably isn't great in terms of thrush, bacterial vaginosis, and UTIs, but to say it would give a woman a 'wizard's sleeve' is pretty misogynistic.

The capacity of BB's vagina really isn't something I'd consider relevant to the discussion, personally.

Jerrybalanitis · 03/10/2026 14:16

I think she is fragile and it wont end well. I question how the thousands of men, everyday, family men, single men, old men, young men in this. Each and every one are accountable. This isnt transactional porn, it isnt reality tv. It is getting horny about sleazy, annonymous, taboo sex with one vulnerable young woman. If I was the mum of a 16 year old boy I would blame her but would also be so, so disappointed in the man he was showing himself to be.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 03/10/2026 14:17

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:10

vaginal birth's may cause a vagina to stretch in order to push a baby out, but that is something the vagina is designed to do!! but i have to disagree with the fact of multiple births vaginally, cause a baggy fanny, because it hasn't personally for me!! find it insulting how it can naively be suggested.

It’s not a given, but if what you say about BB is true, then I think babies would definitely stretch it more than penises.

I’ve never seen one as big as a baby, so it would make sense.

PeasOff · 03/10/2026 14:17

I don't give her enough head space to give a single fuck to be honest.

That being said of she's using a baby to promote porn that's grim AF and completely unacceptable - hope social services are involved if that's the case. Just because someone has money it doesn't make them a decent, responsible or safe parent.

ThatLoudCat · 03/10/2026 14:17

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:52

I would agree, however there is a 0% chance this baby is real. None of it makes sense.

She seems to have no interest in motherhood or any objections to abortion so what would you possibly have to gain over just faking it? Moreover, she has already done this.

Even if the baby isn't real, she's still directly appealing to pedos.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:17

Purplelightening · 03/10/2026 14:11

How many many men does a women have to sleep with until her 'fanny becomes baggy'? I have 2 children. I just know biological vaginal births do effect the elasticity of the vagina more than having sex. I think its very misogynistic to use such crude terms to describe a women. In fact the term it's self is used to berate sexually active women. I'd be interested to know if you think that a man who has slept with many women has a thinner penis?

and that is why pelvic floor excersises are important! it takes 6 weeks for the vagina to heal after child birth, every woman that has a child isn't walking around with a great big hole between her legs is she!!?? im going to end my comment with this thought... baby 6 took 10 minutes for me to push out - so figure that one out 😆 it's a thread about Bonnie Blue, not me or my vagina. Don't want to argue with anyone!

IdaGlossop · 03/10/2026 14:18

I am more sad for than repulsed by Bonnie Blue, her enabling parents and the men whose morals are so low they are prepared to support her by having sex with her. She is already f*cked up, literally and metaphorically and is likely to become more so in the future. Posting a newborn baby on social media as part of an announcement that your vagina is fine because you had a Caesarian crosses a line. I find nothing to support at all. She has no respect for herself and is doing the rest of us a disservice.

Pinkclarko · 03/10/2026 14:19

The people foaming at the mouth will be the only ones whose opinions you hear about though. Not many going online to announce how uninterested they are in it. Suspect the majority are just thinking ‘ew that’s weird’ then get on living their lives.

In you want to be entertained by over invested people then I imagine it is entertaining. Pretty low hanging fruit though.

Also think people are mainly appalled by this being a thing in this day and age, it’s a bit bleak. I don’t think they’re personally offended by her actions specifically.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:20

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:16

So what makes you think sleeping with multiple men would cause a 'baggy fanny'?

Funny how its insulting when directed at you, but you're happy to casually throw around the myth that having multiple partners would cause this to happen. I hope you dont have daughters .

i was been sarcastic! not a matter of fact & chucking in statistics 🙄😂

Ethelspagetti · 03/10/2026 14:20

Totaldramallama · 03/10/2026 13:57

I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it.

That's an interesting take on it. Some of us, thankfully, value human decency and ethics over money. Unfortunately there's not enough of us

Strongly agree with this.

JoleneJoleneJoleneJoleneJolene · 03/10/2026 14:21

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:52

I would agree, however there is a 0% chance this baby is real. None of it makes sense.

She seems to have no interest in motherhood or any objections to abortion so what would you possibly have to gain over just faking it? Moreover, she has already done this.

Regardless if the baby is real or not, its not ok to include children in pornography advertising

ThatLoudCat · 03/10/2026 14:21

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:17

and that is why pelvic floor excersises are important! it takes 6 weeks for the vagina to heal after child birth, every woman that has a child isn't walking around with a great big hole between her legs is she!!?? im going to end my comment with this thought... baby 6 took 10 minutes for me to push out - so figure that one out 😆 it's a thread about Bonnie Blue, not me or my vagina. Don't want to argue with anyone!

Okay, so if six babies doesn't make it "baggy", then why would any amount of cocks?

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:22

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:20

i was been sarcastic! not a matter of fact & chucking in statistics 🙄😂

Ah so just casual harmful misogyny thrown about for the sake of it? Thought so 🙄

JoleneJoleneJoleneJoleneJolene · 03/10/2026 14:22

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:49

I didn’t say it was? I have looked this up out of morbid curiosity and she seems to be enjoying herself so I don’t think it’s a particularly big deal.

I just love watching the news, the other mums at the school gates or mumsnet foam at the mouth in response to whatever nonsense she comes out with.

"Pick me!"

ShitFacedShakespeare · 03/10/2026 14:23

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:17

and that is why pelvic floor excersises are important! it takes 6 weeks for the vagina to heal after child birth, every woman that has a child isn't walking around with a great big hole between her legs is she!!?? im going to end my comment with this thought... baby 6 took 10 minutes for me to push out - so figure that one out 😆 it's a thread about Bonnie Blue, not me or my vagina. Don't want to argue with anyone!

It only took 10 minutes due to the stretching from previous births I expect.

That’s what a few of us have been trying to tell you.

No penis is the size of a baby, so your comment about BB was rather odd.

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