AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

[KeenFatball]

Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

I'm not reporting them.

I imagine you'll name change through sheer embarrassment though if you don't get them deleted.

Nobody wanted to discuss your vagina, we wanted to discuss your misogyny.

Don't engage with DebbieSavage, unless you're aware that they're not a serious poster. Some kind of weird, attention seeking, shitposting.

Christ, descending into who has the baggiest fanny is a bit depressing but bet OP is loving it.

How do you "support" her? I'm not really sure how she makes her money - is it through social media? If so then no you're not being U to follow her there. OF? Wouldn't be my cup of tea but you do you.

I think she's an attractive young woman. I think she is probably very damaged and I think she is likely harming herself with her career. I don't think she's as smart as she thinks she is or as in control of her decisions as she thinks she is. I can't empathise with her chasing fame and money at all costs. I'm not as money hungry. Being an accountant or whatever for £150k a year sounds pretty good to me. I hope she can give it all up in a year or so and live a quiet anonymous life somewhere with the baby if it exits.

I've not just heard of it, I actually know what it means! 😂

So it was just a throwaway comment? I'll accept that, but if you like using horrible misogynistic terms to get a laugh you really need to pick your audience.

(for the record, I'm not one of those posters who just label everything misogyny, but some terms are nothing but and this is one of them)

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I don't think internalised misogyny is funny - it's pretty sad you can't even recognise what you're doing either. Perhaps your tight fanny and strong pelvic muscles are restricting the blood flow to other parts of your body.

@KeenFatball so you need to mention you are a multimillionaire in your 20s.
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I feel like the wild derailment of this thread is a great indicator of just how uninteresting Bonnie Blue really is 😁

not going to name change, i have nothing to be ashamed about!!?? don't see me or my vagina all over internet do you like the famous Bonnie Blue Waffle do you 🙄 think you need to frog-off kermit 🤣🤣

Not to one-up Mummyof6, but I’m that ‘narrow’ that my midwife and consultant were concerned that it would hinder a vaginal birth and contribute to a very long, uncomfortable labour. And they were right!
Perhaps Mummyof6 thinks that her “tighter” muscles meant easier pushing? When realistically, it was because her canal was more lax. Like you said, no shame in that, but biologically more accurate.

I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it.

Okay, I'll put Pablo Escobar in your list of respected people 😀

I watched a documentary about her (Lily). One of the Stacey Dooley meets… ones.
Her parents seemed lovely, they told her they’d sell their house and give her the money to stop her selling her body. They were clearly devastated about what she does.

I've certainly seen you talking a lot about it, and what other people think of it all over the internet.

Presumably for attention.

I am glad that you lack the capacity to be embarrassed for yourself. Must make life a lot easier.

You laugh at "people" for "falling for it" yet you can't wait to see what she says and does next? This makes you just as weird as the "people" you seem to look down upon.

I'm happy to say I don't know who she is or what she does, and I don't just randomly "like" people I see on TV. I save that for people I know in real life.

You seem heavily invested in her life, so maybe take a look at yourself before you laugh at "people" for "falling for it".

I wouldn’t want to get rich the way she has, some
of us value other things.

Trust me, I know sarcasm; and what you posted, ain’t it.
You’re acting all hurt now because you’re being called out for your misogyny.
You’re the one that needs to go away and grow up!

The point is you can't make hugely misogynistic comments and then pretend it was banter.

Blimey, its like Facebook in here! 😂

I think the phrase 'The true measure of any society can be found in how it treats (or protects) its most vulnerable members' can be applied when it comes to people like Bonnie Blue. A well-rounded, financially secure, supported young woman would probably not want to film herself sleeping with multiple men for money, but what about vulnerable young girls that see this behaviour normalised? Young girls are trafficked and pressured into sex work every single day and this sort of thing glamorises sex work.

I couldn't give a shit what Bonnie Blue gets up to in her free time and understand the majority of it is bullshit and stunts to grab attention. But not everyone does and that's where the problem lies. Also she uses underage sex and paedophilia to sell her content. Imagine if it was a man driving around in a bus hunting for underage teens or holding a baby on a bed surrounded by men wearing blue balaclavas associated with past gang bangs?

Why don't trolls get banned any more? I suppose MN like the comments.

I assume this is a wind-up?

I think she's mentally ill in some way and I feel very sorry for the baby.

There's a video of her doing a collab with some petrol head, she has an Aston Martin with a custom paint job, which is basically lots of images of her face plastered across the car - found that part quite disturbing and the number plate is cringe.

She's a multi-millionaire, plenty of money to access the top echelon of therapists in a few years time

i wasn't the first person to bring my fanny into this 😂😂 but im going to defend it, it has served me well 🙂 birthed my 6 beautiful children 🥰 thanks

@xXMummyTo6Xx

that phrase is disgusting and demeaning to women. Please refrain from using talk like that please

who's acting hurt?? find it all hilarious if im honest 😂😂

Great, thanks for yet more information about your vagina 👍

Again, I hope none of your children are girls.