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AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

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KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:43

Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

  1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
  2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
  3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

OP posts:
xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:49

OtterlyAstounding · 03/10/2026 14:37

It is a biological fact though that repeated vaginal births permanently alter the vagina, even with strong pelvic floor muscles. However I doubt that's the sort of thing that's usually noticeable to the casual observer, so really not relevant.

It's silly to say that having sex with a thousand men would make a woman's vagina looser, though, and reeks of misogynistic attitudes. Now, perhaps if she'd birthed a thousand children...! 😅

i understand what your saying, my vagina isn't tight like it was prior to having 0 kids i must admit that one, but the fact of the matter is, im still tight even though i have had 6 kids according to my partner, if that makes sense? i don't have any pro-lapses, have got very good bowel and bladder control - end of day, my partner is happy and sexually satisfied with my vagina 🙂 safe to say, im not having anymore though as baby 6 was a traumatic birth if im honest.

Imseriouslyyouguys · 03/10/2026 14:50

“Everyone wants to be rich” er, speak for yourself. No they don’t. Comfortable is more than enough for me. And I’d rather live in poverty than behave like her.

“it’s just a bit of braindead entertainment”
it’s really not. It’s sending such a damaging message about sex and women to young people.

CamillaMcCauley · 03/10/2026 14:50

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:47

I'd be happy for her. She's working hard and providing for her family. Plus it will be my earliest memory of being on video, how amazing would that be!

And don't knock people for their kinks. Some women might enjoy the feeling of being urinated or defecated on and that's totally normal, no need to shame anyone OK?

lol have you met anyone who’s mother was a sex worker? It’s truly not the happy-clappy story of female empowerment that you’d like to pitch it as.

Isittimeformynapyet · 03/10/2026 14:50

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:47

I'd be happy for her. She's working hard and providing for her family. Plus it will be my earliest memory of being on video, how amazing would that be!

And don't knock people for their kinks. Some women might enjoy the feeling of being urinated or defecated on and that's totally normal, no need to shame anyone OK?

Don't go to your local munch and tell everyone they're normal! They'd be devastated 😄

MiladyCBerserko · 03/10/2026 14:50

Totally agree with you, OP. I can't stand the puritanical outrage targeting her instead of the men engaging with her (it's always easy to target and police women 🙄) and she seems to get a kick out of trolling everyone. I hope she continues to make bank!

OtterlyAstounding · 03/10/2026 14:51

CamillaMcCauley · 03/10/2026 14:50

lol have you met anyone who’s mother was a sex worker? It’s truly not the happy-clappy story of female empowerment that you’d like to pitch it as.

I think I recognise old Debbie as being a lover of endless satire on other threads. So I'm pretty sure she's just being as extreme as possible for the 'lolz'.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:52

ShitFacedShakespeare · 03/10/2026 14:42

Yes but why are you so sure her ‘Fanny’ is ‘baggier’ than yours?

It doesn’t make sense even if you leave aside the fact you’ve had 6 births.

have none of you heard of sarcasim? never thought a throw away comment was going to cause this 🙄😂🤣

DiscoCherries · 03/10/2026 14:52

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:44

Nice bit of victim blaming there. If Bonnie Blue wants to sleep with 1000 blokes in one night she totally has every right to. A liberal tolerant society should actively encourage freedom to be yourself in whatever way you want to. Sex is about expression, its no different to painting. Christianity made it stuffy and shameful, which is why so many women find her behaviour appalling.

We have to find a way to undo that mindset and reclaim sex as a form of social connection that we can do with our friends and colleagues without shame or derision from others.

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/the-relationship-between-pornography-use-and-harmful-sexual-behaviours/the-relationship-between-pornography-use-and-harmful-sexual-attitudes-and-behaviours-literature-review

The relationship between pornography use and harmful sexual attitudes and behaviours: literature review

https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/the-relationship-between-pornography-use-and-harmful-sexual-behaviours/the-relationship-between-pornography-use-and-harmful-sexual-attitudes-and-behaviours-literature-review

CamillaMcCauley · 03/10/2026 14:53

OtterlyAstounding · 03/10/2026 14:51

I think I recognise old Debbie as being a lover of endless satire on other threads. So I'm pretty sure she's just being as extreme as possible for the 'lolz'.

Good to know, thank you. Ignoring from now on!

Tunnocksmallow · 03/10/2026 14:53

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Your whole post is full of misogynistic crap, yet I’m sure you’re one who believes you’re always sticking up for women’s rights, eh?
You should be ashamed of yourself.

SnappyPenguin · 03/10/2026 14:53

Anyone who supports her is absolutely brain dead.

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:54

CamillaMcCauley · 03/10/2026 14:50

lol have you met anyone who’s mother was a sex worker? It’s truly not the happy-clappy story of female empowerment that you’d like to pitch it as.

No I have not, unfortunately I still live in a society that shames women for working for themselves so I don't get to find out who is a sex worker or not. That said, I am sure some will have bad experiences, but Bonnie Blue seems to be having an amazing life. She is already a millionaire and her name is on the lips of every jealous woman this side of the Atlantic. I'd much rather that than work as a cashier for Holland & Barrett's.

That is why nobody will remember you or I. Bonnie Blue will be a civil rights figure that our children's children will be singing songs about.

allthemind · 03/10/2026 14:54

I couldn't give a shit about the money angle, which btw not everyone is motivated by - I'm quite happy with my 'shitty' £150k salary, and some of the happiest people I know are on way less. What I do care about, as an educated, intelligent female who has made their own way in the world and faced daily sexism and misogyny, is the effect her bullshit has on the perception of women generally, and specifically what it is teaching young people. Regressive, sexist bullshit is what she is choosing to do to earn her millions and it damages women, and young girls in particular.

And why are you, as a multi millionaire business woman, so willing to believe that she has already earnt 10s of millions from her channels yet don't believe in the bullshit baby? Has she ever proven the vast sums she claims to have earnt? I'm sure it's an impressive amount but nobody except her weird family and her accountant really knows how lucrative denigrating women and encouraging young men to think of women as sexual objects there to be choked and raped and spat on has been. Remember Katie Price was supposedly business woman of the year with 10s of millions in the bank, and even allowing for her plastic surgery addiction, former lavish lifestyle and impressive coacin habit, she went from 'multi millionaire' to being court-certified bankrupt with most of her earnings confiscated for creditors and her youngest children removed from her care almost overnight, we are supposed to believe.

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:55

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:52

have none of you heard of sarcasim? never thought a throw away comment was going to cause this 🙄😂🤣

Might be better to report your misogynistic comments and see if MNHQ will delete them for you then.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:55

Tunnocksmallow · 03/10/2026 14:53

Your whole post is full of misogynistic crap, yet I’m sure you’re one who believes you’re always sticking up for women’s rights, eh?
You should be ashamed of yourself.

oh go away will you 😂😂 i was been sarcastic with the baggy fanny comment! grow up!

ArabellaScott · 03/10/2026 14:57

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:49

I didn’t say it was? I have looked this up out of morbid curiosity and she seems to be enjoying herself so I don’t think it’s a particularly big deal.

I just love watching the news, the other mums at the school gates or mumsnet foam at the mouth in response to whatever nonsense she comes out with.

Do you, aye.

newrubylane · 03/10/2026 14:57

Katie Price was a savvy, empowered "businesswoman" as well, and look how that turned out. I wouldn't sell my self-respect for any number of millions. She and the men who pay her are just as fucked up as each other.

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:57

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:55

oh go away will you 😂😂 i was been sarcastic with the baggy fanny comment! grow up!

Incidentally, what a great name for a band. Mumsnet & the baggy Fannies.

PeasOff · 03/10/2026 14:58

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:55

oh go away will you 😂😂 i was been sarcastic with the baggy fanny comment! grow up!

I don't think you understand what sarcasm is then as that was an insult not sarcasm.

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:59

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:55

Might be better to report your misogynistic comments and see if MNHQ will delete them for you then.

feel free kermit! i suppose you haven't got a sense of humour have you like some other's on here??

does anybody want some 🍿🍿 i find it hilarious if im honest 🤣🤣 never knew a throw away comment would lead to the discussion about my vagina, when this thread is about the disgusting Bonnie Blue Waffle 😂😂

Asiana · 03/10/2026 14:59

I think her life is my idea of pure hell on earth and I'd rather die than live it.

PeasOff · 03/10/2026 15:01

🤣🤣🤣

Ohyesiwill2 · 03/10/2026 15:01

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:54

No I have not, unfortunately I still live in a society that shames women for working for themselves so I don't get to find out who is a sex worker or not. That said, I am sure some will have bad experiences, but Bonnie Blue seems to be having an amazing life. She is already a millionaire and her name is on the lips of every jealous woman this side of the Atlantic. I'd much rather that than work as a cashier for Holland & Barrett's.

That is why nobody will remember you or I. Bonnie Blue will be a civil rights figure that our children's children will be singing songs about.

Literally anybody can get on camera with a thousand man line up. Anyone. Any age, any size, anyone, anywhere, being a whore is dead easy in fact, easiest job there is. Anyone at all, any age, disability, size, attractiveness level can monetise gang bangs - she's just a fanny to the men who use her, and any one of them would see her dead and move on to the next available fanny and forget she exists.

She will be remembered with disgust and pity, like a peculiar type of insect. Diseases might be named for her I suppose.

Anyway, you already know all this and are just bored and on the gin.

So, I'll go back to forgetting she exists, which is what I do in between mumsnet posts wanking on about the whore who wants more 😆

PeasOff · 03/10/2026 15:01

Love the band name @DebbieSavage

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 15:01

PeasOff · 03/10/2026 14:58

I don't think you understand what sarcasm is then as that was an insult not sarcasm.

& i don't think you have a sense of humour.. so will you just peas-off.

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