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AIBU for supporting Bonnie Blue?

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KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 13:43

Please hear me out first. I have no interest in watching her sleep with 1,000 guys (if this even happened), but I can’t help but like this woman for the following reasons.

  1. It is so, so, soooo obvious that all she does it say/do the most obscene and provocative stuff possible for attention yet it seems like people fall for it every time. Especially on mumsnet, I think she has jumped the shark a bit too early naming the “baby” after a betting website but there were so many threads on this when none of it made any sense. Yet everyone just seems to eat it up and it makes me laugh.
  2. Everyone wants to be rich and it is so so hard to accomplish (I became a single millionaire at 27 through business ownership so speaking from experience, it’s insanely insanely hard to get to 8 figs at her age like she has done), I have respect for anyone who manages to get there no matter how they do it. I relate to her a lot when she said she looked at all the UK careers and realised they all pay terribly. I don’t really know what people expect a young intelligent who wants to be wealthy to do instead? Work as an accountant or some crap which will pay £150k tops?
  3. The sheer ridiculousness of the whole ordeal. It’s just a bit of braindead entertainment in this somewhat depressing world. I love checking up on this woman and seeing what she claims to be up to.

So AIBU? Frankly I can’t wait to see what she says next.

OP posts:
xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:39

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:36

You are being misogynistic though.

And getting defensive when people are pointing out the obvious about you. If its just a bit of sarcasm why do you care?

i don't thats the thing 😂 wasn't here to argue with anyone 🙂

DiscoCherries · 03/10/2026 14:40

The (many, many, many) men watching and even joining in with her stuff will start to think that sort of sex is fair game with the women they meet. It’s not just her, all extreme porn is so incredibly dangerous both for males minds and the women who then encounter them. And she is so extreme I cannot for one second be okay with her.

PeasOff · 03/10/2026 14:40

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:31

no took 10 minutes due to the fact my vagina is still tight (my partner has mentioned this)... and also the fact that i have "strong pelvic floor muscles" (which was mentioned by a midwife)

Your partner is hardly going to say you've got a baggy wizards sleeve is he? 😂

For the love of internalised misogyny please stop harping on about your fanny now and just rethink why people are saying your comment was as grim as BBs bedsheets after the 1000 man challenge.

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 14:40

JoleneJoleneJoleneJoleneJolene · 03/10/2026 14:38

I called the OP a pick me, now I'm calling you one.

I’m getting ‘Withnail and I’ vibes and hope that was intended. 👏🏻

DiscoCherries · 03/10/2026 14:41

Mangelwurzelfortea · 03/10/2026 14:30

Urgh, imagine being the sort of pleb that only earns £150K! How ghastly. Of course one must do what it takes to earn ones' millions, even if that means trafficking illegal immigrants or becoming a pimp. Needs must.

😂😂😂

Boreded · 03/10/2026 14:41

BillieWiper · 03/10/2026 14:24

You admire her? I think she's just a bullshitter for online publicity which just makes her boring. Selling sex online is also boring and I have no interest in that industry. It's not aimed at me. And I'd say the majority of people within it are either damaged or not making any money or both.

I'm happy for you that you allege to be a 'single millionaire' at 27. Does that mean you have just one million? Or you don't happen to have a sexual partner? Can I ask what work you do?

She means she has 1m in comparison to BBs multiple

KermitsABadInfluence · 03/10/2026 14:41

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:39

i don't thats the thing 😂 wasn't here to argue with anyone 🙂

For someone who doesn't care you've shared an awful lot of information about your vagina.

ShitFacedShakespeare · 03/10/2026 14:42

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:34

but in my opinion which i forgot to mention she is a disgrace of a woman, she is disguting and a bad example of one. I don't agree with what she does at all! Im entitled to have an opinion on her when she puts herself out their publicly in the way that she does 🤢🤢 but she is very clever due to fact, she makes alot of money due to rage-bait.

Yes but why are you so sure her ‘Fanny’ is ‘baggier’ than yours?

It doesn’t make sense even if you leave aside the fact you’ve had 6 births.

MongooseAlley · 03/10/2026 14:42

Did you really become a millionaire from basically being the next best thing to a prostitute sex worker and porn star?

It's her body so she has the right but let's not suggest that it's a good career choice.

SumptuousPecanNougat · 03/10/2026 14:42

People like this aren't just harming themselves and their child(ren). They encourage negative, damaging behaviours in others. They are both a symptom and a cause of societal breakdown, imo.

YABVU to support her in any way whatsoever.

JoleneJoleneJoleneJoleneJolene · 03/10/2026 14:42

Waitingfordoggo · 03/10/2026 14:40

I’m getting ‘Withnail and I’ vibes and hope that was intended. 👏🏻

It was intended! Thanks for noticing ❤️

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:43

Isittimeformynapyet · 03/10/2026 14:37

I'm assuming it right now ... whatcha gonna do 🤷🏻?

your entitled too assume 🙂 but it isn't personally true for me. And im pretty sure their is other mum's on here that have had multiple vaginal birth's that would possibly agree.

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:44

DiscoCherries · 03/10/2026 14:40

The (many, many, many) men watching and even joining in with her stuff will start to think that sort of sex is fair game with the women they meet. It’s not just her, all extreme porn is so incredibly dangerous both for males minds and the women who then encounter them. And she is so extreme I cannot for one second be okay with her.

Nice bit of victim blaming there. If Bonnie Blue wants to sleep with 1000 blokes in one night she totally has every right to. A liberal tolerant society should actively encourage freedom to be yourself in whatever way you want to. Sex is about expression, its no different to painting. Christianity made it stuffy and shameful, which is why so many women find her behaviour appalling.

We have to find a way to undo that mindset and reclaim sex as a form of social connection that we can do with our friends and colleagues without shame or derision from others.

BillieWiper · 03/10/2026 14:44

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 14:29

I think she’s very clever for thinking of the whole thing and has a huge amount of courage to commit to it.

When i was her age i did and that was exceptional back then, even more I’m sure it’s very rare. Now I have a lot more but I’m also a lot older.

Happily married with a very ordinary sex life.

Business owner. I used to work a generic upper middle class job before.

It's very twisted. Is getting attention at all costs and making so many people hate you 'clever'? Not emotionally it isn't. She has little insight into how it will impact her future.

Back to you, I'm trying to think what a generic upper middle class job is?
It's nothing entry level presumably?
How did you become a millionaire at 27 and if you were 'upper middle class' before that do you think that helped?

She's just a brand with a marketing team behind her. It's just selling sex. It's really not intelligent or interesting.

I'm more interested in your young business success!

Naunet · 03/10/2026 14:44

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:36

I think she is a wonderful advocate of female sexual empowerment and I wish I had an example like her when I was growing up.

She is a hard working, self-made business mogul who doesn't care one bit what the patriarchy says about her. Hopefully her message can spread to all the repressive corners of the globe where women do not have the opportunity to work for themselves. I love her. ❤️

What's empowering about hiring men to piss on you whilst pregnant? Would you be happy if you saw videos of your mum online being pissed on by random men whilst she was pregnant with you?

Its amazing how some women have been brainwashed to believe female empowerment = being a sex object for men

HalftimeDaisy · 03/10/2026 14:44

xXMummyTo6Xx · 03/10/2026 14:31

no took 10 minutes due to the fact my vagina is still tight (my partner has mentioned this)... and also the fact that i have "strong pelvic floor muscles" (which was mentioned by a midwife)

This is utter nonsense. A tight vagina and strong pelvic floor does the opposite of speeding up labour. Thats why so many labour prep programmes focus on hip mobility and relaxing techniques.

You gave birth to your last child in 10 minutes because of the muscles there are more lax. There's no shame in it, its basic biology.

agri · 03/10/2026 14:45

I don’t support her, but I think she’s very clever.

She’s obviously saying things on purpose to rile everyone up & it works. She’s probably made most of it up & people fall for it and go mad about her, write how much they hate her etc and it just makes her more ‘famous’.

I don’t think she could possibly have slept with 1,000 men & I also imagine the baby is made up. I do think she’s gone too far with the baby stuff though as that’s bringing in a whole new, sick audience.

Can’t bash her for making money though. She’ll probably end up getting attacked or more though I imagine. It’s a dangerous game she’s playing.

Terriblytwee · 03/10/2026 14:46

She’s disgusting and a traitor to her sex. Hopefully irrelevance is coming to her sooner rather than later. Don’t get me started on her male collaborators in the depravity she peddles.

DorsetKnobBiscuit · 03/10/2026 14:47

This weekend there has been a real run of ridiculous, click bait, rage bait OPs on Mumsnet all posted by first and only time posters.

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:47

Naunet · 03/10/2026 14:44

What's empowering about hiring men to piss on you whilst pregnant? Would you be happy if you saw videos of your mum online being pissed on by random men whilst she was pregnant with you?

Its amazing how some women have been brainwashed to believe female empowerment = being a sex object for men

I'd be happy for her. She's working hard and providing for her family. Plus it will be my earliest memory of being on video, how amazing would that be!

And don't knock people for their kinks. Some women might enjoy the feeling of being urinated or defecated on and that's totally normal, no need to shame anyone OK?

Ohyesiwill2 · 03/10/2026 14:48

EppingIsFun · 03/10/2026 13:53

Hmmm, I think she's a damaged young woman who's very anti-women in general. I'm not foaming at the mouth at her or even particularly interested - I just feel low level pity and disgust.

This. Although I don't actually pity her much tbh as she really dislikes women, blames women for men's repulsive behaviour and seems like a very unpleasant person. Then there was the men lining up to piss on her stomach when she was pregnant thing of course. She's talked sympathetically about Andrew Tate too. She's disgusting, of course, but the only time I ever think about her is when I read about her on this website, otherwise she just doesn't exist.

CamillaMcCauley · 03/10/2026 14:48

KeenFatball · 03/10/2026 14:29

I think she’s very clever for thinking of the whole thing and has a huge amount of courage to commit to it.

When i was her age i did and that was exceptional back then, even more I’m sure it’s very rare. Now I have a lot more but I’m also a lot older.

Happily married with a very ordinary sex life.

Business owner. I used to work a generic upper middle class job before.

I think there is a good chance she is a psychopath, so I’m not sure courage really comes into it if she has no fear response.

OneNewLeader · 03/10/2026 14:48

I think for every BB who can ‘successfully’ navigate the adult entertainment world, there are many, many who don’t. I’ll reserve my respect for people who work to change society, who positively contribute. If any of kids was involved in that industry (performing/producing/distributing) I would probably feel I’d failed as a parent.

Naunet · 03/10/2026 14:48

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:47

I'd be happy for her. She's working hard and providing for her family. Plus it will be my earliest memory of being on video, how amazing would that be!

And don't knock people for their kinks. Some women might enjoy the feeling of being urinated or defecated on and that's totally normal, no need to shame anyone OK?

🤣 you fucking liar!

DorsetKnobBiscuit · 03/10/2026 14:49

DebbieSavage · 03/10/2026 14:47

I'd be happy for her. She's working hard and providing for her family. Plus it will be my earliest memory of being on video, how amazing would that be!

And don't knock people for their kinks. Some women might enjoy the feeling of being urinated or defecated on and that's totally normal, no need to shame anyone OK?

Just like the home life of our own dear old Queen.

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