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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · Today 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

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Grumpyoldcat · Today 20:23

Should be a nice cuppa.

lev2002 · Today 20:23

I wouldn't personally do it, I'd end up needing a wee. At my last interview I was offered coffee and declined for this reason.
I do have to say though, if I was interviewing someone I wouldn't care in the slightest. Unless they were rattling the ice cubes and making a racket it's just a drink.

EveryoneUsingOutro · Today 20:23

C4tintherug · Today 20:17

I think it’s a massive lack of judgement to be so aggressive asking about what a support worker is.
The kinds of jobs they might do- take people to the toilet, push people around in wheelchairs, support people with going out and about, help people to get dressed, help fill in forms.
How have you never heard of a support worker who are literally the backbone of society yet care so much about someone drinking iced coffee?

I assume you’re addressing the OP, not me that you quoted, as I agree with you - support workers are amazing!

ThatLoudCat · Today 20:24

"basic rituals of a professional workplace" what a load of wank.

wifty · Today 20:24

20’s, abso-fucking-lutely not!

I would also judge slightly if they had one - not sure why! I’m just imagining the plastic cup dripping with condensation on the outside, and a pool of water underneath haha

They would usually offer a drink anyway.

ETA: Actually, if I was interviewing I wouldn’t even question it haha
Oh, and corporate in a city

Scrimblescromble · Today 20:25

Coming in late with an iced coffee that they’d stopped to purchase instead of arriving on time might count against them! If they’d bought a drink along I don’t think it would particularly register. At my workplace we would usually offer a candidate a drink (hot or cold) to help put them at ease so logically it would make no difference whether we’d made it or they’d brought it. In fact it would save us a job!

I’m late 40s, work in a management role for a local authority.

WalterMittysPuppet · Today 20:25

Walking into an interview with a breast or a penis peeping out may not impact on a candidates ability to perform a role, nor does checking their phone during an interview or bringing in a takeaway drink (that appears to prioritise comfort and convenience over presentation).

But I'd still think any one of those candidates shows a lack of situational judgement and a failure to calibrate - or even care about - the importance of the occasion.

Mid 50's, financial services.

24caratgoldlabubu · Today 20:26

I think it's 2026 and if candidates want to bring in a drink to their interview, that is absolutely fine with me.

What is so offensive about an iced beverage (or any beverage), can I ask?

Screamingabdabz · Today 20:26

Sorry I’m a proper old school Luddite. I think hanging your knickers out on the line that is the world of LinkedIn is a debased way to go about seeking employment so turning up slurping ice coffee through a straw during the interview is definitely a no from me.

24caratgoldlabubu · Today 20:26

Oh and I'm mid-30s, law.

Cakeandcardio · Today 20:27

Well it's the erosion of standards over time. Much like the kids in school today. Selfish and not very bright. So the workplace is only going to get worse.

Gengha · Today 20:27

Unprofessional.

Legal, early 50s

Newmeagain · Today 20:27

MasterBeth · Today 20:20

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

Precisely. Someone who doesn’t understand this is likely to not understand other more important rules in a workplace.

Gengha · Today 20:28

MasterBeth · Today 19:55

Supporting other people with what? Why so coy?

I assumed some sort of social care type role?

belchingalong · Today 20:28

I’d probably be a bit taken aback of an interviewee walked on with an iced coffee. Bottle of water is fine, but anything else just feels a bit less professional. Though it’s hard to explain why! It wouldn’t stop me employing someone of they did the best interview. It would give me a preconceived idea about the type of person they were.

TheBers · Today 20:28

Franxi · Today 20:20

We always offer people tea/coffee/water. Either it’s in the room if the interviews are back to back, or in the kitchen area and we make polite small talk whilst making it. I prefer the latter, it’s good to see and speak to the candidates in a less formal way.

But that’s good manners towards any guest ( which includes interviewees). People bringing drinks just for themselves is always rude but especially in a formal setting.

TremendousThirst · Today 20:28

I hire all the time for office roles and I wouldn’t think twice about this nor remember it afterwards. A giant frappucino with whipped cream would be rather odd. Really wouldn’t care about someone bringing in a coffee instead of a water bottle.

Would I do it myself? Probably not, but more because I would be worried about spilling.

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 20:29

MasterBeth · Today 20:20

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

I interviewed today for someone who needs to run a £500m cost cutting portfolio, deal with stakeholders from the companies owner to shareholders to the board to operational managers to divisional FDs to international customers, for 220k pa

do you seriously imagine I’d dismiss someone who was a great candidate for that job because they were drinking a take out coffee?!

belchingalong · Today 20:29

And I can’t believe this thread has posts from people who are unashamedly saying that they don’t know what a “support worker” or an “iced coffee” is. Weird!

LuckyHazelFox · Today 20:30

Christ, some of this analysis is way beyond controlling. What next - see how the interviewee crosses their legs? You can see who gets off on power trips by some of these posts.

EveryoneUsingOutro · Today 20:30

MasterBeth · Today 20:20

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

The basic rituals of YOUR workplace. We wouldn’t bat an eyelid.
In my 50’s now self employed but was in media.

MasterBeth · Today 20:31

EveryoneUsingOutro · Today 20:13

You seriously have never heard of support workers? Confused

Yes, I've heard of IT support workers, customer support workers, technical support workers, mental health support workers, personal support workers etc. All very different jobs.

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LuckyHazelFox · Today 20:31

belchingalong · Today 20:29

And I can’t believe this thread has posts from people who are unashamedly saying that they don’t know what a “support worker” or an “iced coffee” is. Weird!

I started work in 1986 so have been around the block. No embarrassment here. Then again, wank things like iced coffee really isn't on my radar.

MasterBeth · Today 20:32

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 20:29

I interviewed today for someone who needs to run a £500m cost cutting portfolio, deal with stakeholders from the companies owner to shareholders to the board to operational managers to divisional FDs to international customers, for 220k pa

do you seriously imagine I’d dismiss someone who was a great candidate for that job because they were drinking a take out coffee?!

Edited

They were driving a coffee? What?

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Backedoffhackedoff · Today 20:33

MasterBeth · Today 20:32

They were driving a coffee? What?

typo- drinking a take out coffee