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AIBU to think takeaway iced coffee at interviews is unprofessional?

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MasterBeth · Today 19:45

Apparently, the world is debating this topic. Let's join in:

Is it unprofessional to bring a takeaway iced coffee into a job interview?

The answer to me is blindingly obvious, but not to everyone, it seems.

Feel free to add your age and industry, in case that matters.

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CheeseyNacho · Today 20:14

I heard a story once from an old colleague - could be BS, but knowing them I suspect it was true.

They were the hiring manager for a grad scheme at a big company in London. Being a decent company, and a grad scheme they paid for train fare too and from London for all the candidates. Someone phoned to say they were running late due to an issue with the trains. not a huge issue, these things happen and at least they called.

The interviewee showed up two hours late, carrying some Harrods bags. Turns out, they had never been to London before, and combined the interview and free train with some shopping and sightseeing and thought they could cross London a lot quicker than than they actually could

LuckyHazelFox · Today 20:15

MeowDoku · Today 20:14

We always provide water for candidates, but sometimes I have a coffee, I could be doing 7 hour long interviews back to back and score during my lunchbreak, a candidate is there for an hour

Yes, there should have been water provided.

EveryoneUsingOutro · Today 20:15

MasterBeth · Today 19:54

I work in the creative industries. In fact, we work with some of the biggest iced coffee brands in the world. Very casual work culture re: dress codes etc.

And if someone came for interview carrying an iced coffee I would think they completely lacked judgement. Why do they need to bring a drink in with them? Why not bring it a snack?

Maybe they had done their research on who your biggest customers were and wanted to show solidarity

DoloresDelEriba · Today 20:16

ColdAsAWitches · Today 19:59

I'm a manager and regularly interview. I don't think I'd even notice if someone brought in a coffee. It would have no bearing in whether they can do the job, so why would it matter?

You wouldn’t notice? How could you not?

ilovepixie · Today 20:16

No very unprofessional. Doesn’t matter what the job is for. First impressions count a lot.

tokennamechange · Today 20:17

ColdAsAWitches · Today 20:05

Everybody drinks coffee all the time in every company I've ever worked. Coffee is available for free in all our dining areas. Having a coffee at a meeting is perfectly normal, and done by about 75% of people in a meeting. Eating a Big Mac in a meeting isn't, so that's different.

but an interview isn't the workplace!

It's pretty standard that you present yourself differently in an interview compared to when you're actually working somewhere. You speak differently, dress more formally, usually don't make jokes, use different body language and generally try to present the absolute best version of yourself you can.

For me it's one of those cost/benefit scenarios.

The possible benefit to you is you drink an iced coffee slightly earlier than you would if you waited until after the interview to drink it.
Possible negatives are if you accidentally spill it you look clumsy and unprofessional, or even if your interviewer happens to be one of the many people who just think it's inappropriate - it could cost you the job.

So the potential negatives seem to vastly outweigh the positives. It seems a silly thing to stake a job on when you could just wait half an hour and have the coffee then.

C4tintherug · Today 20:17

EveryoneUsingOutro · Today 20:13

You seriously have never heard of support workers? Confused

I think it’s a massive lack of judgement to be so aggressive asking about what a support worker is.
The kinds of jobs they might do- take people to the toilet, push people around in wheelchairs, support people with going out and about, help people to get dressed, help fill in forms.
How have you never heard of a support worker who are literally the backbone of society yet care so much about someone drinking iced coffee?

letterboxes · Today 20:17

Wow this is interesting. I work in tech and interview a lot and I don't think I would even blink an eye if a candidate did this. Have definitely had people show up with takeaway coffee cups before. Our office is really near a super nice coffee place. Good to know not everyone thinks this is normal though ... will make sure I don't do this in any interviews in the future 😂

LuckyHazelFox · Today 20:18

Short skirts? No
Jeans? No
Dirty finger nails? No
Being unprepared? No
Bringing in an iced coffee? Why not?

I'm definitely in another world or of a certain age.

letterboxes · Today 20:19

DoloresDelEriba · Today 20:16

You wouldn’t notice? How could you not?

I nearly wrote "I wouldn't notice" in my answer. I genuinely almost wouldn't notice. It would be a non event.

DirtyBird · Today 20:19

I would never do it, but it's always welcomed when I'm offered water as interviews make me nervous and my throat always gets dry.

Whaleandsnail6 · Today 20:19

Newmeagain · Today 20:14

Completely unprofessional and lacks insight. Of course it’s fine once you get the job. I work in a senior professional role and have my breakfast at my desk every morning! But an interview is different

But why is it unprofessional and lacking in insight?

Is taking a bottle of water unprofessional?

What if they offer you a hot drink? Is that a trick question and if you accept you lack insight?

I think as long as the drink isn't distracting and just quiet, discreet sips whilst listening to the question, I don't understand the concern.

I've interviewed numerous candidates for jobs and someone bringing a drink in wouldn't concern me.

Ive also sipped water in interviews myself, helps with dry mouth due to nerves (wouldn't accept coffee for fear of needing a wee!)

MyEasterBonnet · Today 20:19

What’s unprofessional about a drink??

FiveEightNine · Today 20:19

I don't see the problem. (Forties, IT consulting, not HR, but I sat more interviews as the interviewer than interviewee side)

Calling it "unprofessional" sounds like some imaginary, made up rules to me.
If it makes the candidate feel better or more relaxed, more able to proof what they can do, who cares?

tokennamechange · Today 20:20

LuckyHazelFox · Today 20:12

I wouldn't want you if you were so judgemental.

it's hardly judgemental to not want to hire someone with neither critical thinking skills, nor any initiative (seriously, why not just google it if you honestly didn't know?) whom you'd have to walk through and spoon feed every single task.

If you can't work out that an iced coffee is a coffee with ice in it, (and, worse, feel comfortable telling people you don't know that) how would you possibly cope in the workplace if asked to get the 'Smith file,' or the 'annual accounts' or the 'headed paper,' etc.?

MasterBeth · Today 20:20

Backedoffhackedoff · Today 20:02

im Really struggling to think of a role where it would make any difference to the decision to hire the right person unless it’s the sort of role anyone could do

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

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Franxi · Today 20:20

We always offer people tea/coffee/water. Either it’s in the room if the interviews are back to back, or in the kitchen area and we make polite small talk whilst making it. I prefer the latter, it’s good to see and speak to the candidates in a less formal way.

AlexandraCarrington · Today 20:21

Do you sit and clutch it throughout the interview? What if you need to do something that requires both hands? It seems like unnecessary added faff and extra potential for something to go wrong.

NonViolentProtest · Today 20:22

BeardOToots · Today 19:47

Ok, so at the age of 50, I have never attended a job interview, but I think it would depend on what the job was. Creative industries, no biggie. Senior management, terrible look.

Blimey, how have you managed that?

BagBitch · Today 20:22

I held a zoom interview an the applicant not only had a coffee with her but started eating biscuits Confused

letterboxes · Today 20:22

MasterBeth · Today 20:20

Someone who brings their own iced coffee is not the right person because they don't understand enough of the basic rituals of a professional workplace. I want to hire people who will at least consider that bringing in their own iced coffee could be a no-no to some interviewers. Then I want them to realise that the easiest way for them to not raise the tiniest of red flags is to not bring an iced coffee into a job interview.

Where do you work?

I work in a city where grabbing a coffee en route to the office is normal non-event.

I really don't get why you think it's against the "basic rituals of a professional workplace"??

TheBers · Today 20:22

I think it’s rude to meet anyone with a drink/food for yourself and not other people.
And you wouldn’t bring anything for the interviewers because that’s really cringy.

FancyKitten · Today 20:22

BeardOToots · Today 19:47

Ok, so at the age of 50, I have never attended a job interview, but I think it would depend on what the job was. Creative industries, no biggie. Senior management, terrible look.

Just being nosy… Do you work in the family business? Or not work outside the home? Unusual to have never had a job interview…

LuckyHazelFox · Today 20:23

tokennamechange · Today 20:20

it's hardly judgemental to not want to hire someone with neither critical thinking skills, nor any initiative (seriously, why not just google it if you honestly didn't know?) whom you'd have to walk through and spoon feed every single task.

If you can't work out that an iced coffee is a coffee with ice in it, (and, worse, feel comfortable telling people you don't know that) how would you possibly cope in the workplace if asked to get the 'Smith file,' or the 'annual accounts' or the 'headed paper,' etc.?

Edited

Did you not read what I said about the drink being obvious but I thought I was missing something due to it being a massive talking point. It's certainly not critical thinking I am missing. The very opposite as I've raised a query.

Bloodysquirellls · Today 20:23

Is it any coffee? Any takeaway cup? Or just an iced coffee?