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To not have many options re mortgage

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Aislingk · 16/09/2026 15:34

I’m freaking out as our fixed term mortgage runs out in July 2027. DP said currently we’d be paying between 4-5k monthly and I’m so scared. Will things change by then and what options are there!? Never done this before!

OP posts:
BlueMum16 · 16/09/2026 17:55

Aislingk · 16/09/2026 16:29

We go away a lot as both our families live abroad so we visit a few times a year and Xmas and for a family of 5 so thats a cost.

It sounds ike you are haemorrhaging money and you have no idea what you spend on anything.

Sit down with DP and work out your joint income.
Work out your monthly outgoings - everything, bills,. shopping, DC costs.
Work out how much you need to put away each month to cover your travel/holidays

With £10-12 THOUSAND a month you need a better grip on your finances.

It sounds like neither of you have a clue.

Vanillaicelatte · 16/09/2026 18:00

KaleidoscopeSmile · 16/09/2026 16:50

I honestly think these posts are some sort of bizarre stealth brag as I can't conceive in any way that some who's smart enough to earn an apparently well above average salary can be so financially helpless/clueless.

It has a whiff of fake "I'm a bit ditzy me"" about it

I agree I mean it shows that making 200k a year means you don’t have to be smart

Ferretbitme · 16/09/2026 18:01

i might be wrong here but at 5% over 25 years it would be approx 3200.

current rates are about 4.5.

would have to go up to 10% to be 5k

There are online calcuators, would recommend finding a mortgage broker who can start looking for you in advance.

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 18:05

Aislingk · 16/09/2026 17:45

We did have savings btw but burnt through them when I was sick (private care). I also took time off work for over a year so we were dependent on one salary for a while. Hence the worry re affordability.

You need to adjust your attitude and lifestyle. This comment says a hell of a lot about your inability to budget and understand your own finances.

That's it.

Random321 · 16/09/2026 18:05

Some people just can't be helped!

Your issue isn't sick leave!

Your issue is you have more income than intelligence!

There's a pot of money and it can't cover everything you want it life. You have to improve your money management and live within your means.

BermudaRhombus · 16/09/2026 18:06

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 15:53

The markets are already pricing in at least 2 or 3 rate rises between now and then.

So even though no one knows what the rate will be, there's a fair assumption that 4 - 5% (at least) is almost a given.

You can try and remortgage over a longer period if you are young enough.

Otherwise you are into talking to the bank about other ways to restructure the debt or selling.

There are going to be A LOT of people in this situation in the next couple of years. If you are buying a house you would be wise to do it well within your income.

I don't rule out it going up much higher than 5% in the next few years too, given the state of the economy.

We are looking at a massive crunch with many more issues than 2008. It's could be more like 1989 in terms of people losing houses.

People need to start planning NOW and thinking about how they are going to cope with interest rate rises. It hard to see anything different at this point.

Honestly so many people haven't got a clue what is likely ahead financially for a lot. None of it is good. It is going to be a massive shock.

There are no winners here.

I can't sugar coat it.

Might you be better suited to the house price crash forum? They’ve been doom mongering like this for decades 😆

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 18:08

BermudaRhombus · 16/09/2026 18:06

Might you be better suited to the house price crash forum? They’ve been doom mongering like this for decades 😆

No.

I suggest you actually read the newspapers and listen to Andy Burnham's comments today about the economy before trying to be smart.

There are too many factors going on for the BoE to not seriously consider interest rate rates because of the situation.

bingobangs · 16/09/2026 18:09

You won’t be paying that much

Torchout · 16/09/2026 18:10

I think help might turn up from the government. At the moment the housing market isn't just slow it's static. Our house is on the market at lower than valuation and in the last 3 months our estate agent hadca handful of people look at any of their properties. Not just the 4 bed we have for sale but all of them .

Aislingk · 16/09/2026 18:10

Everything has gone up, food, bills etc. We also have 3dcs. We weren’t always on 200k joint either!

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GordanoServices · 16/09/2026 18:11

Scared0112 · 16/09/2026 17:54

The biggest financial worry here is all the “DH said”

start looking and understanding you finances. I bet you’ll suddenly realise a whole lot more …. Women who don’t have a grasp on what they really have, or don’t have, will always be at the mercy of their husbands versions of events and financial takes,

Agree with this. ‘DH said’ rings alarm bells. Both partners should be aware of the reality of their financial situation.

BermudaRhombus · 16/09/2026 18:11

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 18:08

No.

I suggest you actually read the newspapers and listen to Andy Burnham's comments today about the economy before trying to be smart.

There are too many factors going on for the BoE to not seriously consider interest rate rates because of the situation.

The end is nigh!

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 18:14

BermudaRhombus · 16/09/2026 18:11

The end is nigh!

I'm going to start making a note of posters doing this and then will remind them.

I don't bullshit.

BermudaRhombus · 16/09/2026 18:19

RedToothBrush · 16/09/2026 18:14

I'm going to start making a note of posters doing this and then will remind them.

I don't bullshit.

Please do, but I won’t hold my breath! On a serious note, there is help available for anxiety and sometimes it’s good to take a break from the news and social media. It can all seem like the world is ending sometimes.

Fupoffyagrasshole · 16/09/2026 18:21

Paying half your income on mortgage is fairly normal these days for a lot of people op

we pay 2k at the moment w month

it used to be more

get a mortgage broker and go from there .. how is guessing helping anyone - get real information before you start worrying

TheLemonLemur · 16/09/2026 18:22

I would start overpaying this month whatever you can afford. It will reduce the capital amount and the increased payments will be less of a shock. I took 4 years off my initial term making regular overpayments if that money had been in my current account I would have wasted it every month

RealFlawless · 16/09/2026 18:31

noworklifebalance · 16/09/2026 16:58

OP needs to know all the possible options - we have the bare bones of her finances plus some dodgy calculations. That’s why she needs to seek some proper financial advice, which is why I said I wasn’t a financial advisor but maybe I should have been more explicit and said: don’t take any financial advice from a random on MN who doesn’t know anything about your circumstances.
OP’s medium term plan is to downsize, presumably to a cheaper property so all that needs to be factored in.

Wasn't trying to be rude by saying your advice would be better re overpayments- the principle isn't wrong, it's just wrong for this set of facts.

Hiredgun · 16/09/2026 18:31

Aislingk · 16/09/2026 15:44

We have 550,000 left and joint income of 200,000.

At the moment, the best rate is around 4.5%. Bank of England unlikely to put interest rates down in near future due to inflation.

But even if things improve a bit, I can’t see anyone getting a better rate than 4% next year. That’s best case and assuming banks will give you the best rate. This will depend on your LTV. You could be closer to 6%. What is your house value?

Are you able to make a huge overpayment to bring that large balance down? Or even overpay a lot every month now to bring it down?

Aislingk · 16/09/2026 18:32

Hiredgun · 16/09/2026 18:31

At the moment, the best rate is around 4.5%. Bank of England unlikely to put interest rates down in near future due to inflation.

But even if things improve a bit, I can’t see anyone getting a better rate than 4% next year. That’s best case and assuming banks will give you the best rate. This will depend on your LTV. You could be closer to 6%. What is your house value?

Are you able to make a huge overpayment to bring that large balance down? Or even overpay a lot every month now to bring it down?

House value is 900000

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Summer26woohoo · 16/09/2026 18:39

Is only having £5 or £6k a month left, after mortgage, really 'freaking out' territory op?

The biggest problem you have is lack of perspective - i'd work on that first.

Shittyyear2025 · 16/09/2026 18:46

Aislingk · 16/09/2026 15:44

We have 550,000 left and joint income of 200,000.

Jesus op. Your joint salary is £200k!

Even with 4 kids and a mortgage of £2500 a month you could knock £100k off your mortgage in the next 12 months unless you've got top-tier private school fees to pay too.

You're in an exceptionally wealthy position compared to the majority of the UK population. You should pay for some advice because your DH has no idea about mortgages or how they work but even then nobody can accurately predict the future.

Lifejigsaw · 16/09/2026 18:50

You earn £10K a month
Your currently mortgage is £2.5K a month

You are in a ridiculously lucky position and can afford an increase even if it means cutting short some of your many holidays. You also have 10 months to save money for a cushion and overpay.

FlamingBanana · 16/09/2026 19:04

It’s always £200K with these threads isn’t it? Nobody is ever trying to work out how to pay their mortgage on a combined income of £42K. Absolutely baffling the fact that all these high earners can’t do basic maths, basic budgeting or factcheck things for themselves. Yet obviously it’s not a stealth brag. It does explain why the country is up shit creek without a paddle though.

You might have 3 kids but you’d have already said if they all were in nursery. But let’s assume they are. I’ve assumed one is earning £80K and one is earning £120K so you’ve lost out with tax, tax free and funded childcare. I’ve also assumed you have a student loan and contributing 5% to both your pensions. The £80K salary is bringing in over £4K net and the £120k salary is bringing in almost £5.5K. So a total of £9.5K. Even if we look at £40K and £160K it’s an income of £9.1K per month.

Even if interest rates rise (and it would need to be over 7.5% for you to be repaying £4k per month), you’d still have £5K per month. Let’s assume £1K per child for childcare, that’s £3K. Commuting costs of £500 per month. You would still have £1.5K left for all other bills and extras. If childcare or commuting is more than that, you’ll have to do what everyone else does and cut back. You’ll have to shop at Aldi, maybe not go on holiday. Take up running and cancel the gym, cancel Netflix and buy from Vinted. Talking of interest only and extending the length of term rather than just learning how to budget.

As to your comment that you haven’t always earned this much. Do you think most households are above this threshold and you’re somehow behind the curve?

ParkingNightmares · 16/09/2026 19:14

Current fixes are around 5% , my son has just locked a rate in 6 months ahead of his current fixed rate ending and rates have gone up since he did that.

You are looking at doubling your repayments if rates stay where they are at the moment, more if they go up, which is likely.

wontsomeonethinkofthechimdren · 16/09/2026 20:08

I don't think his calculations are correct either.

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