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OMG Miriam Margolyes Andi Peters

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Temptree · Yesterday 12:16

I've got an annual leave day today and am spending the morning shamelessly on the sofa watching daytime TV with cups of tea and biscuits after an exhausting school summer hols. Kids back at school today. I've given myself permission to vegetate till 3:15pm.
So here I am watching This Morning and have just spent 5 minutes with my jaw wide open and hand over my mouth at what Miriam Margolyes just said to Andi Peters.
Did anyone else see it??
I mean it takes a lot to shock me. I am not easily shocked.
And this woman is currently doing a sell out tour??
Whoah.

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Deadringer · Yesterday 13:27

She probably isn't racist and didn't mean to offend him, and i don't say that to defend her, she is just naturally rude and twatty enough to believe that as a national treasure 🙄she can say anything without offence. Horrible woman.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 13:27

Aluna · Yesterday 13:22

It’s well known that people from older generations are racist in a way that would not be considered unacceptable now. In fact when I looked at care homes for my parents they mentioned it was mentioned that their carers were trained to understand this.

My father is 88 and he has known that racism is wrong for many decades.

It isn't an age thing. It's just a racism thing.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 13:28

Deadringer · Yesterday 13:27

She probably isn't racist and didn't mean to offend him, and i don't say that to defend her, she is just naturally rude and twatty enough to believe that as a national treasure 🙄she can say anything without offence. Horrible woman.

How could she say the things that she said without being racist? This is a genuine question, what else could have driven her to say what she said?

Surely it's self evident that she is racist?

SethAndReubenTooSendGaloshes · Yesterday 13:30

EarthaKittsVoice · Yesterday 13:22

It's still used, especially in black communties in America.

That may be so but that's like saying the N word is still used - context matters!

WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 13:31

Bloody hell. I don't think I've ever come across that term outside a historical context in literature or tv - in "The Color Purple" and "Roots", for example.

In addition, she's speaking balderdash in terms of describing that gentleman.

Aluna · Yesterday 13:31

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 13:27

My father is 88 and he has known that racism is wrong for many decades.

It isn't an age thing. It's just a racism thing.

I’m really excited for you. Nonetheless, people from that generation grew up with attitudes and language that are now less acceptable.

moppety · Yesterday 13:31

She’s adept at using the old posh ‘national treasure’ thing to get away with behaviour and language that no one else would dream of. It’s like when you don’t challenge your 80yo granny for being racist as she’s from a ‘different time’, but at least she isn’t blasting it out on TV.

MarthaLovesLaughing · Yesterday 13:32

Shes vile. Seriously vile. I have no idea why she is given any air time. Disgusting old slapper. I saw her on TV talking about her vulva/vagina a while back. Never again will I watch or listen to her 🤮

EarthaKittsVoice · Yesterday 13:32

Marellain · Yesterday 13:18

Yes, I saw him on the thumbnail. I am not in a good position to be looking for photos right now, Thankyou though. It’s NOT mixed race? What is it then?

A mixed race person is, a mixed race person. Could be mixed with black+white, black+indian etc etc. A 'high yella' person is not just a decription of the person's skintone but of their bio makeup. So, a very lightskin black person is just that, and some use the term 'high yella'. Yes, some of these have a white person intheir bloodline but it'll be a grandparent/great grandparent

Comeonbabylightmyaga · Yesterday 13:33

To pp: Regardless of why she asked about his parents skin colour (age, dementia etc) it isn’t ok. The description of her comment about his skin and follow up comment about ‘inclusion’ and all being welcome is outrageous.
Apparently she was warned on her earpiece and ended the interview asking if she offended anyone. She said told no.

SethAndReubenTooSendGaloshes · Yesterday 13:33

Deadringer · Yesterday 13:27

She probably isn't racist and didn't mean to offend him, and i don't say that to defend her, she is just naturally rude and twatty enough to believe that as a national treasure 🙄she can say anything without offence. Horrible woman.

What she said was overtly racist in several ways. How do you conclude she's not racist?

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 13:34

Aluna · Yesterday 13:26

Excuse me? Where did I say “all”?

You said It’s well known that people from older generations are racist in a way that would not be considered unacceptable now. It reads like you meant 'all' otherwise you should have said 'some'.

Now that I've actually quoted you I'm a bit confused by the double negative so I'm not sure what you meant. I've assumed you meant either 'would not be considered acceptable now' or 'would be considered unacceptable now'.

Yesreallyitsme · Yesterday 13:35

TorroFerney · Yesterday 12:27

I read andi peters as andi Oliver and was very concerned!

I then read Andy peters but saw in my minds eye Andy crane and none of it made any sense.

Edited

😂

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 13:35

Aluna · Yesterday 13:31

I’m really excited for you. Nonetheless, people from that generation grew up with attitudes and language that are now less acceptable.

Again. Not all. Maybe in your circles but not all.

MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack · Yesterday 13:36

Aluna · Yesterday 13:31

I’m really excited for you. Nonetheless, people from that generation grew up with attitudes and language that are now less acceptable.

People from that generation have known for decades that racism is wrong. It is not a new concept, and if they choose to say racist things, it really isn't because they don't know that it's not acceptable. It is because they don't care.

There are racist people of all ages. Perhaps some older people lose their filter and get worse at covering it up. But racism has been unacceptable since they were young adults. They know.

AvogadrosNumber · Yesterday 13:37

This just in... Famously rude and offensive person is disgustingly rude and offensive.

She's grotesque and the producers still giving her airtime should be fired.

Deadringer · Yesterday 13:37

I worded it clumsily @MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack but i mean she probably doesn't dislike, fear, or feel superior to people of colour, and as a 'woke' person, who is known for being very inclusive, she feels that she can say what she likes without offence. It was a ridiculously stupid thing to say, she loves to be outrageous but she has gone too far this time imo. I can't stand the woman, if she wasn't gay she wouldn't have a career.

Aluna · Yesterday 13:37

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 13:34

You said It’s well known that people from older generations are racist in a way that would not be considered unacceptable now. It reads like you meant 'all' otherwise you should have said 'some'.

Now that I've actually quoted you I'm a bit confused by the double negative so I'm not sure what you meant. I've assumed you meant either 'would not be considered acceptable now' or 'would be considered unacceptable now'.

“It reads like” = your interpretation. Not my words. I didn’t say all because I didn’t mean all. NAOPALT.

MissChanandlerBonng · Yesterday 13:37

She’s always been utterly vile.

nicepotoftea · Yesterday 13:37

Deadringer · Yesterday 13:27

She probably isn't racist and didn't mean to offend him, and i don't say that to defend her, she is just naturally rude and twatty enough to believe that as a national treasure 🙄she can say anything without offence. Horrible woman.

It's pretty racist to make the assumptions she made about him.

Comeonbabylightmyaga · Yesterday 13:39

She shouldn’t be on tv if she can’t not be racist.

Franpie · Yesterday 13:39

MM has been accused of racism plenty of times in the past.

I think that she feels she can comment and make jokes about race because she is from marginalised groups herself due to being Jewish and gay.

I’m not saying that I agree with her, but I think that’s been her defence in the past.

CaptainMyCaptain · Yesterday 13:39

Aluna · Yesterday 13:37

“It reads like” = your interpretation. Not my words. I didn’t say all because I didn’t mean all. NAOPALT.

Next time i suggest you say exactly what you mean then otherwise it comes across as extremely ageist.

Marellain · Yesterday 13:39

Deadringer · Yesterday 13:37

I worded it clumsily @MrsBennetsPoorNervesAreBack but i mean she probably doesn't dislike, fear, or feel superior to people of colour, and as a 'woke' person, who is known for being very inclusive, she feels that she can say what she likes without offence. It was a ridiculously stupid thing to say, she loves to be outrageous but she has gone too far this time imo. I can't stand the woman, if she wasn't gay she wouldn't have a career.

Yes, she’s gay and a Jew and probably feels that she can speak freely with a sense of being trusted.

WearyAuldWumman · Yesterday 13:41

YankTank · Yesterday 12:59

I’m from the States and have never heard that term before.

It was used to describe one of the characters in "The Color Purple" I recall.

I've done a quick Google and even online academic notes are wary of using the term that Margoyles uttered.

I think I vaguely remember it being used to describe a famous American singer many, many years ago. (I'm in Scotland and in my late '60s.) It was a quote in a biographical article, I think.