Can’t stand husband 😂 anyone else

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I know I sound horrible. I know I’ll get lots of hate saying leave him the poor man but I know a lot of women feel the same.
I love him but he just gets on my nerves anyone feel the same? Give me stories / things your husbands do that grate on you like a fork on a brick wall. 😂 I know I sound vile. I’m honestly not, just ughhhhh shudder.

Your fourth husband? Or fourth kid lol

I'm not judging anybody for the gripes they express here, goodness knows in the run-up to my divorce I couldn't bear to be in the same room as my ex-dh, I do, however, think when it's at the point where these irritations get to you it's (the relationship) is done.

Thank you. I'm sure the men on this site could " ditto" quite easily ...for instance ...why does she need soooo many different types of half finished shampoo bottles in the bathroom so I have to search for hours to find my one deoderant ????? Just saying....

I was on a male oriented site years ago. They said worse than this.

The one thing that really irritates me is his snoring. I know he can't help it but it's loud, it's incessant and it just sounds gross.

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I hated all three of them. There will not be a 4th.

Ohh my husband generally is very unannoying, but there’s a few key ones that annoy me

1. hes very handy and naturally good at things (sports, music, talking to people etc). I am not. He cannot understand this and think I’m not ‘trying’. Prob something we’ve had our biggest rows about
2. he thinks he’s tidier then me. He is not. We will both die on this hill
3. Has to sleep with the TV on. Drives me MAD

apart from that, he’s a bloody good man!

Sad isn't .? Big dollop of tolerance needed all round. Live and let live

Why does a lack of intelligence equal a lack of goodness. There are people who aren't that bright, but are caring, hard working, loving, and loyal.

I also don't think id love my partner more if they were smarter, so why should I suppose I'd love them less if they were more foolish.

Waste of a thread as OP didnt bother giving any details of her own @omgcomeon

Mine needs a full time supervisor since he retired. Exasperating!

"It can be a hormonal thing.
As a regular time every month, pre menstrual cycle, everything, including my husband, would get on my tits, and then it would pass."

Yes, I'm currently hating my boyfriend. Pretty sure I'll be feeling better in a couple of days.
Sometimes I want to finish with him AND leave my job at that time of the month. It's lucky I can recognise it and haven't done either of those things!
Pretty scared what the later stage of perimenopause will be like for me.

Insists in moaning on to me about every bad thing in his life until HE feels better having talked it all out. Whereas by that point, I'm sick of my life and of him.

Believes everything in the mainstream media and when I tell him he could research things a bit to see if they're true, thinks I'M the mad one.

Does nothing about his mankey toenails and then thinks I'm unreasonable when I tell them he shouldn't wear sandals because they look bad.

Frequently put on clothes for a 2nd wear when they clearly have stains on them.

Thinks his POV is the normal, standard one and everyone else is deviant.

Also my DH left school with no qualifications and he’s done really well without them. I am a maths tutor. He’s got a really annoying habit of just asking me stuff he could do on his phone calculator. Like he will just shout them across the house. He’s stopped doing it so much now but his initial defence was “but you love maths!” Which is true but I don’t want a random times tables question when I’m cooking dinner. I guess it’s fair though because I do quiz the kids on their timetables on the spot.

I was wfh on an important video call with several new clients and my DH started flushing the toilet repeatedly. My office was next to bathroom and the doors were wide open. I kept trying to wave my foot out of the doorway to get his attention but no luck so I had to try to surreptiously close the door with my foot whilst still demonstrating something and talking on the call. Found out later he was trying to flush a load of kitchen roll and a piece of cake!?! He must have flushed it a dozen times, all clearly audible on the call. When I fumed at him afterwards he just looked confused and gormless. 🙄

Nobody likes a show off ! Lol 🤣Well done him ...and you 😊

Found out later he was trying to flush a load of kitchen roll and a piece of cake!?!

What?

I absolutely didn't tolerate some of their shit. Most of them were ok but some of them were psychopathic.

I know, right? Never did get a sensible explanation for it!

My DH has annoying habits, but...... has anyone stopped to consider that we may annoy our DHs in many ways too ?
I'm sure I do.

I would highly recommend replacing him with a sportscar! Makes a much better companion and much more fun!

It is all a lady needs in her life :)

Haha kid, im one and done with the husband, never again 😅

This is so true 😆 mine is a lovely man and very little he does annoys me, BUT he always decides he needs to make a cup of tea/rummage under the sink for a screwdriver/loiter around the cutlery drawer while I’m trying to cook (I am the cook in the family, he does other jobs). My son has inherited this habit so I have both of them in there loitering around and getting in my way. It’s nice that they are fond enough of me to gravitate to the room I am in but it drives me spare.

I remind them that I’m going back and forth with hot pans and need to get at the utensils without having to circumnavigate people who have the whole of the rest of the house to loiter around in, and to please go somewhere else. So they do, only to creep back in two minutes later 😡