Can’t stand husband 😂 anyone else

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I know I sound horrible. I know I’ll get lots of hate saying leave him the poor man but I know a lot of women feel the same.
I love him but he just gets on my nerves anyone feel the same? Give me stories / things your husbands do that grate on you like a fork on a brick wall. 😂 I know I sound vile. I’m honestly not, just ughhhhh shudder.

Mine ..had this habit of eating salt and vinegar crisps in bed with ketchup to dip in.
It upset me so much I often ended up in tears ... despite me asking him not to ,he carried on eating in bed .
So as I am the only person who ventures in to a supermarket
I just stopped buying anything he ate in bed
We got as far as never having bread in the house , before he realised every time he ate in bed I didn't buy the food items again..
We got there in the end ...

This is so sad.

I would be heartbroken if my DH spoke of me like this.

The other thing he does as well ..is any decent healthy meals,that I make for the family.. lasagne, cottage pie ,meat pie , casserole ect
He started saying.. before I started cooking..he wanted pizza or burgers or chips .or both ..this got to the point where he was dictating every meal ..my food bill had shot up and it's pizza or burgers every night ..
So I stopped buying pizza and burgers and chips
Plus ...I don't waste food ever ...
So all the times he was refusing the home cooked meals ,I made them anyway for the kids ,but just froze the leftovers.
So the freezer is now full of individual meals ..he's having to take to work for his lunch ..no point buying more food when the freezer is full

I'm pretty sure I'm heavily medicated..just to cope with him

If my partner felt like this about me I'd be devastated.

For his own sake, leave him so he can find someone who actually likes him.

I think the post is tongue in ckeek... Not literal.

All these holier than thou replies yawn.

it’s normal to find your husband fucking annoying sometimes

The 2 things that husband has pissed me off with this week while on holiday.

1. Tuesday night had a nightmare and literally was flailing his arms and legs everywhere, lucky I didn’t get socked in the back of the head. Bunked in my DD’s room since.
2. This morning my DD commented when I got up that “Dad says you’ve always got an excuse for being tired”. I went fucking mental at him for his lack of empathy, I’ve had blood tests trying to investigate why I’m always tired and trying to get to the bottom of it. Starting to think maybe the reason is because I’m married to a wanker.

Sometimes I think that to ..the wanker bit ..

It sounds like you might have the ick. There’s no coming back from that.

Sure, but not to the point that you're bitching about them online and going on and on about how you can't stand them.

If a woman came on here saying she'd heard her husband bitching about her like this, everyone would be saying how awful he was and that she should leave him and find someone who actually like and respects her.

My partner stands behind me in the kitchen all the time every time I need to get to the sink he’s sure enough blocking it. Emptying the bin every time I need to grab something out the cupboard or needing a tea right when I’m boiling water for pasta. Reheating a curry the moment I’ve scrubbed the microwave. Anything to get in my way the 30 mins or so I need to use the kitchen per day. We have a big kitchen too, there’s just no reason to take up so much space. Similar with bathroom.

Thank you! I thought exactly the same!!

More fool her for staying with Vincent. There must be reasons she does.

I hated my DH for roughly a year after the birth of each of my two boys. Especially if he made any noise that could potentially waken either of them....he's a flat footed walker, so sounds like an elephant stomping round the house, I could honestly have murdered him just for walking, when the kids were little and asleep 😂Now the boys are older, I generally like him!

DH and I have been married 36 years and in a similar situation - retired, no surviving parents, but no children (nature said no). Love DH to bits, respect him and still fancy him as he does me. Of course he has annoying habits as do I. But if your partner’s annoying habits get in the way of your feelings for them you shouldn’t be together imo.

Some people have had a bit of a humour bypass this morning. Mine eats really loudly. He breathes really loudly. He snores and somehow clicks in his sleep also! So aside from eating breathing and sleeping loudly …

Behind every great man is THE FUCKING CUPBOARD HIS WIFE IS TRYING TO REACH!!!

I truly love my husband and I believe that god or the universe dropped him out of the sky for my personal enjoyment… but

1. He wears these ugly old man slippers and I just HATE them. He has 10 pairs stocked in the loft so he’s “set for life” so I will never be rid of them.
2. He is really tidy but when he comes in he just basically takes his shoes off and he doesn’t make them neat he just like discards them.
3. He doesn’t towel dry his at all he says it makes it frizzy and leads to balding (??) he just lets it air dry and drips all over. To give him credit he does clean up any drips but it still annoys me.
4. I enjoy a drunk ciggy when we go on holiday (without the kids) and he vapes 🤢. Sorry I just hate vaping like put the grape lost Mary down you’re 28 years old bro.
5. Fugly quarter zip. I’ve hated this thing since we met but it lives on. If we ever move house I’m going to “lose it”.
6. Whenever I make lasagna (his favourite food) he asks 1) are you making the béchamel from scratch? and 2) are you gonna make it cheesy? Like mate I know how you like your lasagna I’ve been doing this for you for ten years!!

It’s true, they are just SO BIG/ occupy so much space and all when you’re rushing about!
Also drives me mad he’ll go from room to room emptyhanded, without carrying stuff to put away.

It’s almost like he can only focus on one thing at a time while I’m constantly multitasking/ thinking ahead.

But there are sooo many good points too and I have my own foibles so most of the time I’ll keep sschtum.

Own room
Utter bliss

I can't imagine living with someone I couldn't stand!

Oh god the poor bloke crew are here!🙄
Husbands can be annoying
Wait until you retire and hes in the house ALL THE TIME
Mine would ask me all the time what I was doing next
FO I know what Im doing thanks!

We are through it now, he keeps himself busy but I love it when he goes out!
Meno means your tolerance hormones plummit , its a common time for divorce
If he died or left me I would never live with another man or even bother with one

Absolutely. The utter temerity of a man would thinks he's entitled to spend time in his own home with his wife. What an utter bastard! He should know he's not allowed inside!

This made me laugh. I’m the exact same. Too many annoyances to list. And at a certain time of the month I even think about divorce 🤣🤣 x