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Dogs in restaurants - I am done!

557 replies

Doseofreality · Yesterday 16:06

The hill that I will die on. Dogs should not be allowed in eating establishments.

Just had another lunch spoilt as a family came in with 3, yes 3, large dogs and sat down at the table beside us. It’s gross, unhygienic and anti social. If I wanted to eat surrounded by animals I’d grab a takeaway and go and sit in a vet’s waiting room.

Close to £100 wasted on a lunch where I had a dog licking it’s bumhole in my line of vision.

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Livelovebehappy · Yesterday 17:48

If none dog owners visited cafes and restaurants in the same numbers as dog owners, then businesses wouldn't need to accommodate dogs. Our local tea room on the edge of a country park used to be three quarters empty when they didnt allow dogs. Since turning dog friendly last year theyre mostly full. Families dont go out for walks like they used to. Kids are usually stuck at home on devices or going to activity clubs.

PinkNailPolish2026 · Yesterday 17:48

WerewolfOfLoudon · Yesterday 16:51

It's shocking she's doing that, daughter of the actress who played MASHs Hoolihan.

Started off suing the wrong place and costing them a fortune in legal fees too. She will close down a community hub for a community she doesn’t lie in because she can't leave her dog at home.

I don't hate dogs but this sort of dog owner is the problem.

YANBU @Doseofreality , environmental health is supposed to ensure animal hair doesn't reach food, 3 dogs in such a small area doesn't sound clean to me.

She’s now saying the dog is an assistance dog from what I’ve read. The problem is so many people trot this out just to get their animals into places. There’s no register for assistance animals in the UK, they don’t need to be wearing patches/leads etc to indicate that they’re assistant animals and restaurants aren’t allowed to ask to see training records etc. Many people are owner training these dogs without any sort of proof that they’re assistance animals, it’s madness.

mummysmagicmedicine · Yesterday 17:48

There was a massive dog waiting in the ticket queue in clarks the other day. Practically took up the whole kids department! Barely any space for kids to test out their shoes I don’t know why they’re even allowed in shops or why people bring them. And I love dogs but there’s a time and a place and somewhere crowded and limited for space is not it.

scoobysnaxx · Yesterday 17:49

Dog owner. Parents. Totally agree with you and I hate it. Disgusting and unnecessary. Pubs yes. Restaurants no.

comparing dogs and animals is like comparing apples and oranges.

Hotandpointy · Yesterday 17:50

To be fair though, I did used to have a friend who once got out the potty next to the table and let her toddler shit in the restaurant…. Confused Never went anywhere with her again!

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 17:51

scoobysnaxx · Yesterday 17:49

Dog owner. Parents. Totally agree with you and I hate it. Disgusting and unnecessary. Pubs yes. Restaurants no.

comparing dogs and animals is like comparing apples and oranges.

Dogs are animals 😂

SapphireSeptember · Yesterday 17:52

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:46

Aghhhh, you monster. Kennels ....would you put a child in a cage for a week.....my dog is more intelligent than most 5 year old.......never even.

Impressive, as most dogs only have comparable intelligence to a two year old child. Crows have comparable intelligence to seven year olds.

I used to know a dog who loved going to kennels, he had a whale of a time. Probably more comparable to summer camp. They're not locked up 24/7 for a start.

Noodge · Yesterday 17:52

Screamingabdabz · Yesterday 16:15

Yep. Hardly ever go out to eat now. Minging dogs tethered to entitled arseholes. It just ruins it.

There is even an ad on the telly at the moment with two rolling around on a carpet in what is presumably a pub restaurant. I can just imagine the dog dander and dog snot flying through the air. Makes me feel sick.

(Allergies aside) both of which you're far less likely to become ill from than anything similar from a human. Debates are healthy but these threads rarely have any real logic other than 'because ew'.

SapphireSeptember · Yesterday 17:54

ThisWiseRobin · Yesterday 17:43

Heaven help us then.

Nasty.

worcesterpear · Yesterday 17:55

yanbu. I've said it before but it will take a few incidents of dogs attacking other dogs or people for this to become the less common option. I was in a cafe the other day and the dog bit its owner and drew blood, then went for someone else. the owner said it was reactive something or other but why would you take a dog like this into a cafe.

Laterlife · Yesterday 17:55

Somethinggg · Yesterday 16:47

Never used to really notice til I went to a bar a few weeks ago that has a couple of little pet dogs. It also serves food. They normally just wander around on the floor, no trouble and pretty cute, so I didn't think much of it. But I saw at one point one of them jump up and sit on a vacant table which had already been cleaned and set for the next customers. I went and found a staff member to clean it again, so no harm done, but the thought occurred that if I hadn't happened to notice, someone would've been eating off that. I decided not to go again.

Pub cats have been doing this for as long as there have been pubs. They also sit on the soft furnishings and lick themselves in public. As many people are allergic to cats as dogs.

Pistachiocake · Yesterday 17:58

Most restaurants would close if they banned dogs here, and those with disabilities often say they feel more welcome. Had meals ruined by screaming kids knocking things over, never by a dog. And as my kids didn't have dogs when they were born, it's good for them to have the health benefits of being near them (less chance of asthma etc) and to be used to dogs as friends with disabilities need their dog, so was important to make sure my kids knew to welcome them.

Gloriia · Yesterday 17:58

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 17:42

It always goes the same way on dog threads. Dog owners are looked down on just for having dogs, and their relationships and social skills are criticised.
Every time.

I'm a dog owner. I absolutely loathe seeing dogs in cafes and restaurants. Everyone hates it, just stop doing it.

There are lots of option. Outdoor areas, takeaways or leave it at home.

Dogs don't like crowds and noise anyway. I hate seeing them getting tripped over, shoved under tables or even worse sat on customers chairs. Wtf is wrong with people thst they cannot see how inappropriate it is.

Miyagi99 · Yesterday 18:00

Dweetfidilove · Yesterday 17:01

Do these restaurants have a sticker or something that says they're dog friendly, or will I need to check now before entering?

It’s always advertised on Google usually, that’s how dog owners find them.

MissMappsGardenProduce · Yesterday 18:00

GeorgeMichaelsCat · Yesterday 17:46

😂You clearly don't have cats if you can keep them out of rooms they want to be in

My cats are highly highly intelligent, even when compared to other cats but they cannot open a door.

That said, maybe they can but they have too much self-respect to barge in anywhere where-at that precise moment, they might not receive adoration.

Even so, I have naturally seen a cat clean its rear end and I have seen a dog chomp down on its arse-all slobber and shit bits in its mouth-and there is no comparison.

Dogs out of eating places!

Gowlett · Yesterday 18:00

I hate the way dog owners think their dog is being friendly. I don’t want to be touched by your dog. Yeah, it’s a me-thing. And no, dogs aren’t the same as kids. Not keen on cats, either… No animals in cafes, I say.

WhisperingHi · Yesterday 18:00

Glitchymn1 · Yesterday 16:11

Have both. Children are worse.

Why did you go somewhere dog friendly op? Usually there’s a dining area where dogs can’t get to unless 5 of you are eating for £100.

What does your comment about 5 eating for £100 mean? Are you insinuating she was eating somewhere low quality? £20 per person for lunch is loads, especially when considering it was likely 3 were kids.

Either way, OP, you’re not wrong. Dogs in restaurants is rank and ridiculous.

Limeandfigs · Yesterday 18:01

Gloriia · Yesterday 17:58

I'm a dog owner. I absolutely loathe seeing dogs in cafes and restaurants. Everyone hates it, just stop doing it.

There are lots of option. Outdoor areas, takeaways or leave it at home.

Dogs don't like crowds and noise anyway. I hate seeing them getting tripped over, shoved under tables or even worse sat on customers chairs. Wtf is wrong with people thst they cannot see how inappropriate it is.

Quite clearly "everyone" does not hate it, otherwise there wouldn't be such huge demand. Your statement is demonstrably false.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · Yesterday 18:01

I think there is nothing wrong with some restaurants and cafes being dog friendly - but it is very clear that there are plenty of people who want places that don’t allow in, and I think they have every right to eat in places where they are comfortable. There has to be a balance.

We have dogs, but have only taken them with us to restaurants twice - for dinner and breakfast at the dog friendly hotel we were staying in. We kept the dogs under the table, and quiet - and if they had bothered anyone, or hadn’t behaved themselves, one of us would have taken them back to the room.

GeorgeMichaelsCat · Yesterday 18:01

MissMappsGardenProduce · Yesterday 18:00

My cats are highly highly intelligent, even when compared to other cats but they cannot open a door.

That said, maybe they can but they have too much self-respect to barge in anywhere where-at that precise moment, they might not receive adoration.

Even so, I have naturally seen a cat clean its rear end and I have seen a dog chomp down on its arse-all slobber and shit bits in its mouth-and there is no comparison.

Dogs out of eating places!

😂😂😂

ThatJadeLion · Yesterday 18:02

I read posts like this and agree with the op. But then remember that every time I go to places, there are dogs and they are never a problem. I enjoy seeing them. Maybe I've just been lucky.

Gutachenow · Yesterday 18:03

Limeandfigs · Yesterday 18:01

Quite clearly "everyone" does not hate it, otherwise there wouldn't be such huge demand. Your statement is demonstrably false.

Exactly. Let them whinge nd foam at the mouth about hating dogs in eating establishments. It won’t make any difference because they are dog friendly so dogs will be there in force. Yay, love dogs 🐕

Waterbaby41 · Yesterday 18:03

Off you trot to the hill.

YeOldeGreyhound · Yesterday 18:03

Gloriia · Yesterday 17:58

I'm a dog owner. I absolutely loathe seeing dogs in cafes and restaurants. Everyone hates it, just stop doing it.

There are lots of option. Outdoor areas, takeaways or leave it at home.

Dogs don't like crowds and noise anyway. I hate seeing them getting tripped over, shoved under tables or even worse sat on customers chairs. Wtf is wrong with people thst they cannot see how inappropriate it is.

Speak for yourself. I don't hate seeing dogs in cafes and restaurants at all. It is noise I struggle with, be that from barking dogs or screaming children. Both should be taken outside.
Please don't speak for dogs that are not yours. My dog enjoyed going to cafes and on holiday. She was not taken anywhere that made her stressed or unhappy. People who forced unhappy dogs to stay somewhere are the ones that are irresponsible, not the ones who take their dogs to places they enjoy and are welcome.

HeyMoonPie · Yesterday 18:04

Thank you 'Duckdowned' - let's hope so!
I used to have a trade stand selling clothing - travelled all over the country to county shows, horse trials, trade shows etc. At a particular show held at a particular Royals home I had a group of ladies who stopped to chat with each other at the side of the stand. Lots of 'air kissing etc - all had dogs (get the picture ?). Completely oblivious to what the dogs were doing on long leads - people nearly tripping up etc.
One dog then proceeded to cock his leg and pissed all over 5 outfits ! The owner didn't apologise when I pointed this out just shrugged her shoulders. I quickly wrote a bill and gave her the items telling her they were hers as I couldn't sell them. She was I think a bit surprised muttered I can't I have no cash but I whipped out my card machine! She had by this time gone slight red and was attracting a small crowd - she signed the slip and disappeared leaving me with the clothing.
This happened out in a marquee but I have seen it happen in several shops now. What are these independent shop owners suppose to do ? They get lambasted if they refuse to let dogs in but risk stock being spoilt. Finally our local garden centre has now refused dogs being allowed to enter thank goodness but honestly the backlash on SM was ridiculous !