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AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK? PART 2

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CoventryCity · 24/08/2026 11:09

'Don't rape, sexually assault or make kissing noises' at people, asylum seekers warned in guidance about living in UK

UK arrivals have been told to treat women equally, not sexually assault partners or have sex with children in a new Home Office pamphlet. As well as the guidebook, a series of posters have also been designed by the government.'

https://news.sky.com/story/asylum-seekers-warned-not-to-make-kissing-sounds-at-people-in-new-guidance-about-living-in-uk-13574744

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GaIadriel · Yesterday 00:25

CoventryCity · 25/08/2026 18:46

Unveiled: How Western Liberals Empower Radical Islam
by Yasmine Mohammed
Ayaan Hirsi Ali's Infidel meets The Handmaid's Tale

'The author argues that many well-meaning Western liberals and feminists are so afraid of being labelled "Islamophobic" (prejudiced against Muslims) that they turn a blind eye to real human rights abuses and misogyny within Islamic fundamentalism. '

What's wrong with disliking Islam anyway? It's a religion not a race. Nobody cares when people slate Mormons, Scientologists, Jehova's witnesses, and Satanists (an accepted religion fyi).

Channel 4's survey found that the majority of UK Muslims think homosexuality should be a crime. A significant number also believed that a woman should always obey her husband. I guarantee there'd be a change of tune if we implemented the latter!

ProudBlackMomma · Yesterday 07:41

GaIadriel · Yesterday 00:25

What's wrong with disliking Islam anyway? It's a religion not a race. Nobody cares when people slate Mormons, Scientologists, Jehova's witnesses, and Satanists (an accepted religion fyi).

Channel 4's survey found that the majority of UK Muslims think homosexuality should be a crime. A significant number also believed that a woman should always obey her husband. I guarantee there'd be a change of tune if we implemented the latter!

It’s the only religion we are not allowed disparage. Catholics, Jews, all fair game but offend a Muslim and you’ll know all about it.

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 07:42

ProudBlackMomma · Yesterday 07:41

It’s the only religion we are not allowed disparage. Catholics, Jews, all fair game but offend a Muslim and you’ll know all about it.

Isn’t there a teacher still in hiding over here?

Secretseverywhere · Yesterday 08:17

5MinuteArgument · 25/08/2026 19:16

Yes, I agree, women have closed ranks with their menfolk when it came to the grooming gangs. I dont want that mentality here. And of course they would bring their children with them and if granted LTR would be allowed to bring their families (a Palestinian woman was enabled by judges to bring 18 family members into the UK). No thankyou.

It’s not just grooming gangs, there are instances in the UK where a family have raped and murdered their own daughter in a so called honour killing and the police reckoned 50 members of the community closed ranks and lied to them to cover it up.

Survior stories are utterly harrowing, imagine trying to return to your family because you were raped by your husband and his family for them to attempt to beat you to death. Then the police do nada as “cultural”.

They have changed the rules on reporting so called honour based violence I.e. making police document it. There are thousands of instances each year as well as at least a dozen deaths. The number could be much higher but is written off as suicide or accident.

I actually think this is getting worse as there are parallel communities where some girls and women are so restricted they live in echo chambers that deny them the rights that we have in the UK.

Violetdeparma · Yesterday 08:57

@Secretseverywhere abosoluty it's layer upon layer of control.

CoventryCity · Yesterday 09:10

NHS cost of cousin marriages and then babies questioned in parliament.

'Pakistani-heritage journalist Matthew Syed has highlighted the risk-multiplying effect of genetic disorders when cousins intergenerationally marry cousins, as happens in remote Shetland, Orkney, and in the British Pakistani community. Pakistanis account for 3.4% of births nationwide but 30% of recessive gene disorders. The NHS employs staff specifically to deal with consanguinity-related diseases. Given this considerable disease burden, and the NHS cost, will this Government mount a health information campaign warning of this significant extra risk?

And then follows a lot of waffle to not answer that question or address the sky high cost of inter family breeding.

https://hansard.parliament.uk/lords/2025-01-20/debates/90696BC8-E032-49CB-BFC3-747F1D9CC219/First-CousinMarriage

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CoventryCity · Yesterday 09:33

Horrendous

  • Updated data from the ONS shows that population growth since 2021 has been higher than previously thought, with 4.80 million people arriving in 2021-4 and net immigration of 2.55 million, equivalent to population growth of 3.8 per cent
  • The net inflow of non-British nationals – 2.9 million people – is equivalent to around 4.4% of the UK population at the end of 2020, meaning that one in every 25 people in the UK today has arrived in the last four years
  • Roughly speaking, the foreign-born share of the population has risen from 16.0 per cent in 2021 to around 19.6 per cent
  • The year 2022 saw the fastest rate of population growth since 1828
  • There has also been a spike in emigration, with 992,000 British nationals leaving between 2021 and 2024, 190 per cent more than previously thought
  • A new CPS briefing outlines the scale of this demographic change, and explores the idea of an emergency census in 2026

https://cps.org.uk/media/post/2025/revised-migration-data-shows-extraordinary-scale-of-uk-population-change/

Revised migration data shows extraordinary scale of UK population change - The Centre for Policy Studies

Updated data from the ONS shows that population growth since 2021 has been higher than previously thought, with 4.80 million people arriving in 2021-4 and net immigration of 2.55 million, equivalent to population growth of 3.8 per cent  The net inflow...

https://cps.org.uk/media/post/2025/revised-migration-data-shows-extraordinary-scale-of-uk-population-change/

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MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 09:42

We are doomed. And who let this pos into the country and, moreover, let him stay ?

AIBU to think if we need to politely ask men not to rape women (or men), then we don't want such people in the UK?  PART 2
GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 09:47

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 09:42

We are doomed. And who let this pos into the country and, moreover, let him stay ?

It’s unbelievable.

And what’s perhaps even more unbelievable and infuriating is that there are dimwits on here screeching about racism and ‘white men rape/ are violent too’.

Just stop it! Enough now!

EasternStandard · Yesterday 09:54

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 09:47

It’s unbelievable.

And what’s perhaps even more unbelievable and infuriating is that there are dimwits on here screeching about racism and ‘white men rape/ are violent too’.

Just stop it! Enough now!

Ik it’s ridiculous.

Nuthatch26 · Yesterday 09:59

CoventryCity · Yesterday 09:33

Horrendous

  • Updated data from the ONS shows that population growth since 2021 has been higher than previously thought, with 4.80 million people arriving in 2021-4 and net immigration of 2.55 million, equivalent to population growth of 3.8 per cent
  • The net inflow of non-British nationals – 2.9 million people – is equivalent to around 4.4% of the UK population at the end of 2020, meaning that one in every 25 people in the UK today has arrived in the last four years
  • Roughly speaking, the foreign-born share of the population has risen from 16.0 per cent in 2021 to around 19.6 per cent
  • The year 2022 saw the fastest rate of population growth since 1828
  • There has also been a spike in emigration, with 992,000 British nationals leaving between 2021 and 2024, 190 per cent more than previously thought
  • A new CPS briefing outlines the scale of this demographic change, and explores the idea of an emergency census in 2026

https://cps.org.uk/media/post/2025/revised-migration-data-shows-extraordinary-scale-of-uk-population-change/

Jeez. One in every 25 people has arrived in the last four years! Thats startling.

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 10:02

EasternStandard · Yesterday 09:54

Ik it’s ridiculous.

I am so sick of all the do-gooders who do anything but! All they do is cause harm to women and girls with their endless minimising and whataboutery!

Eta: and not just women and girls. What about the man in his 60s who was raped by a lovely individual from Eritrea?

NancyThompson · Yesterday 10:05

Nuthatch26 · Yesterday 09:59

Jeez. One in every 25 people has arrived in the last four years! Thats startling.

And the Brits emigrating will almost certainly skew wealthy and educated - lost to us now.

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 10:07

Nuthatch26 · Yesterday 09:59

Jeez. One in every 25 people has arrived in the last four years! Thats startling.

And a great many of the “bad white men” that we are supposed to be afraid of are elderly and will be gone before long. Probably about half the men in my road are over 80. Funnily enough I am not cowering as I encounter them toddling back from the paper shop with their Telegraphs. But of course they are every bit as dangerous as the groups of men sitting smoking in the children’s playground.

5MinuteArgument · Yesterday 10:13

Nuthatch26 · Yesterday 09:55

Awful. Article in the DM below for anyone who hasn't read about it. He is 'sexually uninhibited' according to this.

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-16079243/Sudanese-asylum-seeker-arrived-UK-claim-rejected-France-lay-wait-high-street-lone-woman-slashing-30-times-broken-bottle.html

Crazy situation. If these scumbags were to rape or murder the daughters of the judges and lawyers who enable them to enter and remain in the UK, things might change. Or if the daughters of the liberal establishment, BBC journalists, academics, politicians etc were the ones that were preyed upon.

But these people can carry on championing the cause of migrant criminals because they know it's somebody else who pays the price.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 10:15

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 10:02

I am so sick of all the do-gooders who do anything but! All they do is cause harm to women and girls with their endless minimising and whataboutery!

Eta: and not just women and girls. What about the man in his 60s who was raped by a lovely individual from Eritrea?

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True or the victim in Belfast. And to women and girls.

But what are they doing defending it? It’s madness.

5MinuteArgument · Yesterday 10:19

MaturingCheeseball · Yesterday 09:42

We are doomed. And who let this pos into the country and, moreover, let him stay ?

Yes, the success rate for asylum claims in the UK is double that of France. No wonder all these scumbags are clamouring to get here.

Also, I don't trust the civil service at all. Their 'decision makers' just rubber stamp applicants like this piece of filth in order to clear the backlog and hit their targets.

Nuthatch26 · Yesterday 10:21

What the fuck is going on in Brighton? There seems to be so much of this happening there.

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 10:24

EasternStandard · Yesterday 10:15

True or the victim in Belfast. And to women and girls.

But what are they doing defending it? It’s madness.

Yes, that poor man. His attacker tried to behead him and gouge his eyes out!

But hey, nothing to see here. This has always been a common occurrence on the streets of Europe.

Right?

5MinuteArgument · Yesterday 10:24

CoventryCity · Yesterday 09:33

Horrendous

  • Updated data from the ONS shows that population growth since 2021 has been higher than previously thought, with 4.80 million people arriving in 2021-4 and net immigration of 2.55 million, equivalent to population growth of 3.8 per cent
  • The net inflow of non-British nationals – 2.9 million people – is equivalent to around 4.4% of the UK population at the end of 2020, meaning that one in every 25 people in the UK today has arrived in the last four years
  • Roughly speaking, the foreign-born share of the population has risen from 16.0 per cent in 2021 to around 19.6 per cent
  • The year 2022 saw the fastest rate of population growth since 1828
  • There has also been a spike in emigration, with 992,000 British nationals leaving between 2021 and 2024, 190 per cent more than previously thought
  • A new CPS briefing outlines the scale of this demographic change, and explores the idea of an emergency census in 2026

https://cps.org.uk/media/post/2025/revised-migration-data-shows-extraordinary-scale-of-uk-population-change/

Yes, great way to destabilise a country by bringing in loads of low skilled people from often incompatible cultures and waving goodbye to productive and well qualified Brits.

To say nothing about the change in the religious makeup of the UK and the growing power of fundamentalist Islam in the UK.

BubbleAndLeek · Yesterday 10:24

Nuthatch26 · Yesterday 09:55

Awful. Article in the DM below for anyone who hasn't read about it. He is 'sexually uninhibited' according to this.

https://www.dailymail.com/news/article-16079243/Sudanese-asylum-seeker-arrived-UK-claim-rejected-France-lay-wait-high-street-lone-woman-slashing-30-times-broken-bottle.html

Someone will respond "but a white man assaulted me"

NancyThompson · Yesterday 10:25

Nuthatch26 · Yesterday 10:21

What the fuck is going on in Brighton? There seems to be so much of this happening there.

It seems to have become really bad now. I don't even think the men are resident there, it just seems to be a draw to visit for a bit of sea air and sexual assault.

EasternStandard · Yesterday 10:26

GunnelVallquist · Yesterday 10:24

Yes, that poor man. His attacker tried to behead him and gouge his eyes out!

But hey, nothing to see here. This has always been a common occurrence on the streets of Europe.

Right?

There are posters who are more outraged that it’s in the headlines. Watch out for the Greens they’d probably suppress that.

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