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Do you agree with school absence fines?

257 replies

Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 10:43

I honestly don’t have a strong opinion either way. I work term time so I can only go away in the school holidays anyway, plus I’ve never been keen on mine missing school.

However, I can totally understand why for many people they want to go on holiday during term time. A family holiday can be a magical experience, visiting somewhere new, spending proper time together, experiencing new things, getting away from the daily grind. And for many this would be unaffordable in the school holidays. The other thing is that parents can’t always get the time off work.

I do think it’s important for children to attend school, I know they missing large chunks at school can mean them falling behind, miss out on learning as well as time with friends.

But tbh, I know people whose children missing large chunks school frequently anyway. Any sniffle, tired day, weather too hot or too cold and the parents are ringing them on sick. There are other children who attend 100% of the time and is one week away for a family holiday, possibly at a time of year when learning is wrapping up anyway, going to really make that much difference.

When I was at school in the 80s/90s it was quite normal for children to disappear for 2 weeks for a holiday abroad and no one batted an eyelid.

I’m sure that there are lots of arguments either way but do you think it’s right and fair that parents are fined for taking their children on holiday during term time?

Yabu - the fines are correct
Yanbu - it should be the parents decision

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Dancingonlies · 24/08/2026 11:31

I disagree with them because

  1. they disproportionally impact disabled and SEN children whose needs are being so poorly met in the educational system at the moment that it’s insult to injury to then fine them
  2. where there are more ‘truancy’ type issues it’s a poor way of trying to fix them
  3. holidays in term time have no impact on attainment. The evidence is that poor attendance is associated with poor attainment but since this is also linked with SEND we can’t really say there is ANY causal link between a family holiday and attainment.
  4. Fundamentally parents know better than schools what their children need and I don’t think state parenting is a good concept.
Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 11:31

C152 · 24/08/2026 11:28

No, I strongly disagree with school absence fines.

Every time one of these threads comes up and, as you yourself have pointed out, it's highlighted that fines do very little to deter absence and are simply a money making exercise. If the Government actually cared about children being in school, they would invest in education and healthcare. That's the real crux of the matter.

To be honest I didn’t actually look this up before starting the thread.

I keep seeing people on SM going mad about school fines.

I am a massive believer in school attendance, however I do also think that family holidays are a hugely valuable experience.

But now that I have read that the fines don’t even make any difference to attendance, I think that they are bloody ridiculous.

Attendance should be about the children’s well being and education and nothing more.

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ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 11:31

Gengha · 24/08/2026 11:30

Presumably the idea is it’s a deterrent so parents don’t do this?

Likely but will it make any difference? Most likely not.

Loulou4022 · 24/08/2026 11:32

ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 11:25

Doesn't help low paid families 2026.

It would help in the future. And for next year people need to start saving! DH and I are already saving for our holidays next year.

Dancingonlies · 24/08/2026 11:32

Dancingonlies · 24/08/2026 11:31

I disagree with them because

  1. they disproportionally impact disabled and SEN children whose needs are being so poorly met in the educational system at the moment that it’s insult to injury to then fine them
  2. where there are more ‘truancy’ type issues it’s a poor way of trying to fix them
  3. holidays in term time have no impact on attainment. The evidence is that poor attendance is associated with poor attainment but since this is also linked with SEND we can’t really say there is ANY causal link between a family holiday and attainment.
  4. Fundamentally parents know better than schools what their children need and I don’t think state parenting is a good concept.

Oh and my kids have fantastic attendance. I have also never taken my kids out of school for a holiday.
They have missed a week of school due to a bereavement and it was absolutely the right choice .

Dandeloosha · 24/08/2026 11:33

It’s challenging enough managing a class without having to spend time, energy, and the disruption to the other children, of teaching little Johnny long division separately because his parents chose to take him to Benidorm for two weeks in February when it was being taught the first time. Even more fun when he gets a sniffle and has to stay off for another two weeks. At this point little Johnny has missed a month of school - around a 9th of the school year, half of which was entirely avoidable.

We know that performance is linked to attendance. Why wouldn’t you want to give your kid the best chance of doing well for the sake of a few hundred quid? If the fines make at least some parents think twice then that can only be a good thing. If they removed them I can only imagine that attendance would become patchy across the board, especially from the kids who probably need to attend the most.

Loulou4022 · 24/08/2026 11:33

Toodoloo · 24/08/2026 11:26

So work with parents to keep their kids engaged with learning. Fining them doesn't increase attendance but does negatively affect the family.

Sadly a lot of the parents whose children are struggling don’t give a stuff no matter how much we engage with them! Their parents saw no importance of education so neither do they and will continue down to their children’s children sadly.

ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 11:34

Loulou4022 · 24/08/2026 11:32

It would help in the future. And for next year people need to start saving! DH and I are already saving for our holidays next year.

You can't control holiday prices. Won't happen.

ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 11:35

Dandeloosha · 24/08/2026 11:33

It’s challenging enough managing a class without having to spend time, energy, and the disruption to the other children, of teaching little Johnny long division separately because his parents chose to take him to Benidorm for two weeks in February when it was being taught the first time. Even more fun when he gets a sniffle and has to stay off for another two weeks. At this point little Johnny has missed a month of school - around a 9th of the school year, half of which was entirely avoidable.

We know that performance is linked to attendance. Why wouldn’t you want to give your kid the best chance of doing well for the sake of a few hundred quid? If the fines make at least some parents think twice then that can only be a good thing. If they removed them I can only imagine that attendance would become patchy across the board, especially from the kids who probably need to attend the most.

Other countries do it. Yes. It can be done.

If Johnny struggles in school he will struggle no matter he is in Benidorm a week or two.

Dandeloosha · 24/08/2026 11:36

And there is a very, very, strong link between attendance and performance.

assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/67c96d7dd0fba2f1334cf2ed/The_link_between_attendance_and_attainment_in_an_assessment_year_-_March_2025.pdf

JustPassingThyme · 24/08/2026 11:38

Loulou4022 · 24/08/2026 11:30

Why is it ridiculous? The children aren’t getting the fines the parents are.
1 child missing 1 week isn’t going to make much difference but multiply that by 30 children at different times of the year and it’s very difficult to catch everyone up!!

I didn't say it should be the teacher's burden to catch the child up. I think it would be more practical for everyone involved if the parents emailed ahead of time saying my child will be missing from x date to x date due to us going on holiday. What will you be studying, I will have them go over it before they get back. It would take the teacher 5 minutes, the child's education wouldn't be disrupted.

Unfortunealy I doubt such a collaborative approach would be possible as teachers seem extraordinarily irrationally annoyed that their students can go on a cheap term time holiday. I dare not suggest that envy is the cause of such an odd response.

ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 11:38

Dandeloosha · 24/08/2026 11:36

Any conclusion in the 47 pages for a standard child taking a week extra holiday in term?

ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 11:39

JustPassingThyme · 24/08/2026 11:38

I didn't say it should be the teacher's burden to catch the child up. I think it would be more practical for everyone involved if the parents emailed ahead of time saying my child will be missing from x date to x date due to us going on holiday. What will you be studying, I will have them go over it before they get back. It would take the teacher 5 minutes, the child's education wouldn't be disrupted.

Unfortunealy I doubt such a collaborative approach would be possible as teachers seem extraordinarily irrationally annoyed that their students can go on a cheap term time holiday. I dare not suggest that envy is the cause of such an odd response.

The approach serms to work outside England.

Danhausenrocks · 24/08/2026 11:40

I think it's using a sledgehammer to crack a nut, and the fines are targeting the wrong people

Four years ago, we took our year 2 daughter out for 4 days for a trip to Lapland at Xmas. We were fined. AT the end of the school year, her attendance was 98% as they had been the only absences all year.

Yet I know 2 of her best friends had attendance at around 89-90% because they were off with the sniffles/coughs/colds ALL THE TIME.

But we've also taken the odd day or so before half terms to get better flight prices, and quite frankly,. we've just phoned the school and said "she's been sick...as per your 48hr policy she can't come in..." to avoid the potential fine. When I knew full well, those two days were a) class treat and b) dedicated PE days so she wasn't missing any actual learning at all.

I think there's a big difference between taking a day off either side of half term, and taking 3 weeks in the middle of term to go away. But the system doens't correlate to that.

PensionPTake · 24/08/2026 11:40

Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 10:47

Id be interested to know if there is any evidence to show whether school fines have made much of an impact on attendance, and also whether they have had any impact on academic results and children’s wellbeing.

Same. I preferred it when it was left at the headteachers discretion.

LeaveMeBee · 24/08/2026 11:41

The holiday companies should have to pay the fine, because they're the reason people take their kids out during term time.

The fact a UK caravan holiday Mon-Fri can be £179, but then £659+ for the same thing a week later when it's half term/summer hols, is awful.

Greed.
Unfortunately, money makes the world go round...

PensionPTake · 24/08/2026 11:42

Dandeloosha · 24/08/2026 11:36

Yet when your child can't attend due to unmet send needs/no suitable placement, no one gives a shit if they miss weeks, months or even years of education. One rule for parents another for schools and LAs

SpottyPyjama · 24/08/2026 11:43

Dreamyseptember · 24/08/2026 11:02

But surely if parents don’t care about their children’s schooling they will just ring the chosen in sick anyway 🤷‍♀️ or they’ll be the type to have persistent absence.

I’ve never taken mine out of school because I work term time and I felt my children did need to be in school, we could also afford to take the financial hit, but I can see that for some children missing a week won’t have an impact.

Some do care about their children’s schooling but they also feel entitled to a cheap foreign holiday every year. These are the cheeky fuckers that ask the teacher to set work for the child to do while away as if they’re doing the school a favour, expect it to be marked on return and then send in souvenirs for show and tell as if the rest of the children are going to be interested in the holiday their classmates were having while they were working hard in lessons.

LeaveMeBee · 24/08/2026 11:44

Danhausenrocks · 24/08/2026 11:40

I think it's using a sledgehammer to crack a nut, and the fines are targeting the wrong people

Four years ago, we took our year 2 daughter out for 4 days for a trip to Lapland at Xmas. We were fined. AT the end of the school year, her attendance was 98% as they had been the only absences all year.

Yet I know 2 of her best friends had attendance at around 89-90% because they were off with the sniffles/coughs/colds ALL THE TIME.

But we've also taken the odd day or so before half terms to get better flight prices, and quite frankly,. we've just phoned the school and said "she's been sick...as per your 48hr policy she can't come in..." to avoid the potential fine. When I knew full well, those two days were a) class treat and b) dedicated PE days so she wasn't missing any actual learning at all.

I think there's a big difference between taking a day off either side of half term, and taking 3 weeks in the middle of term to go away. But the system doens't correlate to that.

Did you admit it was for a holiday?
I'm wondering how the school knew to fine you.

Lying is not ideal, but I think for the sake of 4days, my family would've had a "violent stomach bug"

Holeymoley28 · 24/08/2026 11:44

We always go in the holidays.

However I think a much better approach would be to allow 5 school days holiday a year not everyone would use it anyway.

To combat the sickness excuses use the truancy officers to check in on children who are magically off too long to go and check on them once it hits 3/4 days in a row.

Then fine the shit out of the parents if caught lying having already used their 5 days. Do it in proportion to wages rather than a set fee.

Much like some court fines can be wage dependant.

ShetlandishMum · 24/08/2026 11:45

SpottyPyjama · 24/08/2026 11:43

Some do care about their children’s schooling but they also feel entitled to a cheap foreign holiday every year. These are the cheeky fuckers that ask the teacher to set work for the child to do while away as if they’re doing the school a favour, expect it to be marked on return and then send in souvenirs for show and tell as if the rest of the children are going to be interested in the holiday their classmates were having while they were working hard in lessons.

And we forget about the parents not being cheeky fuckers dont we? Not all parents are like this.

LeaveMeBee · 24/08/2026 11:46

PensionPTake · 24/08/2026 11:42

Yet when your child can't attend due to unmet send needs/no suitable placement, no one gives a shit if they miss weeks, months or even years of education. One rule for parents another for schools and LAs

Agreed.

A relatives child has basically been neglected of an education because of SEN.
The whole system is a mess and a money making wheel

SunnyRedSnail · 24/08/2026 11:46

I'm a secondary school teacher and have no objection to a child being taken out of school IF the parents make sure all school work missed is completed.

e.g. school agrees a week off school, child is told what work needs to be completed that they will miss, and child brings evidence of that work having been done to school.

I think that's more than fair.

If the child doesn't complete the missing work, THEN I think there are grounds to fine the parents.

My cousins spent 3 weeks travelling round India with their parents. They kept a journal of their travels, did the maths/English work the school asked them to, and then did a presentation to the class when they got back.

EDIT: Can I have a week off school to go on a cheaper holiday too though? I'm currently working today planning lessons.

SpottyPyjama · 24/08/2026 11:47

PensionPTake · 24/08/2026 11:42

Yet when your child can't attend due to unmet send needs/no suitable placement, no one gives a shit if they miss weeks, months or even years of education. One rule for parents another for schools and LAs

Literally no one thinks it’s ok for
children to be out of school
due to a lack of suitable places. The two things are completely unrelated.

A belief that children should be in school during term time doesn’t magically make appropriate school provision appear out of nowhere.

LondonKara · 24/08/2026 11:47

Loulou4022 · 24/08/2026 10:56

Yes. I work in a school so see the other side of the coin. If a child misses 2 weeks of school they have missed 2 weeks of learning. Topics are often only covered for 1 week so the child has missed out. If you then get multiple children off on holiday over different weeks of the year plus illnesses that all children get, it’s impossible to catch everyone up so standards across the board slip.
The add in, if we allow children to have term time holidays then school staff need to be allowed the same and it just becomes completely untenable!
I completely understand that holidays are more expensive during the school holidays, DH and I just booked our holiday for next summer and it’s several hundred pounds more that if we’d have gone 3 weeks before during term time. But it’s one of those things that comes with the territory of working in a school or having children. We save every month for holidays so it’s not a big deal come the time to pay for it.
Maybe the anger should be directed at the holiday companies hiking up the prices during school holidays? Surely it would be better for them to have 1 peak season from say May to August rather than peak April-July and super peak in August?

I understand this at secondary. But I have to say for the majority of primary aged pupils I just don't see a big problem in losing two weeks of learning. That happens all the time - illness, teacher absence. My child missed a week when the school closed in the heatwave. Some kids are unschooled until secondary these days! I just find it hard to believe a couple of weeks affects long term outcomes in any meaningful way.

As for staff, I don't think that's the same, they can choose to work in a school, the problem is the fines aren't optional.