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Friends promised a BBQ and delivered an Iceland beige buffet!

367 replies

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 19:32

As above really, myself, DH and 3 DC went to our friends’ house yesterday on the promise of some drinks in the garden and a BBQ.

They said they were having issues with their BBQ so would do an ‘indoor BBQ’. This consisted of beige food from Iceland!!

AIBU to find this a woeful alternative?

OP posts:
kittensinthekitchen · Yesterday 22:34

Bbqdisaster · Yesterday 22:00

It’s because it’s a race to the bottom for many on this site, sadly.

Is it really a race to the bottom or a race not to be a snobby cunt?

IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 22:35

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 22:21

Who's 'Charlie Bigham' ?

A brand of shit processed ready meals slapped with a slightly more expensive price tag than the supermarket version.

likelysuspect · Yesterday 22:35

Priyanka12 · Yesterday 22:30

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Edited

One would expect that moving to the UK involves an acceptance of integrating with UK norms

One of the huge personality quirks or characteristics generally speaking of the British is that there is far less rigidity about food and recipes and eating times and styles.

British people in general dont like 'feeders'. We consider that rude.

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 22:35

IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 22:35

A brand of shit processed ready meals slapped with a slightly more expensive price tag than the supermarket version.

I had a feeling it was something like that.....

Yetone · Yesterday 22:36

IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 22:35

A brand of shit processed ready meals slapped with a slightly more expensive price tag than the supermarket version.

No, they generally taste better.

kittensinthekitchen · Yesterday 22:36

Tahlbias · Yesterday 21:45

Aren't BBQs still banned though?

Were they ever?

Hint: Not yes

Winnie9 · Yesterday 22:37

What is wrong with some people that they think the OP is within her rights to be disappointed! These posts just scream sanctononious snobbery to me. For goodness sake - who cares what they are serving? Did you have a good time? Do you like these people? Are they actually your friends or did you just turn up to judge?

likelysuspect · Yesterday 22:37

IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 22:35

A brand of shit processed ready meals slapped with a slightly more expensive price tag than the supermarket version.

It has a cartoony handrawn cardboard sleeve. You cant put a price on that.

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 22:37

kittensinthekitchen · Yesterday 22:36

Were they ever?

Hint: Not yes

I thought they banned the disposable ones ?

kittensinthekitchen · Yesterday 22:37

Priyanka12 · Yesterday 22:30

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Edited

LOLZ

kittensinthekitchen · Yesterday 22:38

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 22:37

I thought they banned the disposable ones ?

Who? The world?

ShapeofanLonmyforehead · Yesterday 22:39

I’m a certified beige food HATER op, I sympathise with you.. i just can’t stand oven/air fried beige, breaded, battered crap. I also don’t like frozen pizzas or the like. It’s just grim 😬

My circle, and my family usually do a ‘bring something to contribute’ type of thing so there’s a bit more variety, could this be something you put forward next time?! 🤣

Yetone · Yesterday 22:39

If I went to a friend’s house I really wouldn’t care what they gave me to eat. I usually see people because I enjoy their company. However most of my friends are really good cooks. Sausages and burgers quite frankly, are disgustingly fatty cheap foods.

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 22:39

likelysuspect · Yesterday 22:37

It has a cartoony handrawn cardboard sleeve. You cant put a price on that.

Ah-ha. I'm glad you told me that. I must get one and maybe that drawing will be a 'collectable' in 20 years like Banksy

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 22:40

kittensinthekitchen · Yesterday 22:38

Who? The world?

No 'Air Miles Andy'.

mybeautifulemeraldparure · Yesterday 22:40

likelysuspect · Yesterday 22:35

One would expect that moving to the UK involves an acceptance of integrating with UK norms

One of the huge personality quirks or characteristics generally speaking of the British is that there is far less rigidity about food and recipes and eating times and styles.

British people in general dont like 'feeders'. We consider that rude.

We get an incredible range of food here in Britain, and are more open and relaxed about food choices than some other places.

Needmorelego · Yesterday 22:41

Hellohelga · Yesterday 21:57

Agree fruit platter is always popular and salad and/or roasted veggies.

And you can even buy fresh fruit and veggies from Iceland.
😁

ilovesooty · Yesterday 22:41

kittensinthekitchen · Yesterday 22:37

LOLZ

She seems to have forgotten that people can see her edit history.

DeftGoldHedgehog · Yesterday 22:42

So what? I'm a foodie but I wouldn't give a monkey's if my friend served me stuff they just shoved in the oven.

Ooooohhhyessss · Yesterday 22:43

montysmaw · Yesterday 22:29

You sound lovely.

Why?

likelysuspect · Yesterday 22:44

mybeautifulemeraldparure · Yesterday 22:40

We get an incredible range of food here in Britain, and are more open and relaxed about food choices than some other places.

Exactly, our flexibility about food is what has created the range of international and fusion cuisine found here

You go to small town Spain or Italy and all you find is Spanish or Italian food. Perhaps the odd kebaby type place. I love Spanish and Italian food but lets not pretend 'foreign' lands are bastions of food experimentations and 'foodie cultures' because they're not. They're very limited and rigid. Fantastic at what they do. But thats all they do.

Many areas of those countries have influences from the countries they colonised and countries which colonised parts of them in the past but thats how it has then stayed, it hasnt evolved. British food is ever evolving.

mybeautifulemeraldparure · Yesterday 22:44

Priyanka12 · Yesterday 22:30

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Edited

Sounds like very rigid thinking, if it's not snobbery. If someone offered me a slice of cake I wouldn't get angsty about whether or not it was home baked.

Loobylooisblue · Yesterday 22:44

@Yetone "Sausages and burgers quite frankly, are disgustingly fatty cheap foods."
I'm with you all the way on that.
Ever seen someone put a cheap burger on a BBQ ? It starts off 3" across and as it cooks all the fat runs out and it shrinks to about 2" across. When it's cooked you could sole your shoe with it.

likelysuspect · Yesterday 22:45

Needmorelego · Yesterday 22:41

And you can even buy fresh fruit and veggies from Iceland.
😁

Shocking revelation.

mybeautifulemeraldparure · Yesterday 22:45

Yetone · Yesterday 22:39

If I went to a friend’s house I really wouldn’t care what they gave me to eat. I usually see people because I enjoy their company. However most of my friends are really good cooks. Sausages and burgers quite frankly, are disgustingly fatty cheap foods.

Same here, I'm not keen on BBQs for that reason.