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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to ask if you own a sex toy?

100 replies

Isitwrongtoask · 22/08/2026 19:45

Do you?
Ive just turned 45 considering getting one.
Interested to know who has one

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NoArmaniNoPunani · 22/08/2026 19:46

YABU

TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne · 22/08/2026 19:46

Two.

Changingplace · 22/08/2026 19:46

What does it matter if people do or don’t, if you want one get one, you’ve not said which way to vote in any case.

Epoisses · 22/08/2026 19:47

I have DH

Nousernameideaaga · 22/08/2026 19:48

Yesitwrongtoask

bosslady24 · 22/08/2026 19:48

Epoisses · 22/08/2026 19:47

I have DH

Me too. And a sex toy. They are not mutually exclusive. They can even be used together.

ChopSueyCharcuterieBoard · 22/08/2026 19:49

Why would you need to know if a bunch of strangers have one before you decide to get one? 🤨

Justontherightsideofnormal · 22/08/2026 19:49

Yes! recently bought a selection. spiced life up with DH and outfits too. In our late 40s. Been together 30+ yrs.

Thehop · 22/08/2026 19:50

Go for it definitely!

CurdinHenry · 22/08/2026 19:51

Don't really see the need

Nincompoo · 22/08/2026 19:52

Loads of them 🤣

RemindMeIn15Minutes · 22/08/2026 19:53

No.

ThatJadeLion · 22/08/2026 19:53

No. YABU for asking. There is a section for sex talk.

EmpressaurusKitty · 22/08/2026 20:09

@TheBroonOneAndTheWhiteOne’s cat has a sex duvet.

Isitwrongtoask · 22/08/2026 20:16

ThatJadeLion · 22/08/2026 19:53

No. YABU for asking. There is a section for sex talk.

What specific talk is the ‘AIBU’ section for??
We don’t have to talk about sex if you don’t want to.
Just tell me you have one?!

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Crediblehedge · 22/08/2026 20:21

Yup we have a case of them 🤣

Early 30's been together for a decade. We like to keep things exciting.

If you are thinking about it go for one, the majority of women get atleast one at some point in their life. Buy online - will get posted to you in discreet packaging from most decent retailers.

TheLightSideOfTheMoon · 22/08/2026 20:23

I have a large drawer full.

If you want one then get one.

Random321 · 22/08/2026 20:25

Yes, why not?

Purplecatshopaholic · 22/08/2026 20:26

Several. And a partner. For use separately or together, lol. Defo recommend.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 22/08/2026 20:27

I have since I was about 18, now 46. Even more embarrassing is that I’ve given them all names over the years. Currently on Kevin, not sure where that came from 🤣

roseymoira · 22/08/2026 20:29

Isitwrongtoask · 22/08/2026 20:16

What specific talk is the ‘AIBU’ section for??
We don’t have to talk about sex if you don’t want to.
Just tell me you have one?!

It’s for asking AIBU about some kind of life situation, a dilemma perhaps.

Shatenoeuf · 22/08/2026 20:30

Nope, ive never really got the point. Dh turns me on, not a piece of rubber or plastic or whatever. i orgasm pretty easily from penetrative intercourse.

Lofibeats · 22/08/2026 20:34

No never been into sex toys.

BeMellowAquaSquid · 22/08/2026 20:35

Shatenoeuf · 22/08/2026 20:30

Nope, ive never really got the point. Dh turns me on, not a piece of rubber or plastic or whatever. i orgasm pretty easily from penetrative intercourse.

Not judging at all when I say this but it’s quite uncommon for a woman to orgasm from purely penetrative sex so kudos to you!

MyManinCaracas · 22/08/2026 20:35

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