I just took my 3 year old from her father who'd been trying to put her to bed, she was very upset - nothing too unusual for a 3 year old going to bed. As I held her she aid 'daddy hurt me' and pointed clearly to between her legs. Now she does have an imagination but this was very clear. She repeated when I asked again, at least twice. And in front of her dad. I know he sometimes doesn't know his own strength and it has occurred to me he could have pulled her pants up a bit sharpe and hurt her like that. But I've suggested that and he says no. I've told him he must think carefully about what exactly happened upstairs, why she became upset and why she would say he'd hurt her and point between her les. I've said he must give me an explanation but he's just shugging his shoulders and saying he doesn't no like i should just forget about it. I really don't know what to do. She fell asleep in my arms and is now peacefully asleep in bed. Where on earth do i go from here? My gut instink is that this is completely innocent, I dont believe he has perversions at all. I suspect he was jut a bit rough and caught her in a funny place. But at the very least I need him to confirm and admit it. Help please!