to demand an explanation?

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I just took my 3 year old from her father who'd been trying to put her to bed, she was very upset - nothing too unusual for a 3 year old going to bed. As I held her she aid 'daddy hurt me' and pointed clearly to between her legs. Now she does have an imagination but this was very clear. She repeated when I asked again, at least twice. And in front of her dad. I know he sometimes doesn't know his own strength and it has occurred to me he could have pulled her pants up a bit sharpe and hurt her like that. But I've suggested that and he says no. I've told him he must think carefully about what exactly happened upstairs, why she became upset and why she would say he'd hurt her and point between her les. I've said he must give me an explanation but he's just shugging his shoulders and saying he doesn't no like i should just forget about it. I really don't know what to do. She fell asleep in my arms and is now peacefully asleep in bed. Where on earth do i go from here? My gut instink is that this is completely innocent, I dont believe he has perversions at all. I suspect he was jut a bit rough and caught her in a funny place. But at the very least I need him to confirm and admit it. Help please!

Desi, I see what you are getting at, I think.

There was one post that freaked me out recently.

A post by TM7, Quint? Was it addressed at you personally?

No, not to me. Somebody else. My job dropped. Very threatening.

I can't complain at all. Is Norway turning out OK for you all?

Yes it is. But it is the coldest June in over a decade. We are so far away from everywhere, plane tickets to go see dhs family is too expensive.... On the bright side, they start digging out to lay foundations!

For what it's worth, it's freezing over here, too! I've had the heating on .

I was coming over to Norway in September, but the company have cancelled the booking for 'commercial reasons.'

The boats are cheaper, but so much more hassle.

Then it is cold, heating in June in the UK? We dont have the heating on here since the beginning of May (though houses are built differently and soak up the sun for warmth, so could be warm inside as long as it is sunny. Sunny and freezing winds from the north)

Were you going to do the "Coastal Voyage" from Newcastle, taking in Bergen and surrounding fjords? I hear it is lovely. You would be better off getting on a cheap flight and come all the way up north in January! See the northern lights, take your ds on a reindeer sleigh into the mountains (or dog sleigh) and dine with the Sami people in a Lavvo (similar to Tipi) and have the best coffee in the world brewed over an open fire..... Do that instead. Oh and we could meet for lunch, lol! (Trendy coffee bars here!)