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Channel 4 ADHD documentary

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crackerjackbaby · 18/08/2026 21:20

Totally totally one sided. And very dangerous as a result of that. AIBU to think this?

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SethTrek · 19/08/2026 10:24

fuckeditupbadly · 19/08/2026 10:03

Of course I would be happy to consider whatever trained clinicians suggest. Id bloody love my kids to be NT and able to fit into the narrow slot that we have deemed the right one but they dont. I think the reason that many adults with ADHD have been able to be successful is because they've been able, post school to navigate a life, choose a job that suits them.

Many parents aren't. They want the diagnosis. Accepting that you do have NT kids that have been harmed due to their childhood is hard and painful

Olive123456 · 19/08/2026 10:24

Savvysix1984 · 18/08/2026 22:16

Why? Lots of people pay for assessment and diagnosis- cancer, neurological conditions, gynae conditions etc etc. is it because it’s ADHD that you think people shouldn’t?
as long as assessments are rigorous and meet the applicable standards (NICE guidelines etc) then what’s the issue?

Because many people who have private assessments are not wantung to hear they do not have ADHD, they want the opposite.

Paganpentacle · 19/08/2026 10:26

Both positions are true.
ADHD exists - I was diagnosed as an adult- but then again I'm female.

Unruly children with no boundaries, screentime galore and a shit diet also exist and display behavioural traits similar to ADHD. In those cases addressing environmental factors should help.

You cant cure ADHD with running around outside ... if you could, I'd have been well cured decades ago.

Owninterpreter · 19/08/2026 10:28

SethTrek · 19/08/2026 09:55

That's excellent. There are clinicians who are thoughtful, interested in nuance, keep up to date with the research and will consider alternative diagnosis and treatment.

But a history of adverse childhood experience does not forrm a part of the ADHD diagnostic criteria. It's not an exclusion criteria, there's not a special warning or piece of clinical training that says "Hey, if there's a DV history, maybe it's not ADHD" There are just good, experienced clinicians who think about this, and less good ones, who don't.

Theoretically, If your kids had a DV history would you have been happy to consider alternative/no diagnosis and therapy instead of medication?

I'm not even saying that kids with DV history shouldn't get ADHD diagnoses. Statistics would suggest that there will be kids who have ADHD and have also suffered trauma. It would be plausible in that cause that the trauma would impact the ADHD, making it worse. Wouldn't it be great if instead of labelling a child with a condition requiring lifetime medication, they were offered therapy even alongside medication (or while waiting for assessment/diagnosis) to see if that reduced symptoms. Surely removing symptoms permanently through therapy is better than lifetime medication?

What are the exclusion criteria? There are definitely some.

The nice guidelines definitely include social context and that parents mental health should be assessed

marvelousmarmaladian · 19/08/2026 10:33

It is disconcerting that a lot of ADHD kids only take their medication on school days.

SethTrek · 19/08/2026 10:37

Owninterpreter · 19/08/2026 10:28

What are the exclusion criteria? There are definitely some.

The nice guidelines definitely include social context and that parents mental health should be assessed

Yeah...
These are the nice guildlines. https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng87/chapter/recommendations#

Recommendations | Attention deficit hyperactivity disorder: diagnosis and management | Guidance | NICE

https://www.nice.org.uk/guidance/ng87/chapter/recommendations#diagnosis

Batfear · 19/08/2026 10:39

ITMA2000 · 19/08/2026 09:39

It's a bandwagon. Even rich and successful people claim they have the condition now, so it is hard to believe it causes any real problems in life. That's not to say it doesn't exist; it is just that it is a fashionable disorder to have. (People aren't queuing up to say they have halitosis or have homicidal impulses, for example.)

Funny how people make accusations of it being fashionable when how it presents in women is recognised and women and girls start coming forward. Medical misogyny yet again.

Maomee · 19/08/2026 10:41

ND diagnoses used to be exclusive to the upper middle classes and now they're available to everyone people are mad.

Ladyfromthehill · 19/08/2026 10:46

PensionPTake · 18/08/2026 21:46

I'm surprised at the amount voting yabu since it's very clearly one sided and such one sided views with no balance are never a good thing imo.

Im not because there are a lot of ablists on Mumsnet who swallop like pelicans any information that fits "ADHD/autism are made up" tagline no matter how biased or outdated. In society there is general little understanding of neurodiversity.

Ladyfromthehill · 19/08/2026 10:48

Maomee · 19/08/2026 10:41

ND diagnoses used to be exclusive to the upper middle classes and now they're available to everyone people are mad.

There is also another face of this- there are many more children from middle classes who masked well enough for their parents not to seek diagnosis despite very challenging behaviour at home, and who now know better and seek diagnosis.

Batfear · 19/08/2026 10:48

Cantloseyou · 19/08/2026 09:29

Also whilst we’re on it, masking. This buzzword making its way through every conversation. How do you ‘mask’ hyperactivity? Or inattention?
You’re either hyper or you’re not? You either paid attention or you didn’t?
My daughter is the inattentive type, this could be proven by her being three years behind in school. She tried really hard to look like she was listening. She wasn’t listening.
And still no one would test her cognition. I was begging for an Ed psych to test her cognition and they said ‘we don’t do that’ but we’ll send off the referral for an ADHD assessment. It’s like all other ND conditions have ceased to exist.
I hear people say ‘oh my child definitely has ADHD but they mask in school!’ Well how do they know that all kids aren’t doing that? I mask happiness at work all day long! We nearly all do.
Masking is a normal part of the human condition, it is a requirement to being a herd animal and to live in society.
I understand it for autism and I see it time and time again. I see many autistic people mask, in work, in the community, at home (ex DP). I struggle to see it with ADHD, because it is a symptom based condition, if you can supress the symptoms and largely achieve what you need to then you are no different to any other person.
I wouldn’t be like this if I didn’t have so many frustrating experiences with the ND parent community with parent’s who largely want an excuse to not parent their children, stop them going to school and who want the whole world to revolve around their child. It’s not their fault, the world is difficult, especially for mums. We have to work, parent, own houses, travel extensively, compete in the ‘who does the most extracurricular activities’ Olympics…. Late stage capitalism, we all want to find a way out of it!

I’ll tell you how people mask ADHD, they self medicate with drink and drugs, engage in risky impulsive behaviours and are far more likely to attempt suicide when it all becomes too much.50%70% of people with autism also have adhd.

Batfear · 19/08/2026 10:51

cramptramp · 19/08/2026 08:56

I was talking about his behaviour at home. And he was made to go back on the meds that he hated because of poor exam results. Did you ignore that part?

Life isn’t sitting at home doing yoga and running round in the woods. Never was and isn’t now.

Paganpentacle · 19/08/2026 10:53

Batfear · 19/08/2026 10:48

I’ll tell you how people mask ADHD, they self medicate with drink and drugs, engage in risky impulsive behaviours and are far more likely to attempt suicide when it all becomes too much.50%70% of people with autism also have adhd.

Indeed.

snowpony · 19/08/2026 11:02

as someone who has been diagnosed with ADHD, and who's DD has also been diagnosed, I have to say I agree with some of the points that the programme made. I am sceptical about medication. I believe it is more beneficial to develop coping mechanisms and recognise traits in yourself that you need to manage; the world will not change to accommodate you but you can make choices to make life easier. I also believe that school should be more than results; it should be about socialisation and learning how to be in society. Schools should be more child centric and medication shouldn't be used to zombify kids so they fit into school's agenda. I agree with the points made about more sports, more outdoor time. I certainly can see a difference in my DD's behaviour if she is inside and on line too much; she needs to be outside, climbing trees and experiencing new things. That said, I absolutely believe that ADHD is a real thing, and I didn't think the programme was saying it wasn't.

Batfear · 19/08/2026 11:07

snowpony · 19/08/2026 11:02

as someone who has been diagnosed with ADHD, and who's DD has also been diagnosed, I have to say I agree with some of the points that the programme made. I am sceptical about medication. I believe it is more beneficial to develop coping mechanisms and recognise traits in yourself that you need to manage; the world will not change to accommodate you but you can make choices to make life easier. I also believe that school should be more than results; it should be about socialisation and learning how to be in society. Schools should be more child centric and medication shouldn't be used to zombify kids so they fit into school's agenda. I agree with the points made about more sports, more outdoor time. I certainly can see a difference in my DD's behaviour if she is inside and on line too much; she needs to be outside, climbing trees and experiencing new things. That said, I absolutely believe that ADHD is a real thing, and I didn't think the programme was saying it wasn't.

It absolutely was saying it wasn’t a real thing. People with ADHD vary, ADHD varies. Effectiveness of coping strategies vary. Some people need medication and some people can manage without. Since when has medicine become a one size fits all?

HoldingOntoMySanity · 19/08/2026 11:39

I think there is a developing problem where it suits a certain sector of society to deny or minimise autism and ADHD. Look at Uta Frith who decided it was appropriate to publicly challenge Chris Packham's autism diagnosis in the media, when she has absolutely no knowledge of how that diagnosis was made. Incredibly unprofessional IMO.

They are real conditions, they exist and for me I feel it is a good thing that science and medical understanding is increasing which has led directly to a corresponding increase in diagnosis. I don't know what motivates people to deny it- is it because they think people 'put it on' in order to gain through DLA or PIP? Is it because they want to pat themselves on the back for having NT children and want to think it's their superior parenting? Is there a wider institutional push to deny medical reality so that the benefits bill can be cut?

I don't get it at all. I'd love it if my DC didn't have ADHD and ASD (or Tourettes, or anaphylactic allergies, or EDS, or asthma) but he does. And at times this mere fact has made life incredibly challenging for him and for us.

Piglet89 · 19/08/2026 11:42

Also, MP the presenter concluded “you can’t diagnose people with ADHD from a brain scan - an MRI shows now discernible difference between an ADHD brain and a NT brain.

So what? That means absolutely nothing. MRIs can detect only so much. I’m sure there will be differences MRIs are not nuanced or powerful enough to detect. For instance, it’s a fact that MRI scans cannot detect dopamine or how it moves in the brain.

Saying it as though it’s this evidential silver bullet - so unintelligent. Must think the viewing public is thick as well.

HRTQueen · 19/08/2026 11:52

I wasn’t shocked by the documentary or that C4 showed it these discussions are nothing new but I hope C4 put on another a more balanced documentary because a serious discussion around assessing and medication management needs to be had

the assessment for ADHD needs to be more thorough, a number of consultants have raised this issue and medication particularly for children needs to be more rigorously managed it’s shockingly low the threshold of medication management is

pragmatismuniversalsentimentalist · 19/08/2026 12:10

Floatingdownriver · 18/08/2026 22:17

Many neuro divergent charities released official statements to respond to this dreadful show. It’s Ch4 all over.

Yes and those statements were likewise very one-sided/biaised. An ADHD charity is never going to comment 'oh actually some of this might be worth exploring' are they!! Of course they are going to criticise something that challenges their raison d'etre.

Batfear · 19/08/2026 12:13

HRTQueen · 19/08/2026 11:52

I wasn’t shocked by the documentary or that C4 showed it these discussions are nothing new but I hope C4 put on another a more balanced documentary because a serious discussion around assessing and medication management needs to be had

the assessment for ADHD needs to be more thorough, a number of consultants have raised this issue and medication particularly for children needs to be more rigorously managed it’s shockingly low the threshold of medication management is

The NHS ADHD taskforce wasn’t focused on a need for more thorough diagnosis but more joined up care and an easier route to NHS diagnosis.

https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/report-of-the-independent-adhd-taskforce-part-1/#background

NHS England » Report of the independent ADHD Taskforce: Part 1

April 2025

https://www.england.nhs.uk/long-read/report-of-the-independent-adhd-taskforce-part-1#background

Batfear · 19/08/2026 12:22

pragmatismuniversalsentimentalist · 19/08/2026 12:10

Yes and those statements were likewise very one-sided/biaised. An ADHD charity is never going to comment 'oh actually some of this might be worth exploring' are they!! Of course they are going to criticise something that challenges their raison d'etre.

ADHD uk and others have challenged it for good reasons as laid out in their open letter and statements. It was a shockingly poor,biased piece of journalism with zero input from the many professionals who feel very differently.

https://adhduk.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/ADHD-UK-Open-Letter-to-Channel-4.pdf

https://www.amnesty.org.uk/get-involved/join-the-movement/join-a-group-or-network/disabled-peoples-hr-network/disabled-peoples-human-rights-network-blog/i-cant-see-anything-in-this-letter-that-d/

https://www.globaladhdnetwork.com/post/the-great-adhd-myth-statement

https://www.pulsetoday.co.uk/news/clinical-areas/neurology/rcgp-responds-after-former-president-quoted-as-saying-adhd-is-not-a-medical-condition

https://adhduk.co.uk/wp-content/uploads/2026/08/ADHD-UK-Open-Letter-to-Channel-4.pdf

ruledout · 19/08/2026 12:25

Popstarrrrr · 19/08/2026 07:49

I sought out, paid for and received my ADHD diagnosis in my 40s. I work full time and at quite a high level but with increasing difficulty. I have experienced suicidal ideation previously and I'm currently struggling to cope with my life. I cannot take medication for physical health reasons. I have deep, deep shame about not just the diagnosis but the day to day impact on my life. Only three people know of my diagnosis my adult kids and my current boss.

But what makes me weep is looking back at younger me and seeing the wasted potential from my childhood. If I had known then and had received support I think I would have passed my GCSEs and not failed my first degree. It makes me so sad but still ashamed.

Absolutely this.

This is so true for so many people, me included also
40s but the thing is when I physically couldn’t concentrate or focus at school and was sent out of most classes for daydreaming, not paying attention or rocking on my chair, or never knowing what I was doing, I wasn’t stood outside the door with 10 other people just like me, I was standing there all by myself humiliated while the other kids looked on in disbelief, where were all the other ADHD kids?

I masked to the best of my ability but everyone could see a mile away I was different and there’s no way I could have pretended otherwise for 6 hours, ADHD didn’t exist so I wasn’t blaming any condition and was dealt some pretty severe punishments for my symptoms which didn’t cure them.
I was on a reduced timetable by year 8 and no longer welcome by year 9, no education, no opportunities.
I didn’t want to be the naughty kid, it was humiliating but try as I might I just physically didn’t have the ability to pay attention and learn.

This is why it’s important people don’t self diagnose because they occasionally experience a symptom or struggle with executive function because that’s not the same as a disorder which for many is so debilitating that they can barely function and are just desperately trying to get through life.

I was born in 1979 so did not have devices or even a phone and the only television was in the lounge with 4 channels and apart from the occasional cartoon it was just what my parents watched the news and weather on and we went out to play.

My parents were not pushovers, they were absolutely clear what was expected of us and very no nonsense and my siblings were well behaved but no amount of smacks, stern talking to, being sent my room, lost pocket money or being grounded would make me stop having ADHD.

I first attempted to take my life at the age of 11 when I started secondary school as I tried my best to work hard but I couldn’t cope and just felt like I was drowning and didn’t know what was wrong with me, there was no support or understanding, just the same ignorant mocking and ridicule I get today and have had suicidal ideology ever since because I still have ADHD diagnosed in my 40s life is just something I have to get through but the diagnosis is meaningless when so many people run around saying yeah I can be a bit like that to.

Rinoachicken · 19/08/2026 12:31

A good assessment for ADHD or ASD should also be accessing for the many number of MH conditions that have significant symptom overlap - to either rule out other causes or to establish comorbidity.

Unfortunately, this rarely happens, and especially it is not happening in private clinics.

A clinic that is commissed to only assess for ADHD or ASD is assessing ONLY for that. They are using the specific assessments designed to pick up only ASD or ADHD. The assessment does not look for anything else. They are cannot say if other MH conditions may better explain the symptoms, or are also present, because they are not assessing for those - they can’t. They can only tell you if you meet the criteria for ADHD or ASD. Rather alarmingly, most private clinics do not use the Coventry Grid - a well evidenced screening tool that was created some time ago specifically assist clinicians differentiate whether symptoms and presentation are better explained by ND or ACEs/trauma.

Which is a problem - because there are many other MH conditions that look so much like ADHD or ASD that it can be incredibly difficult to differentiate - only possible to do so with in depth and detailed assessment by clinicians experienced in assessing for those other conditions as well - not someone who is only assessing for ADHD/ASD.

I fear there are large numbers of people who’s MH needs are being neglected and untreated because they have been misdiagnosed as ND when actually there is something else that better explains their difficulties.

There will also be people whose ARE ND but who ALSO have significant additional MH conditions that have gone unidentified and therefore untreated - diagnostic overshadowing.

Batfear · 19/08/2026 12:32

ruledout · 19/08/2026 12:25

Absolutely this.

This is so true for so many people, me included also
40s but the thing is when I physically couldn’t concentrate or focus at school and was sent out of most classes for daydreaming, not paying attention or rocking on my chair, or never knowing what I was doing, I wasn’t stood outside the door with 10 other people just like me, I was standing there all by myself humiliated while the other kids looked on in disbelief, where were all the other ADHD kids?

I masked to the best of my ability but everyone could see a mile away I was different and there’s no way I could have pretended otherwise for 6 hours, ADHD didn’t exist so I wasn’t blaming any condition and was dealt some pretty severe punishments for my symptoms which didn’t cure them.
I was on a reduced timetable by year 8 and no longer welcome by year 9, no education, no opportunities.
I didn’t want to be the naughty kid, it was humiliating but try as I might I just physically didn’t have the ability to pay attention and learn.

This is why it’s important people don’t self diagnose because they occasionally experience a symptom or struggle with executive function because that’s not the same as a disorder which for many is so debilitating that they can barely function and are just desperately trying to get through life.

I was born in 1979 so did not have devices or even a phone and the only television was in the lounge with 4 channels and apart from the occasional cartoon it was just what my parents watched the news and weather on and we went out to play.

My parents were not pushovers, they were absolutely clear what was expected of us and very no nonsense and my siblings were well behaved but no amount of smacks, stern talking to, being sent my room, lost pocket money or being grounded would make me stop having ADHD.

I first attempted to take my life at the age of 11 when I started secondary school as I tried my best to work hard but I couldn’t cope and just felt like I was drowning and didn’t know what was wrong with me, there was no support or understanding, just the same ignorant mocking and ridicule I get today and have had suicidal ideology ever since because I still have ADHD diagnosed in my 40s life is just something I have to get through but the diagnosis is meaningless when so many people run around saying yeah I can be a bit like that to.

Just because you couldn’t mask doesn’t mean others can’t. They can and do with disastrous consequences. People resort to self diagnosis because they have to, NHS wait lists are insanely long. Hence the NHS ADHD task force highlighting that better access to NHS diagnosis is crucial.

HoldingOntoMySanity · 19/08/2026 12:33

The open letter from ADHD Uk is excellent.