Always at the pub....

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We dont live together. I have kids he has none and doesnt want them (had the snip a few weeks ago). But am I unreasonable to think going to the pub after work 3-4 times a week (maybe more) is an ick?

My sister was with someone like this he went the pub at least every 2nd evening, she fell pregnant with twins, 16 years later je is still the same if not worse, maybe one sober night a week... she left him when the boys where 1 because he put alcohol and nights out b3fore his children, never changed!

A lot is two separate words -
trust me.

I wouldn't have mentioned it if you'd only written it once and hadn't actually capitalised it.

So you don’t live together
you have kids he doesn’t want kids
he likes to go to the pub

who is this person to you? A partner or someone you just hook up with??? Where’s this going???