People on here are utterly obsessed with cheating, every single thread where a man leaves a woman he’s cheating, every single thread where a man treats a woman poorly, he’s cheating, every single thread where a man starts to lose interest, he’s cheating, every single thread where someone once cheated means they will cheat for ever more. Every single thread we hear the old adage, when a man marries his mistress,
it’s utterly bonkers, no one cheats and leaves a happy relationship. No one. They may cheat in a happy relationship, but they don’t leave it unless the person cheated on ends it, mostly they lie to stay in.
if someone leaves ifs generally as the relationship was not working. No one is entitled to their partner staying in their relationship even if married, if they are unhappy they should leave and this is fine. Of course they shouldn’t cheat before doing so and look for a soft landing, but exit affairs are not common
the op did a shitty thing, as did this woman’s husband, I also find it hugely distasteful fhe way she wrote this thread, like fucking her friends husband was a bit of fun, hurting her friend as she was doing so was irrelevant to her, but thay doesn’t mean either of them will continue to cheat or their relationship is doomed
this woman might just want closure, she was hurt terribly, her husband and her friend, and the op owes her , so she should have a call with her. It’s the Least she can do for the heinous pain she inflicted on someone she called friend.