”…sitting in a circle hearing about how Jan went mad at the buffet on her cruise never did.” This made me laugh @PresidentBarklett
I first did SW when I was 13 and was taken along by my mum and cousins. We actually all did pretty well but back then, there was green days and red days and there was definitely an emphasis on ‘fill your plate’. I did lose 21lbs (I remember it well) but then over the years, it all came back (with more on top).
Since then, I’ve been to multiple slimming clubs and most of them resemble ‘Fat Fighters’ from Little Britain. For me, there’s always been a hard core of very, very overweight women who manage the money and the scales and they tut if you gain and offer gritted teeth congratulations if you lose. The group leader is also often very overweight too and proclaims ‘this diet works’ while standing in front of lifesize
cutouts of herself 4 stone lighter. So come on Jean, if it works, why are you fat again?
And then there’s the hideous ‘slimmer prizes’ - a basket of items everyone has brought in, from sweaty fruit to tins of beans with the label hanging off. If you’re really lucky, you win a box of ‘WiFi bars’ (as we used to call them) which taste like chocolate horse food.
It’s an industry built on psychology - most people with an obesity problem will never fully conquer it and all these clubs want lifelong customers. It’s good business, of course they do!
WLIs have changed everything - not just for what they do but because of the education around obesity. The evidence shows that some people have a genetic propensity to not only easily gain weight but find it much harder to lose it. It isn’t just as simple as ‘eat less, move more’ and ‘if you’re fat, you’re just lacking willpower’, it’s so much more layered than that.
I’ve lost 4 stone on MJ and have learned a lot about myself in the last year. I used to eat mindlessly because I was bored, I often ate more than I needed in part because of the ‘finish what’s on your plate’ culture. Also all of my social activities were centred around food and without it, I had to learn how to find joy in other things.
I absolutely wouldn’t fit into a diet club now - I’d just be frustrated at the lack of genuine understanding. MJ is teaching me how to enjoy food in proportion, how to appreciate what a strong, healthy body really feels like (it’s good!).
Diet clubs never did that for me. They just taught me to focus obsessively on the scales, desperately squeezing out the last drops of wee (and removing my earrings and watch) before weekly weigh in, so I could hopefully win the sweaty fruit and the praise of Jean.
I suspect I’m not alone either - so either the industry changes or it will fail.