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AIBU to think an Edinburgh festival show about Meredith Kercher's murder should be stopped?

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VivienneDelacroix · 06/08/2026 01:04

Aibu to think that this show at the Edinburgh Festival should be cancelled? It mocks the circumstances around the murder of Meredith Kercher and serves it up as entertainment.

Not only is it horribly disrespectful of Meredith's family, but it also belittles the issue of violence against girls and women.

Meredith's siblings are calling for it to be pulled from the festival. There is also a petition calling for it to be stopped.

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11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 23:56

Yousay55 · 06/08/2026 23:23

For anyone whose supports this, if nothing else, show a complete lack of empathy for the family of Meredith. It’s utterly sick that a “friend” would do this and call it entertainment.

And you feel you can safely declare the show "sick" without actual awareness of the content?

prh47bridge · 06/08/2026 23:58

Allthatwegotisthispalebluedot · 06/08/2026 21:50

While misogyny is a significant factor in the way she was perceived as unlikeable - it wasn’t the only factor. She tried to falsely implicate her boss at the time of the murder. The way she talks about what happened there is interesting too - she states she ‘feels guilt’ about ‘what happened to Patrick’. Mate, YOU happened to Patrick. No accountability at all. It didn’t just ‘happen’, she made it happen to him by lying about him.

Whilst her conviction for slandering Lumumba stands, it should be remembered that this statement was extracted from her in the early hours of the morning (1.45am and 5.45am) after 50 hours of questioning over 4 days during which she was beaten and had no lawyer present, no recording of the interviews and an incompetent interpreter who believed her role was to assist the police in extracting what they wanted from Knox rather than simply interpret. At the time, the police believed that Patrick Lumumba was involved in the murder and had arrested him along with Knox and her boyfriend. Just to be completely clear, he was arrested before they started questioning Knox.

We often find in miscarriages of justice that the person convicted has been pressured by the police into making false statements which coincided with the police theory at the time but were subsequently found to contain major factual errors.

So no, I don't believe she did make it happen to him. The fault lies with the police who tried to get three innocent people done for murder (Knox, her boyfriend and Lumumba) and who, perceiving Knox as the weakest, pushed her and beat her until they got the statement they wanted, implicating both Lumumba and herself.

Note, by the way, that she implicated herself as well as Lumumba, so this was not, as many seem to think, some attempt to get herself off by implicating Lumumba. It was what we used to see regularly in the UK before the police were made to record interviews - an attempt to make the police stop.

She did not make it happen to him. The Italian police did.

prh47bridge · 07/08/2026 00:04

On the question of the show, none of us know the content but, as someone who believes in free speech, I do not think it should be stopped.

I understand the Kercher family being upset. They appear to still believe Knox and her boyfriend were guilty (as, it seems, do some on this thread), despite the fact that all the available evidence points to Guede having killed her on his own. So of course they don't want the woman they believe killed their daughter/sister talking about it and being paid for doing so. But I do not believe that is a good enough reason to stop Knox's show.

montysmaw · 07/08/2026 00:13

Pleasedontdoitagain · 06/08/2026 08:17

Sorry but you make it sound very black and white.
It was much more complex than that.
There have been very many miscarriages of justices for very many reasons.
I'm not saying she was the only one who was guilty.

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There was not a shred of forensic evidence putting her at the scene.

Cagoenlaleche · 07/08/2026 01:41

It's like she's returning to the scene of the crime over and over again with absolutely no regard for Meredith's family. I think she needs therapy, not more monetisation of her notoriety.no

Cagoenlaleche · 07/08/2026 01:45

It's bizarre that Knox won't move on from the crime that destroyed her life. She has no regard for the feelings of the Kercher family. I think she's a narcissist. She doesn't even seem to worry about how dragging it all up again might affect her own family. What kind of person would go to the show? Also, like most narcissists, she is humourless.

mathanxiety · 07/08/2026 02:02

AsHot · 06/08/2026 21:24

It's sus the way critics of Knox's actions are minimising what actually happened to her. Comparison to Sollecito who received a lesser sentence and wasn't subject to misogyny. Referring to her dining out on the murder without bothering to mention the wrongful imprisonment.

One year less.

mathanxiety · 07/08/2026 02:13

11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 20:50

Amanda Knox was the target of one of the clearest modern examples of how systemic misogyny and sensationalist media can distort the public discourse and prejudice the legal system against women.

Tens of thousands of articles simultaneously fetishised and vilified her, driven in part by a prosecutor with a dangerous obsession with occult‑themed theories and deeply conservative views about female sexuality. We witnessed a fantastical, modern‑age witch hunt.

She became the subject of countless true‑crime shows built on evidence that has since been discredited, long before she had any chance to tell her own story.

She was scapegoated for the actions of the man who actually murdered Meredith, and she received a harsher sentence than either him or her falsely accused co‑defendant - cast as the supposed seductress who “bewitched” the men.

Knox was wrongfully imprisoned for years, her life upended, her identity permanently damaged. Even after the Italian Supreme Court’s judgment - which fully exonerated her and condemned the investigation as incompetent, baseless, and fantastical, and the lower‑court decisions as illogical, arbitrary, and unsupported - millions still believe she is guilty.

None of this erases the tragedy of Meredith Kercher’s murder or the Kercher family’s grief, but Knox has every right to reclaim her narrative in whatever form she chooses, and as often as she chooses (not least given the overwhelming extent of outside commentary about it).

It is entirely understandable that she might use comedy to process what happened to her - and in any event, male comedians across the globe have made her a subject of their comedy for years (including on mainstream BBC shows with far greater reach than the Fringe).

If people don’t want to hear her, they can opt out. But attempts to silence her are a continuation of the misogynistic dynamics that harmed her in the first place and perpetuate her victimisation (and yes, I find that shameful).

Leveraging feminist concerns by accusing her of “normalising violence against women” is not only inaccurate, it adds insult to injury given the manner in which she was victimized. Her willingness to speak about what happened is something women broadly benefit from, not something to suppress.

Nobody attempted to silence her when she wrote a book, or did interviews, or gave her imprimatur to documentaries.

Nobody.

She has crossed a line here with the comedy approach, and that is why she is being criticized.

Those accusing the critical public of continuing the misogyny of the investigation and the trial circus and the gutter press 'reportage' have conveniently forgotten all the years in which Amanda Knox has had her say on the airwaves and in print, with little or no murmuring against her.

The accusation of 'silencing' is itself an attempt to silence.

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 02:58

mathanxiety · 07/08/2026 02:13

Nobody attempted to silence her when she wrote a book, or did interviews, or gave her imprimatur to documentaries.

Nobody.

She has crossed a line here with the comedy approach, and that is why she is being criticized.

Those accusing the critical public of continuing the misogyny of the investigation and the trial circus and the gutter press 'reportage' have conveniently forgotten all the years in which Amanda Knox has had her say on the airwaves and in print, with little or no murmuring against her.

The accusation of 'silencing' is itself an attempt to silence.

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The accusation of 'silencing' is itself an attempt to silence.
Nonsense. Criticizing is not the same as petitioning to cancel.

As to "we've let her have her say, now enough's enough" - what on Earth gives you the right to determine that?

Incidentally, here's a comment from Denise Huskins (a woman who was abducted and sexually assaulted, then accused by the police of staging a hoax, before finally being vindicated) who Knox's invited to see her show in the US last week:

"Last week we had the honor of watching Amanda Knox’s comedy show Cartwheel at the The Rabbit Box in Seattle as she prepares for her show at #edinburghfringe.

I just saw that there is a petition to cancel her set at the festival, and it deeply disturbs me that people continue to vilify someone who has overcome so much and who has been proven innocent over and over again.

Her show is a beautiful representation of comedy meeting tragedy; displaying a philosophical and intellectual real-life description of how trauma follows us despite our determination to create a purpose and meaning with our lives beyond it. It may never fully leave us, and we have to find a way to live side by side with it, including with our parenting.

I knew I’d laugh and be moved during her set, but I didn’t expect at moments to sob.

The moment that hit me the hardest:
she gave an example of her daughter saying something along the lines of “mommy, why does your face look like that?” 😭

Being a momma living with chronic PTSD, I’ve experienced these questions in many different ways:
“mommy, why did you breathe like that?” (After taking a deep sigh)
“Mommy, are you overstimulated? Stressed? Why do you look sad?” (While I’m riding the wave of depression or anxiety)
Although I try desperately to hide these moments, children are intuitive and deeply connected to us.

We try so hard to protect them from the hurt, at the same time preparing them for the realities of the world. It’s complex. It’s challenging. And it’s a beautiful gift.

Thank you Amanda Knox for being vulnerable in sharing this with the world..."

Do you think there might be just a chance that this actually isnt sick, offensive filth that must be banned, and that maybe some victimized women might benefit from being able to speak, and hear others speak, of their experiences in a way that includes some degree of humor?

user1492538376 · 07/08/2026 06:50

11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 23:11

Both.

Yeah cross border law enforcement doesn't work like that. Anyway back to Knox, maybe not the entire point but I have never seen or heard anyway from her that suggests she could be funny. She has been booked for her notoriety. All this stuff about giving a voice to new talent - come on!

HRTQueen · 07/08/2026 07:05

The tragic murder of Meredith Kercher and her family need to be treated respectfully her murder and the aftermath is not entertainment

I feel sympathy from Amanda Knox in how she was treated but that certain areas of the media are willing to continue supporting her desire to keep in the public eye I find very troublesome

AK has told her story a number of times it is one that does not need to be heard again but the organisers know this will create media attention, regardless of the hurt caused is really disappointing

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 07:23

YoQuieroVino · 06/08/2026 18:47

The court didn’t just find her ‘not guilty’, they declared her to be ‘innocent’. She was entirely exonerated.

Genuine question but did the judge / jury actually use the words “innocent” or “not guilty” @YoQuieroVino

AsHot · 07/08/2026 07:24

mathanxiety · 07/08/2026 02:02

One year less.

As I said, less. Interestingly you've completely ignored the misogyny part again. Weird that.

AsHot · 07/08/2026 07:26

user1492538376 · 07/08/2026 06:50

Yeah cross border law enforcement doesn't work like that. Anyway back to Knox, maybe not the entire point but I have never seen or heard anyway from her that suggests she could be funny. She has been booked for her notoriety. All this stuff about giving a voice to new talent - come on!

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Sorry just to be clear, are you saying it isn't possible to sign a settlement agreement binding in more than one jurisdiction?

ExtraOnions · 07/08/2026 07:45

I wonder how many people who are wailing on here, listen to True Crime podcast, watch the Netflix documentaries, or watch the (many) True Crime documentaries on terrestrial TV? All of those are made for profit, prime examples of people profiting from murder - often ones much closer to now than a murder 20 years ago.

The only reason that this particular crime has stayed in the consciousness for so long, is due the miscarriage of justice that surrounds it.

… how can people can sign a petition to ban a show they haven’t seen, and have no intention of seeing? It’s the kind of mob mentality that got her locked up in the first place

randomchap · 07/08/2026 07:58

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 07:23

Genuine question but did the judge / jury actually use the words “innocent” or “not guilty” @YoQuieroVino

From Wiki

Rather than merely declaring that there were errors in the earlier court cases or that there was not enough evidence to convict, the court ruled that Knox and Sollecito were innocent of involvement in the murder

The source is the economist, but you need to sign up to read it

https://www.economist.com/europe/2015/03/28/innocente

She is innocent.

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:09

user1492538376 · 07/08/2026 06:50

Yeah cross border law enforcement doesn't work like that. Anyway back to Knox, maybe not the entire point but I have never seen or heard anyway from her that suggests she could be funny. She has been booked for her notoriety. All this stuff about giving a voice to new talent - come on!

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Yeah cross border law enforcement doesn't work like that.
It does if you enter into a settlement agreement - a binding contract - that is specifically drafted to be binding in multiple jurisdictions.

You're confusing criminal law for civil.

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 08:12

What people seem to be missing is that this isn't just one little event that happened to Amanda Knox many years ago - it was completely life-defining, and life-changing. She was also 20 years old when the murder happened, and 24 when she was released from prison, so some of her most formative years as a young adult.
Not only that, the whole thing had made her globally infamous.

I suspect for her, the trauma is far from over, and that she lives it again and again day after day, every day of her life.

People are saying again on this thread how unlikeably she comes across - that's exactly the point. She came across like that to the police, too, and it cost her four years of her life.

Triskellion75 · 07/08/2026 08:13

11AndCounting · 06/08/2026 20:50

Amanda Knox was the target of one of the clearest modern examples of how systemic misogyny and sensationalist media can distort the public discourse and prejudice the legal system against women.

Tens of thousands of articles simultaneously fetishised and vilified her, driven in part by a prosecutor with a dangerous obsession with occult‑themed theories and deeply conservative views about female sexuality. We witnessed a fantastical, modern‑age witch hunt.

She became the subject of countless true‑crime shows built on evidence that has since been discredited, long before she had any chance to tell her own story.

She was scapegoated for the actions of the man who actually murdered Meredith, and she received a harsher sentence than either him or her falsely accused co‑defendant - cast as the supposed seductress who “bewitched” the men.

Knox was wrongfully imprisoned for years, her life upended, her identity permanently damaged. Even after the Italian Supreme Court’s judgment - which fully exonerated her and condemned the investigation as incompetent, baseless, and fantastical, and the lower‑court decisions as illogical, arbitrary, and unsupported - millions still believe she is guilty.

None of this erases the tragedy of Meredith Kercher’s murder or the Kercher family’s grief, but Knox has every right to reclaim her narrative in whatever form she chooses, and as often as she chooses (not least given the overwhelming extent of outside commentary about it).

It is entirely understandable that she might use comedy to process what happened to her - and in any event, male comedians across the globe have made her a subject of their comedy for years (including on mainstream BBC shows with far greater reach than the Fringe).

If people don’t want to hear her, they can opt out. But attempts to silence her are a continuation of the misogynistic dynamics that harmed her in the first place and perpetuate her victimisation (and yes, I find that shameful).

Leveraging feminist concerns by accusing her of “normalising violence against women” is not only inaccurate, it adds insult to injury given the manner in which she was victimized. Her willingness to speak about what happened is something women broadly benefit from, not something to suppress.

This is why I love MN, I opened the thread largely agreeing with the OP but now I've gained a better perspective.

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:15

Triskellion75 · 07/08/2026 08:13

This is why I love MN, I opened the thread largely agreeing with the OP but now I've gained a better perspective.

Edited

I appreciate you saying that, thank you.

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 08:45

randomchap · 07/08/2026 07:58

From Wiki

Rather than merely declaring that there were errors in the earlier court cases or that there was not enough evidence to convict, the court ruled that Knox and Sollecito were innocent of involvement in the murder

The source is the economist, but you need to sign up to read it

https://www.economist.com/europe/2015/03/28/innocente

She is innocent.

I was curious about the exact wording the court used

YoQuieroVino · 07/08/2026 08:46

SpaceRaccoon · 07/08/2026 08:12

What people seem to be missing is that this isn't just one little event that happened to Amanda Knox many years ago - it was completely life-defining, and life-changing. She was also 20 years old when the murder happened, and 24 when she was released from prison, so some of her most formative years as a young adult.
Not only that, the whole thing had made her globally infamous.

I suspect for her, the trauma is far from over, and that she lives it again and again day after day, every day of her life.

People are saying again on this thread how unlikeably she comes across - that's exactly the point. She came across like that to the police, too, and it cost her four years of her life.

Edited

Yes. Even now that she has been completely exonerated, that the courts acknowledged that there was no evidence at all that she was involved, that she was beaten while being questioned and forced into making untrue statements and that she spent 4 years of her life in prison for a crime she didn’t commit, there is still an undercurrent of ‘she’s weird and unlikeable so she deserved it’.

Triskellion75 · 07/08/2026 08:47

11AndCounting · 07/08/2026 08:15

I appreciate you saying that, thank you.

I lost my brother because of another's actions so my immediate reaction was from the POV of MK's family. Funnily enough though, I never believed AK was guilty for a second.

YoQuieroVino · 07/08/2026 08:47

Multiplepillows · 07/08/2026 07:23

Genuine question but did the judge / jury actually use the words “innocent” or “not guilty” @YoQuieroVino

As I said, they declared her to be ‘innocent’. They are the words the court used. The judgement is easily available to find online.

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