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Offered a ground floor flat?

112 replies

lookin4advice · 05/08/2026 23:24

I bid on several flats in the same block and I have been shortlisted for a ground floor flat.

I received an email advising me my other bids had been slipped as I wanted to be considered for this home.

I have security and privacy concerns with a ground floor flat.

I am extremely grateful for this opportunity but as I was not asked which was my preferred choice would it be unreasonable to ask the HO at the housing association?

AIBU

OP posts:
lookin4advice · Yesterday 17:04

@OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon - I'm really hoping so and I just feel uncomfortable living on a ground floor and feel exposed.

I will see what the HO says on Monday.

OP posts:
bubbyen · Yesterday 18:02

LathkillDale · Yesterday 17:00

We lived in a top floor flat. We had noise from the people below and at the side of us.

Noise above is worse and travels differently it’s really not rocket science. ;)

Offered a ground floor flat?
Specialneedsnightmare · Yesterday 18:17

lookin4advice · 06/08/2026 00:05

@OlderGlaswegianLivingInDevon - Thank you.
I think I have to wait 12 months.

Your comment made me feel better lol, I would never have thought that ground floors were popular.

Think of disabilities, elderly people etc.

I live on the ground floor. I feel very safe.

LathkillDale · Yesterday 18:39

bubbyen · Yesterday 18:02

Noise above is worse and travels differently it’s really not rocket science. ;)

Edited

It may be noisier, but there can still be plenty of noise from those around you, in a top floor flat - especially when they have parties!

I would far prefer a ground floor flat, what with having to carry heavy bags of shopping, furniture, etc up flights of stairs to a higher floor, when the lift breaks down; not to mention carrying a pram/buggy and baby up and down the stairs regularly. I fell down the stairs in our house and broke my ankle. Walking was painful for 6 months - I wouldn’t have wanted to be in a top floor flat then!

bubbyen · Yesterday 18:59

The flat has a lift so stairs aren’t really a relevant point but ok. The noise above in my gf flat has genuinely drove me insane i would never choose a gf ever again. I didn’t realise how much nosier it was and upstairs people still have parties!

Missey85 · Today 03:08

Theytrytomakmego · 06/08/2026 09:22

HA accommodation isn't subsidized.

Rents are cheaper because HA's don't make as much profit from rents as commercial landlords.

They call the profits they make 'surplasses' and reinvest them in new builds for new tenants.
Mine raised £117 million profit after taxes, and write offs from tenants rents, two years ago.

Many have become property developers above being landlords.

But it's not enough profit for many to not have to live with damp and rot.
The myth that tenants are being subsidized by other tax payers is often spread by people jealous that someone is paying less rent than them. It helps allow HA landlords to carry on poorly maintaining many of their properties.

I'm sorry you're being ruined by your rent, but remember others get their health ruined by their cheaper, un - subsidized living conditions and nightmare neighbors that HA's don't care about.

The grass always looks greener the other side of the fence because you can't see what else is going on.

Id happily pay more rent if it meant I didn't have epilepsy and could work ☹️

iamnotalemon · Today 03:53

I personally wouldn’t want a higher floor in case there’s a fire. If you refuse this, what are your other options? I’d be jumping at the offer of a new build flat if it was me!

LathkillDale · Today 07:43

iamnotalemon · Today 03:53

I personally wouldn’t want a higher floor in case there’s a fire. If you refuse this, what are your other options? I’d be jumping at the offer of a new build flat if it was me!

A friend worked for a fire authority. He told us never to stay above the fourth floor in a hotel, because that’s as far as firefighters’ ladders can reach! The same will apply to flats.

waffleyversatile1 · Today 07:49

lookin4advice · 05/08/2026 23:53

There is no garden unfortunately.

I will speak to the Lettings Team and see what they can advise.

@avilsdedvocate I always thought ground floor flats were the ones nobody wanted lol.

Gf flats are highly sort after and one day if you ever was to do a mutual exchange with someone who wants to down size this will highly go in your favour.

Boomer55 · Today 07:58

I’ve lived in a ground floor flat for 17 years. New build then. No problems at all. Great for deliveries, no worries about lifts breaking down, and it’s a light airy place.

If you’ve got a child, it’s ideal. Lifts break down - and dragging kids, shopping and pushchairs up stairs is an overrated pastime.

I’d take it.

Theytrytomakmego · Today 11:33

Missey85 · Today 03:08

Id happily pay more rent if it meant I didn't have epilepsy and could work ☹️

I'm sure you would. Flowers
People with disabilities severe enough to prevent work, are more likely to be getting housing benefit, and also more likely to eventually be housed in social housing.

But many people living in social housing aren't getting housing benefit and the previous poster claiming the OP was getting a 'subsidized flat' is just wrong and spreading misinformation.

I'm sure most disabled people getting housing benefit or being housed in social housing would gladly swap both, for no disability and the ability to earn or not have restricted earnings.

iamnotalemon · Today 15:23

LathkillDale · Today 07:43

A friend worked for a fire authority. He told us never to stay above the fourth floor in a hotel, because that’s as far as firefighters’ ladders can reach! The same will apply to flats.

Yep, someone in my family is a firefighter and has said the same thing, hence why I prefer a lower floor flat.

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