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Offered a ground floor flat?

96 replies

lookin4advice · 05/08/2026 23:24

I bid on several flats in the same block and I have been shortlisted for a ground floor flat.

I received an email advising me my other bids had been slipped as I wanted to be considered for this home.

I have security and privacy concerns with a ground floor flat.

I am extremely grateful for this opportunity but as I was not asked which was my preferred choice would it be unreasonable to ask the HO at the housing association?

AIBU

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KindlySurfiingPlatypus · Yesterday 07:46

Accept the flat. See how it goes. If your fears continue you'll have no trouble arranging a swap with someone who is desperate for a ground floor flat, and swaps are far easier than getting a home in the first place.

The additional security concerns are easily overcome and there are just as many advantages to being on the groumd floor as disadvantages. Do you really think break-ins are likely? I mean, yes they do happen, but are you a likely target? Do you have plenty of high-vslue tech and other easy to grab and re-sell property?

Rainydays26 · Yesterday 07:46

Missey85 · Yesterday 07:41

I'm in a 2nd floor flat and yes nobody will deliver they leave it downstairs on the footpath ☹️ last year I had my Xmas parcels stolen

Yes its a massive pain asda told her to go down and collect her shopping. She has 2 special needs children that can't be left. They didn't care.

RedRock41 · Yesterday 07:57

I’d be delighted with ground floor. If security worries you get measures in place including CCTV, insurance but positives are massive.

You can get a cat if you like pets. No carrying heavy shopping up/down stairs (or constant lift sharing).

In an emergency or fire you can escape at any time. It’ll be cheaper to heat. As you age you’ll never have to move. Much easier for deliveries. You can be in/out quickly and be as sociable as you do or don’t want to be etc.

Ground floor is best imho, not to mention if you ever have elderly or disabled friends visit. So much easier.

bearbeatcheesesticks · Yesterday 08:05

DoAWheelie · Yesterday 01:33

I love my ground floor flat and I'd never choose a higher floor again.

Not having to carry heavy shopping up and down stairs or stand waiting around for lifts. I can get deliveries passed to me through a window so I don't even need to go outside to accept them (great for grabbing a takeaway on a cold rainy night).

Just get some privacy blinds and a door chain if you feel a bit vulnerable, but every house has a ground floor and no one seems to worry about that.

Same! (Except the deliveries part: mine has bushes under the windows so no one can get close enough to hand parcels in - but on the plus side, it's good for security.)

Used to live in a higher floor flat, but much prefer ground.

Booboobagins · Yesterday 08:12

I've lived in a ground floor flat - no issues with security at all. If you're worried get cctv installed, it's cheap to install and you can find no costs for viewing options too. An alternative is to Google which internal home cameras are best.

SapphireSeptember · Yesterday 08:17

I live in a ground floor flat. It's a quiet area, although my upstairs neighbours are bloody noisy.

There's film you can get for windows that makes them harder to break, and I have night latches on all of mine. I'm also glad I have little windows high up that I can leave open at night instead of just having big vertical ones, if that makes sense?

NotQuiteUsual · Yesterday 08:22

I loved our ground floor flat. The kids could run around with no fear of their footsteps being an annoyance. Our upstairs neighbours loved coming round to play for the same reason.

ImpossibleGermany · Yesterday 08:29

You are mad. Most people would bite your arm off for somewhere on the ground floor, especially if they have young children.

Honestly, it seems with social housing there is simply no pleasing some people. brand new and still not right.

Pass it up and leave it for someone who really, really needs ground floor. It sounds like you don't, so I'm surprised it was offered in the first place.

lookin4advice · Yesterday 08:37

Thank you for all the suggestions!

I guess I just really need to see it.

But viewing and signing up is done at the first appointment which isn't for another 2 weeks and has been delayed several times due to not being complete.

It appears the majority of posters on here and in favour of the ground floor flat which has defo made me re consider my initial thoughts.

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HotGrapefruit · Yesterday 08:38

Only one neighbour to annoy you! Easier access to get furniture in too. You'll settle in nicely OP. I get your concerns, but once you are in you'll get it all sorted out and be fine. IKEA have nice viole type curtains you can use for privacy and they look classy too.

LavenderSweetPea · Yesterday 08:48

I lived in a new build London flat on the ground floor. There was also a basement level (for bin stores, bike stores etc) and there was essentially a 2m gap between the pavement and the windows of my flat to allow light to the basement, so no one could access my windows or knock on them etc any easier than if we were on the first floor. And I never had to worry about the lifts not breaking, it was good really.

Helllllooooooooooo · Yesterday 08:59

ghostperfume6 · Yesterday 00:55

I’ve lived in a ground floor flat for over 20 years now. I figure every house has a ground floor so it’s no different!

great for deliveries, unloading shopping. Also I’ve had random injuries and operations - torn calf muscle, spinal surgery, endometriosis surgery - been very grateful to have no stairs through all of those

total non issue really except for not being able to have my windows open overnight

This is exactly my attitude, when I lived in my house we actually got broken into on the ground floor, and slept right through it as we was asleep upstairs.

I have just moved and purposely only looked at ground floor flats, didn’t want to rely on lifts, can’t be bothered lugging shopping upstairs, cooler in summer, less neighbours (as in don’t have to worry about downstairs etc), outside spaces more accessible, often ground floors have patio doors to shared spaces, but even if you don’t have direct access to outside and you do want to sit outside it’s not a trek up lifts or stairs to the kitchen for drink top ups or to the bathroom.

Having briefly lived on a top floor flat in a newly converted building a few years ago, I wouldn’t wish that on my worst enemy in the summer. It was like an oven with all the new insulation - 10 degrees hotter inside then out and we only had Juliet balconies, so couldn’t sit out anywhere to cool off. I was ready to pitch a tent in the carpark and sleep there.

Lomonald · Yesterday 09:00

Hopefully it goes well when you view it. Get a ring doorbell and an alarm and you might feel securer.

We lived in a ground floor flat for 15 years with young.children and it was fine,

Ohdearwhatsthisthen · Yesterday 09:06

I moved from a third floor flat to a ground floor flat and I much preferred the ground floor, it was so much easier and less hot. The only problem we had was that our bedroom windows faced the street so we couldn't leave them open at night but it was quite shaded so it was still more comfortable than our old flat. I had a baby and a toddler at the time and not having to deal with a lift / stairs was amazing.

MyDeftDuck · Yesterday 09:08

A GFF is no different to living in a house or bungalow for that matter and I think you’re stressing over something before you’ve moved in and experienced the location.
As for people being able to look in, if you don’t want blinds to your windows you can put a film on the glass that obscures vision from the outside but you can still see from the inside - hope that makes sense.

IStillHearTheWaves · Yesterday 09:09

So unreasonable.

Octavia64 · Yesterday 09:11

My dd is disabled and is desperate for a ground floor flat.

in Newcastle where she is ground floor flats sell for more than upper floor ones as so many people want them.

Mousespoons · Yesterday 09:13

My sister lives in a ground floor new build flat in London. It’s lovely and very secure. They are usually really well glazed and she hardly needs to put the heating on.

Lomonald · Yesterday 09:16

My Dd lived in a "fancy" ground floor apartment and the flats had no issues with break ins or any kind of bother.

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · Yesterday 09:16

YANBU at all. When looking at flats with/for dd2, we immediately discounted any on the ground floor, due to general security, esp. since unless it’s really freezing she likes her bedroom window open!

Theytrytomakmego · Yesterday 09:22

amijustnaive · Yesterday 07:03

Okay, I’ll take your subsidised housing as someone who is absolutely ruined by rent each month.

HA accommodation isn't subsidized.

Rents are cheaper because HA's don't make as much profit from rents as commercial landlords.

They call the profits they make 'surplasses' and reinvest them in new builds for new tenants.
Mine raised £117 million profit after taxes, and write offs from tenants rents, two years ago.

Many have become property developers above being landlords.

But it's not enough profit for many to not have to live with damp and rot.
The myth that tenants are being subsidized by other tax payers is often spread by people jealous that someone is paying less rent than them. It helps allow HA landlords to carry on poorly maintaining many of their properties.

I'm sorry you're being ruined by your rent, but remember others get their health ruined by their cheaper, un - subsidized living conditions and nightmare neighbors that HA's don't care about.

The grass always looks greener the other side of the fence because you can't see what else is going on.

Theytrytomakmego · Yesterday 09:25

@lookin4advice Just check it's not a flood zone. (HA's get the land cheap as commercial developers are more cautious about building on them) If it is, be aware you'll struggle with being able to insure, and new build materials don't cope well with extremes.
But other than that, there is always a steady stream of disabled and ageing people needing ground floor accommodation, and always will be.
Many will also accept a downgrade in a swap, out of desperation to get ground floor, because stairs are now trapping them indoors.

lookin4advice · Yesterday 09:42

To those who have lived in ground floor flats, did you hear much noise from the communal main door?

I am also scared of lifts so maybe it's a good thing being offered ground floor as I get anxious every time I go in a lift lol.

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WhyamIinahandcartandwherearewegoing · Yesterday 09:42

Happy new home @lookin4advice !

I get where you are coming from so I’d be making sure I have window locks, door chain and a ring doorbell, and you’ll be all set x

lookin4advice · Yesterday 09:43

I have been looking for photos on the developers website and can only find one image from a development last year but these are ones I think for private sale and my block is solely social housing.

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