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AIBU to think cats should not roam unsupervised like dogs?

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estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:42

AIBU to think that if you dont leave your dog to roam streets unsupervised, then you shouldn't let other pets (cats), for the same reasons.

It blows my mind that people let their cats out because their sleep is disrupted and I wonder why they think its OK, when its highly unlikely they would put Fido outside if he kept the family up.

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bridgetreilly · 02/08/2026 10:40

Cats hunt. It is their instinct. But it isn’t natural in the sense that they aren’t part of our native ecosystem.

The answer to that isn’t to continue keeping millions of cats inside. The answer is to reduce the number of cats. Licences? Mandatory neutering?

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:40

I disagree. Letting them roam is not taking adequate provision for your pet's safety.

I do not think that letting a cat in harms way is what a loving pet owner should do. I do agree that cats need to go outside. But this should be in a controlled way. Catio at night and cat proofed garden in the day.

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Meadowfinch · 02/08/2026 10:41

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:49

No just wildlife.

Then don't keep a cat. Simple !

bridgetreilly · 02/08/2026 10:42

You know, my first experience of indoor-only cats was in the US. With a cat who was literally on Prozac. Are we okay with that? Cats needing actual medication for mental ill health?

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:42

Meadowfinch · 02/08/2026 10:41

Then don't keep a cat. Simple !

Agree. I have had cats.

They would be inside at night and in cat proof garden in the day. Happy, safe cats, not exposed to disease, car accidents, other accidents.

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Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 02/08/2026 10:42

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:26

Would you let your dog, rabbit, Guinea pig roam at night? If not, what is the difference?

Dont you care about the risk to your cat?

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Because those animals are not cats, and don't have the same needs as cats. What part of this isn't going in with you?

allthemind · 02/08/2026 10:43

My cat is allowed to roam (as all cats should be) and has a cat flap so can come and go. She rarely goes further than our patio because she is scared of the scores of foxes constantly invading our garden and pooing everywhere. I dont hear anyone proposing we put foxes on leads. Leave nature alone and let animals do what they need to do. Dogs are much more domesticated than cats are as a species (and much more dangerous, responsible for killing sheep, cattle, deer and humans, unlike cats).

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:43

bridgetreilly · 02/08/2026 10:42

You know, my first experience of indoor-only cats was in the US. With a cat who was literally on Prozac. Are we okay with that? Cats needing actual medication for mental ill health?

No, but it is possible to cat proof the garden. The same way we do for dogs.

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user90756423298 · 02/08/2026 10:43

I’d say about 10% of all the posts on our local social media is “dead cat by this road” or “my cat’s not been home for days, have you seen it?” I question people letting them wander and then being furious when they get run over or disappear, you’ve surely only got yourself to blame if you let them run free…

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:44

allthemind · 02/08/2026 10:43

My cat is allowed to roam (as all cats should be) and has a cat flap so can come and go. She rarely goes further than our patio because she is scared of the scores of foxes constantly invading our garden and pooing everywhere. I dont hear anyone proposing we put foxes on leads. Leave nature alone and let animals do what they need to do. Dogs are much more domesticated than cats are as a species (and much more dangerous, responsible for killing sheep, cattle, deer and humans, unlike cats).

You dont care if the get knocked over mauled by a fox and die an agonising lonely death?

Why?

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pinkandwhiteroses · 02/08/2026 10:44

Seriestwo · 02/08/2026 10:20

The vet said to me about young cats dying on roads and their life expectancy being 2. This isn’t a conference, so I’m comfortable with my data analysis thanks. The paper shows that cats die on roads

Don't post bollocks if you don't want to get pulled up on it.

pinkandwhiteroses · 02/08/2026 10:45

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:43

No, but it is possible to cat proof the garden. The same way we do for dogs.

Cat-proofing a garden is just giving them a bigger cage.

Seagulldancing · 02/08/2026 10:46

Cats are allowed to roam as they are less likely to hurt humans. Dogs have injured and killed people so they are considered differently under English law. Roaming rules are not about animal welfare.
But you legally have to stop and report if you hit someone's dog while driving. Not so for cats.

Ace56 · 02/08/2026 10:46

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:36

No, I really am not. I am asking a thoughtful question, which I think should be considered.

Cats deserve as much protection and care as other pets, but we routinely neglect them and put them at great risk - when would not do that with any other pet. It makes NO sense.

Oh ffs. Have you ever owned a cat and/or a dog, OP? If not, kindly go away and delete this thread as it’s a load of bullshit.

Cats and dogs are completely different animals as pp have said. Cats are independent and can’t be trained in the same way dogs can. They like to wander off on their own and not always be around people, whereas dogs would prefer never to leave their owner’s side for the rest of their life, which means they don’t mind being walked.

Yes, SOME cats can kill wildlife. But as pp have said, that’s what happens in the animal world. Really not going to be het up about the odd pigeon or squirrel being killed by a cat. Australia is different as some of their species are endangered, which is why they have stopped cats from roaming in those areas. Fair enough.

As for cats themselves being injured outside, well yes I suppose it’s a possibility, the same way you could be knocked down by a bus tomorrow. But are you never going to go out just in case that happens? Of course not. FYI I had 2 cats that went outdoors (in London) and lived to 17 and 18 years old. HTH.

kattyjean · 02/08/2026 10:46

SadiraOfTyr · 02/08/2026 10:39

And are you just…ok with that? If my dog killed a bird I would be mortified, especially with the pressure that bird populations are under. Not to mention that I would be committing a criminal offence under the Wildlife and Country Act in knowingly allowing a protected species to be killed.

Well I don’t really know what I can do. We rescued her from a farm when she was about 3 months old so she was used to being outside, we kept her in for about 8 months as I really wanted her to be a house cat (mostly due to road safety tbh) but despite me WFH and her getting lots of engagement in the house she was so unhappy, she desperately wanted to get out, she tried at every opportunity.

When we finally let her out she was a changed cat. Honestly it just felt cruel keeping her in. She has a collar with a big bell, she doesn’t go out until long after dawn and she’s not usually out at dusk (she will be more so in summer of course). But she does hunt. It’s not ideal but I’m not going to pretend I lose sleep over it.

bridgetreilly · 02/08/2026 10:47

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:44

You dont care if the get knocked over mauled by a fox and die an agonising lonely death?

Why?

It’s not that people don’t care, it’s that they accept these as normal levels of risk.

Same with letting children take risks. Of course it’s ‘safer’ to wrap them in bubble wrap and never let them out of your sight. But it’s a mad way to live.

ThatAquaRobin · 02/08/2026 10:47

The most insanely judgemental thread.
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estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:48

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 02/08/2026 10:42

Because those animals are not cats, and don't have the same needs as cats. What part of this isn't going in with you?

Don't patronise me. I do understand that they are different species.

I do not understand why neglecting a cats safety is ok, when it is not with other animals.

I would be curious to know why you think this is ok, when I bet if you had/have a dog you would do everything to keep it safe. Fences high enough, strong leash etc. You wouldn't just leave your dog in an unfenced garden so why not the same for cats?

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Cobol · 02/08/2026 10:48

I haven't read the whole thread, so I don't know if anyone has made this point, but part of the reason cats have a legal right to roam in the UK is because they are a native species, particularly the Scottish wildcat, that aren't necessarily owned or dependent on humans for their survival, unlike dogs. So just as we don't ban other native species, like foxes, from roaming we also don't ban cats. In other countries, like the US and Australia, pet cats are banned from roaming to protect them from predators as they aren't a native species in those countries and are therefore vulnerable if let out.

Dogs can't be let out on their own, of course, because of the danger they might attack someone. Anyone who has a problem with the different treatment of cats and dogs should reflect on the fact that you never see a headline that reads "Person mauled to death by domestic cat".

Jellycatspyjamas · 02/08/2026 10:49

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:44

You dont care if the get knocked over mauled by a fox and die an agonising lonely death?

Why?

I have 30 years of cat ownership under my belt, not once has my cat been hit by a car, mauled by a fox, or met a sticky end. They all died after a long, happy life which included free access to outdoors and the ability to wander and hunt.

Cats are pretty smart, they can climb, jump and hide very effectively. My dog on the other hand would run towards danger if it came with a lump of cheese.

They are completely different species with different needs.

MyOtherProfile · 02/08/2026 10:49

Pudmyboy · 02/08/2026 10:20

It was normal behaviour in the UK in the past, as a child I lived in the North and the South and in both places, letting the dog out in the daytime was normal. Though you did need a dog licence in those days.

I'm amazed. I am still wondering when in the past this was normal because it must be before my awareness and I was a child through the 70s.

Anyway it's kind of irrelevant because people don't do it now if they have any sense.

hahabahbag · 02/08/2026 10:49

Cats should be kept in their owners property/garden, for the sake of wildlife and because some of us are allergic to them. Thankfully the only cat near me is a house cat

Poppinpoppinpopcorn · 02/08/2026 10:50

estrogone · 02/08/2026 10:36

No, I really am not. I am asking a thoughtful question, which I think should be considered.

Cats deserve as much protection and care as other pets, but we routinely neglect them and put them at great risk - when would not do that with any other pet. It makes NO sense.

And this post explains perfectly that you don't understand cats or their needs. Congratulations you.

Tunnocks34 · 02/08/2026 10:50

estrogone · 02/08/2026 09:49

No just wildlife.

Lots of wildlife kill each other. Should we monitor foxes and badgers? Or magpies? Stop them from roaming too?

Currently in the UK there is no law against cats being out, and if cat owners take that risk with their own pet then that’s their decision. Until or if laws change, not much that can be done about it.

Cats and Dogs are exceptionally different animals. My dog wouldn’t ever find her way back home, she would also bite anyone who tried to stroke her if let out. My cat knows her way back home and would run away if anyone goes near her.

I bath my dog weekly, my cat would scratch my eyes out if I put her in water.

Theworldsgonemadagain · 02/08/2026 10:50

What on earth. I've had a cat, Rabbits and dog. Of course you don't let a rabbit or guinea pig wonder because it will run off and you will never see it again! Stupid comparison. Cats are intelligent and come back for food and warmth. My cat was a rescue, she was too scared to leave the boundary of our home, she enjoyed the garden and would go outside most of the day and come in at night but had a choice with the cat flap. She choose not to leave the house boundary but I wouldn't have an issue if she did. I don't think it's fair for cats to be stuck indoors, although owners need to be responsible and consider the dangers if they live near busy roads ect. I wouldn't let my whippet roam as he would run across traffic, chase foxes, cats and other dogs. It would be dangerous and irresponsible. My cat lived until 16, she was far more intelligent than my whippet. Cats and dogs are like apples and pears.

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