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Dh changes when a full moon

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Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim · Yesterday 23:30

Not in a werewolf way and i’m not a woo type of person, but I’ve noticed a few times (going to have to start writing it down) that on the build up
to a full moon, he can be very moody and not nice sometimes and the day after-few days after, he’s back to himself, but much nicer-kinder

It’s happened too many times now to feel like a coincidence

Am I the one going mad?

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ThatCyanCat · Today 00:17

kattyjean · Yesterday 23:43

So I came here to say that it’s a known fact that behaviour changes with a full moon and that’s there’s data from police and hospitals to support this, but on double checking AI tells me this is a myth and there is no such data 🤣 however, it did say the one small data insight we have is that full moons can impact sleep and people can sleep on average 20 mins less so maybe irritability can be caused by that?!

The theory I heard is that the moon and sun control the tides and so obviously at a full moon they will affect human brains which are around 75% water.

EmeraldRoulette · Today 00:18

When I was working with the public, it was off the case that you'd notice really strange behaviour in several people, check to see if it was full moon, and it was.

I don't mean rude behaviour I just mean strange. @Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim so I find it perfectly believable. It's really something when you see it in lots of people.

SunwaysSystems · Today 00:19

ThatCyanCat · Today 00:17

The theory I heard is that the moon and sun control the tides and so obviously at a full moon they will affect human brains which are around 75% water.

How does the sun control the tides?

Do you see glasses of water being affected by the moon? What about a big Sports Direct mug of tea that someone's forgotten about? Or that bowl of washing up your DH 'left to soak'? They're nearly 100% water.

RisingSunn · Today 00:19

Apparently that’s where the origin of “lunatic” comes from. Original - meaning being struck by the moon!

Theunamedcat · Today 00:20

SunwaysSystems · Today 00:15

The tides are affected because they are huge bodies of weighty water acting on the gravity of a huge dense body coming closer to it. The water in our cells doesn't move around with the tides. Even if it did, tides are constantly changing, not just once a month. You'd see this in glasses of water far more than you would in a person's cells.

In nature it largely has minuscule effects - as far as I can tell, the biggest is the increased light causing creatures to try and avoid predation.

Im in perimenopause I AM a huge body of water (and chocolate)

😆

ThingsCouldBeEasier · Today 00:21

It's sometimes said that it's caused by the activities of parasites. I've no idea whether herrs any evidence for that though.

okeydokeymokey · Today 00:22

SunwaysSystems · Today 00:15

The tides are affected because they are huge bodies of weighty water acting on the gravity of a huge dense body coming closer to it. The water in our cells doesn't move around with the tides. Even if it did, tides are constantly changing, not just once a month. You'd see this in glasses of water far more than you would in a person's cells.

In nature it largely has minuscule effects - as far as I can tell, the biggest is the increased light causing creatures to try and avoid predation.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/future/article/20210820-the-subtle-influence-of-the-moon-on-earths-weather

just one of hundreds of articles

The subtle influence of the Moon on Earth's weather

For generations, people have watched the Moon for signs of changes in the weather. The Moon does, in fact, affect the Earth's weather patterns in subtle ways.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/future/article/20210820-the-subtle-influence-of-the-moon-on-earths-weather

shuffleofftobuffalo · Today 00:25

I believe you. The full moon effect is real - my team is a central function, we can tell when it’s full moon because the rest of the company goes noticeably whacky and for a few days it becomes an entertaining chaos.

sunshine47 · Today 00:26

I totally believe in this. Had the most awful argument with my best friend. It has only happened 2 times before in years, both on full moons. All ok afterwards but oh my, it was heartbreaking at the time, just thinking about it is painful

SunwaysSystems · Today 00:27

Yes, exactly.

What is it specifically you are claiming the moon does to the water in our cells?

SunwaysSystems · Today 00:28

Yes, the increased light I mentioned. Thanks for finding a specific study!

dinodart · Today 00:29

ThatCyanCat · Today 00:17

The theory I heard is that the moon and sun control the tides and so obviously at a full moon they will affect human brains which are around 75% water.

the moon isn't changing it's mass tho... only what's visible. the thing that's changing is the amount of light reflected off the moon onto us.

the moon does affect tides but that doesn't have anything to do with how much of the moon we can see.

SunwaysSystems · Today 00:30

At the moment the full moon will coincide with pay day for a lot of people.

okeydokeymokey · Today 00:33

SunwaysSystems · Today 00:28

Yes, the increased light I mentioned. Thanks for finding a specific study!

the review isn't saying moonlight is the only possible mechanism, it also cites gravitational and electromagnetic influences among others

hitsdifferently · Today 00:34

My grandad’s mood seemed heavily affected by the moon. He was intolerable during a full moon. Without fail. Like clockwork. The dog used to abscond during a full moon too. Both Cancers. Neither werewolves.

user1492757084 · Today 00:38

Yes, I've often wondered whether full moons affect pressure in the head akin to how migraines affect people's moods and ability to perform cognitively.

Relaxd · Today 01:02

My ex worked in a psychiatric hospital and they always mentioned things were different during a full moon, with patient moods seemingly affected.

MrsBirkett · Today 01:03

I was a midwife for many years. I don't care if the research doesn't back it up, the busiest, maddest nights were always when there was a full moon.

viques · Today 01:04

MrsMoastyToasty · Yesterday 23:37

I think we're more affected by the natural environment than most people realise.
I often get a migraine when there's a dramatic change in air pressure.
DM was a school dinner lady and she said that the pupils were a lot more boisterous when it was windy.

The wind thing in school playgrounds definitely happens! It really skitches them up!

okeydokeymokey · Today 01:06

so many personal experiences here verifying.

Also this full moon was a big one, sun conjunct jupiter exactly opposite moon conjunct pluto. if you know your astrology you'll know how intense that would be!

CypressMoon · Today 01:09

Davros · Yesterday 23:48

Aw, I was hoping he grew paws

Me too. I wanted some rapid hair growth and baying at the moon. 😟

Fedupofthisgame · Today 01:22

I work in the emergency services and a full moon sends people mad. It's always a worse shift on a full moon.

TheFormidableMrsC · Today 01:24

Touristtrainstuffedtothebrim · Today 00:05

What are you symptoms and those around you

I feel irritable and morose in the week or so before and then a lifting and light at soon as the moon is full. As I said, it’s almost like a period cycle although I haven’t had one of those for years.

Millytante · Today 01:34

Flannelfeet · Today 00:00

Ohhh, I get that too. I have known for 2 days the rain was coming and possibly thunder because my head has been thumping. Massive downpour (got caught in it and bloody soaked).
Guess what? I feel so much better...hope theres a wee bit more tomorrow (after i get my washing in 🤭.)

Same here, when the air pressure is altered. Like I’m very tightly wrapped, head to toe, in clingfilm. Same feeling inside my skull.
When significant rain is approaching, my right leg aches to the point of my almost weeping.

(This began in childhood, when all the paediatricians in London my mother dragged me to see asserted that this was ‘growing pains’. Since it was my right leg alone, I was convinced that only that limb would keep growing)

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