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Quite young women always post life affirming cod- philosophical messages on social media?

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principalskinna · 29/07/2026 09:10

youngsters I follow either colleagues or hairdressers/ kids of friends in their 20s, et cetera on Instagram
you check in and they've posted some bollocks about anxiety/ deep connections/Poisoning our bodies/loving full lives
is it part of being young and is it that we would have done the same in the 80s and 90s but couldn't ?
who produces all this hammy shit?

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HauntedBungalow · 29/07/2026 15:31

School near me has "inspirational" nonsense quotes on the walls. Things like "inclusion is being invited to the party, empowerment is being asked to choose the music". I shit you not. It's an academy of course. I often feel sad thinking about the damage being done to impressionable young minds by every day exposure to wall after wall of this carcinogenic horseshit.

Funandnames · 29/07/2026 15:37

“If you can’t handle me at my worst, then you don’t deserve me at my best” - with a picture of Marilyn Monroe next to it.

The number of times I saw girls post this during university!! I just don’t get it?! It sounds like you want to abuse your partner and are bullying him for not being able to ‘handle it’

principalskinna · 29/07/2026 15:38

Oh, and that what about a teabag?

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mindutopia · 29/07/2026 15:42

To be totally fair, my mum who is 76 also posts this shit. Her whole life has been an absolute dysfunctional shambles so it makes me laugh a little because she is the last person you would ever take deep philosophical life advice from.

My favourite thing is that everyone I know in their 40s with newly diagnosed ADHD, a career that made them miserable, a coke habit and a failed marriage is now suddenly a ‘life coach’. 🙄 They love this stuff too.

TooBigForMyBoots · 29/07/2026 15:45

I got this.😬

Quite young women always post life affirming cod- philosophical messages on social media?
Fimofriend · 30/07/2026 07:58

NotSmallButFunSize · 29/07/2026 15:00

Or exercise "advice" and they are like, 20 and naturally slim.

Come back when you're 40 with 3 kids love

I saw an article many years ago about what routine Nicole Kidman used to obtain nice, soft feet without any hard skin. All bull. When I was severely underweight too, I didn't have hard skin on my feet either, and I did nothing to accomplish that.

Fimofriend · 30/07/2026 08:10

HauntedBungalow · 29/07/2026 15:31

School near me has "inspirational" nonsense quotes on the walls. Things like "inclusion is being invited to the party, empowerment is being asked to choose the music". I shit you not. It's an academy of course. I often feel sad thinking about the damage being done to impressionable young minds by every day exposure to wall after wall of this carcinogenic horseshit.

At my workplace, they did the same.

One of the quotes is "Only dead fish follow the stream". This quote is on one of the walls in the financial department. We definitely need everyone in the financial department to do things according to the rules and to all do them in the exact same way.

MandemChickenShop · 30/07/2026 08:13

majority of social media is just full of nonsense. just delete the apps and ignore it.

WhatNoRaisins · 30/07/2026 08:15

Likeiloveyou · 29/07/2026 09:23

My DC are Gen Z and think this kind of shit is for “tragic millennial basics” so I don’t think it’s about young people across the board.

Just in your social circles maybe?

It was a very millennial thing in my experience. I remember being about 22 and my Facebook just being a sea of wanky cod psychology quotes with pretty images and everyone leaving likes.

I did seriously consider putting something really offensive over a pretty sunset background to see if anyone was actually reading them.

It's probably even worse now that you can ai generate this crap.

TenTenTenAgain · 30/07/2026 08:19

I always think of Bernard black when I see this stuff online.

"The drinks were few , the people were many. It was everything I expected and less."

"I come from a long line of quitters. It's surprising I'm here at all."

"The older the wine , the gooder the wine."

principalskinna · 06/08/2026 05:53

New one: I am a mosaic of everything I ever loved 🙄

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Overtheatlantic · 06/08/2026 06:22

I’m late 50s and used to write these kinds of quotes on sticky notes and put them on the dashboard of my car; my favourite was “Wherever you go, there you are.” I thought it was profound. 😆

AtlasPine · 06/08/2026 06:33

I agree with the previous poster who suggested they are talking to themselves. Like cliches, profound statements are often based on a kind of truth we often see - in these cases, a truth they’d specifically like to see at that point. If it makes someone happier, it’s not harmful. And I also agree you see them on the timelines of all ages, not just younger people.

disclaimer: not mine.

UniquePinkSwan · 06/08/2026 06:50

BauhausOfEliott · 29/07/2026 09:20

The only people I see doing this are older.

No it isn’t

Svelty · 06/08/2026 06:55

I’ve seen plenty of middle aged people posting thing type of stuff. I don’t think it’s an age thing but more of a personality and preference thing.

MotherOfCrocodiles · 06/08/2026 06:59

Ah when I was young in the 90s there was no social media but people loved the Little Book of Calm, philosophy of Winnie the Poo etc. There were
loads of those tiny square books n the counter at Waterstones

Natsku · 06/08/2026 07:16

StandingDeskDisco · 29/07/2026 12:25

Brilliant.
I got "Hide from penises"
and
" 'We need to cancel our agreement' usually means 'I'm sick of this shit' "

I got
'Please don't unleash da police.
It's da police, stupid'

This feels like a personal attack.

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