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Quite young women always post life affirming cod- philosophical messages on social media?

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principalskinna · 29/07/2026 09:10

youngsters I follow either colleagues or hairdressers/ kids of friends in their 20s, et cetera on Instagram
you check in and they've posted some bollocks about anxiety/ deep connections/Poisoning our bodies/loving full lives
is it part of being young and is it that we would have done the same in the 80s and 90s but couldn't ?
who produces all this hammy shit?

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allthiscarryon · 29/07/2026 14:12

principalskinna · 29/07/2026 09:10

youngsters I follow either colleagues or hairdressers/ kids of friends in their 20s, et cetera on Instagram
you check in and they've posted some bollocks about anxiety/ deep connections/Poisoning our bodies/loving full lives
is it part of being young and is it that we would have done the same in the 80s and 90s but couldn't ?
who produces all this hammy shit?

I work with lots of mid 20s, educated seemingly intelligent colleagues and the stuff they come out with sometimes makes me laugh. One over confident young man likes to give out life advice, he was trying to give me some about menopause based on his extensive knowledge of his mum being my age-ish.
One of the few times I have actually told someone in work to be quiet and stop talking!

principalskinna · 29/07/2026 14:23

Dollymylove · 29/07/2026 09:44

Well, you seem to be reading this "hammy shit".....

And you seem to be reading this thread?

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principalskinna · 29/07/2026 14:24

Oh yes

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principalskinna · 29/07/2026 14:25

I mean

Quite young women always post life affirming cod- philosophical messages on social media?
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cantthinkofagoodusername2026 · 29/07/2026 14:36

I mentioned this to a colleague the other day (my sister has form for posting this type of stuff, yet her life is a mess). He said that it sounds like she is talking to herself by posting this stuff. It made a lot of sense.

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 14:47

Why is ageism acceptable when it's against young people? If I made a generalising post about women in their sixties, I would fully expect to be torn limb from limb on here.

SandwichSuperstar · 29/07/2026 14:49

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 14:47

Why is ageism acceptable when it's against young people? If I made a generalising post about women in their sixties, I would fully expect to be torn limb from limb on here.

Yeah but you wouldn't be.

It'd be about 50/50 and MNHQ would allow it to stand.

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 14:51

SandwichSuperstar · 29/07/2026 14:49

Yeah but you wouldn't be.

It'd be about 50/50 and MNHQ would allow it to stand.

Yes, I would. Old women are sacrosanct on here, the wailing about 'ageism' is very loud.

SandwichSuperstar · 29/07/2026 14:56

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 14:51

Yes, I would. Old women are sacrosanct on here, the wailing about 'ageism' is very loud.

Not true at all.

There are tonnes of ageist threads that divide the forum.

principalskinna · 29/07/2026 14:58

@BettyJoanPerske feel free to

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principalskinna · 29/07/2026 14:59

Anyway, if you want to talk about ageism on the site and derail the thread feel free to start your own thread 👵🏼

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NotSmallButFunSize · 29/07/2026 15:00

Ncforthis2267 · 29/07/2026 09:47

The ones that make me laugh are girls that look about 17 dishing out sage advice for things like long term dating success. Wind your neck in love, you're a baby! You know nothing!

Or exercise "advice" and they are like, 20 and naturally slim.

Come back when you're 40 with 3 kids love

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 15:00

SandwichSuperstar · 29/07/2026 14:56

Not true at all.

There are tonnes of ageist threads that divide the forum.

Just because MNHQ let them stand doesn't mean that the people who start them don't get a bad time. Any mention of 'boomers' sends people into an utter tailspin, yet those same people happily drag ' Gen Z'.

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 15:01

NotSmallButFunSize · 29/07/2026 15:00

Or exercise "advice" and they are like, 20 and naturally slim.

Come back when you're 40 with 3 kids love

Just like those boomers who tell the younger generations to save money.

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 15:01

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Sporadica · 29/07/2026 15:02

Are we talking "live love laugh" level stuff, or something more personal? The chronically online 18-24 yos I know are mainly posting stuff like "look at this little cutie purse I got at the thrift - I'm obsessed with it!" or "which Sol de Janeiro scents does a vanilla girlie NEED?" so dealing with anxiety, making deep connections, and nor poisoning one's body would probably be a step up. Not sure about loving full lives, but I don't think most people prefer empty lives.

Anyway, here's my Inspirobot-generated advice: "Look humping. Hyperventilate." I'm not going to take it - at least not intentionally.

Quite young women always post life affirming cod- philosophical messages on social media?
Loopylalalou · 29/07/2026 15:03

BauhausOfEliott · 29/07/2026 09:20

The only people I see doing this are older.

Like my SiL, aged 55. Always a silly moo.

principalskinna · 29/07/2026 15:13

@BettyJoanPerske you old dear. I AM AGEISTTTTTT

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principalskinna · 29/07/2026 15:14

I like the way people are obsessed with trivial things though because all of us do that

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Mysticguru · 29/07/2026 15:15

It doesn't bother me. Rather life affirming memes than hatred and vitriol. Some of the world's wisest sages were young once.

BettyJoanPerske · 29/07/2026 15:15

principalskinna · 29/07/2026 15:13

@BettyJoanPerske you old dear. I AM AGEISTTTTTT

🙄

I mean, I'm neither an old dear nor a young flibbertigibbet. I'm 43. I just have noticed that people on this site have a lot to say about young people, but if anyone says anything about anyone over 50, hell mend you.

SpaceShark · 29/07/2026 15:16

Life affirming cod:

Quite young women always post life affirming cod- philosophical messages on social media?
BlueFahrenheit · 29/07/2026 15:18

It's on trend.

I don't use social media.

HauntedBungalow · 29/07/2026 15:20

World's full of snakes OP.

5foot5 · 29/07/2026 15:24

Darragon · 29/07/2026 10:56

Yep. My uncle in his late 50s is infamous for posting this toss and his contemporaries just eat it up.

Back in the late 90s/ early 2000s I worked for a small tech company. The MD ( who wasn't a techy) used to love all that sort of shite and at one point framed a series of posters bearing these sort of "inspirational messages" and had them hung up the stairs and along the corridors. Most of the staff thought it embarrassing bilge and laughed about it behind his back.

I guess he would probably be in his late 50s / early 60s now.