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Why is there no solution to the 'used-once-but-not-dirty' clothes pile?

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Hicc · 21/07/2026 17:59

We all have this, don't we? A pile of clothes on a chair in the bedroom that aren't dirty enough to wash but not clean enough to go back in the wardrobe.

Mine sit on a chair looking untidy.

Try as I might, I can't find a solution. Blanket ladders aren't sturdy enough to put up with daily use, chairs take up a lot of space, hooks don't work for two people's worth of clothes.

AIBU for being frustrated there is not a magical solution to this? Or is there one that is being gate-kept by the eternally tidy and house proud crew?

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monkeysox · 22/07/2026 05:59

EndlessWeeding · 21/07/2026 18:00

Just hang them back in the wardrobe if they are clean enough for another wear?

Bad idea.

pigalow27 · 22/07/2026 06:26

I have clothes everywhere in my house (in every room apart from kitchen and bathroom) so probably not a role model. I have a complicated, self dictated system. Only clean and ironed clothes are allowed back in an actual wardrobe. Clean clothes waiting to be ironed are hung on hangers on door frames, hooks etc. Clothes to be worn more than once such as wool trousers, cardigans etc might be folded and placed on top of one of the many chest of drawers, banisters etc. There is also a bedroom chair. A summer cotton skirt could be worn twice (maybe even three times at a pinch) if in no sense it is dirty but would need an iron again in between wears. Anything that has been close to a body like dresses or tops are washed after one wear. I wear t shirts under some jumpers in winter so the jumper can be worn a few times. Likewise cardigans over tops or dresses. It is a complicated system and only I fully understand all its rules.

Nos4r2 · 22/07/2026 06:48

TotallyTangerineGeum · 21/07/2026 18:12

I must be the only person who washes every item of clothing after each wear. Especially at this time of year!

Me too. I just think if you wear them then throw them on the chair they would get screwed up so I would just wash it all, but I love putting on fresh clean clothes after a shower , wear pyjamas twice though.

Melograno · 22/07/2026 07:00

thehourwaslate · 21/07/2026 23:42

I can’t believe so many people put worn clothes back in the wardrobe…I couldn’t bear to do it! To me that’s like putting unwashed plates back in the cupboard!

We have hooks on the back of our en suite door for the once-worn items, and use hangers on the hooks if no loop on the clothes to hang from.

Same, utterly rank and moth heaven
I just wear the same trousers/ skirt/ culottes the next day with a different top
I cant bear piles of laundry everywhere and worn things in big piles-No!

ProfessionalPirate · 22/07/2026 07:19

PhoebeBuffay1234 · 21/07/2026 23:07

Just use a separator like me. Everything to the left (or right if you fancy) can be worn again.

To be honest, I don’t have loads in that side at any given time but some bottoms I do wear a couple of times. Tops I generally just wear once.

Yes that’s probably the best solution, would need to have a big sort out of my wardrobe first though as it’s bursting at the seams 😆

I do generate quite a lot of ‘in use’ clothes though, I have horses, dogs etc and have a different outfit for every activity!

Kepler22B · 22/07/2026 07:31

Rehang them inside out so you know they have been worn once.

PocketFluff · 22/07/2026 09:10

I used to have elaborate methods and piles of clothes but now I just leave it out and wear it again the next day. I used to think people would notice if I wore the same thing two days in a row but then I tried to remember what colleagues etc wore yesterday and I could barely ever remember! So now I just lay it out to wear the next day and have an organised start to the day rather than a messy, disorganised chairdrobe!

Createausername1970 · 22/07/2026 09:17

Wirkwirk · 21/07/2026 18:02

IMO if they're clean enough to wear again, they're clean enough to go back in the wardrobe.

Indeed.

If in doubt, give them a once over with a squirt of deodorant before putting them back in the wardrobe or drawer.

Or wear them again and wash them.

Or just wash them anyway to clear the pile.

I don't think additional furniture is the way to go.

mumumental · 22/07/2026 09:25

Allseeingallknowing · 21/07/2026 19:28

Don’t they end up on the floor?

No, never. I have an old ships box thing at the bottom of the bed, a bit like a wooden ottoman.

Katemax82 · 22/07/2026 09:25

I wash everything after I've worn it so don't have this but my husband slings his worn but clean jeans over our clothes rack (we have no wardrobe just 11ft of clothes rail)

maudelovesharold · 22/07/2026 09:28

We hang ‘wear again’ clothes over a ‘vintage’ (old) wooden towel stand in the corner of our bedroom!

EnjoythemoneyJane · 22/07/2026 09:31

MrsClattenburg · 21/07/2026 19:27

I have never seen a moth in a wardrobe.

My clothes have never got moth holes in them.

I re-wear clothes like a normal person.

You’re lucky. I’ve had two infestations, one much worse than the other, and it’s an unbelievable PITA to deal with and extremely difficult to completely break the cycle once they’re in. If they go into carpets or soft furnishings you’ll never be rid of them without professional intervention.

I know quite few other people who’ve had the same, but I do wonder if it’s area-specific, as they can spread between households, especially at certain times of the year.

Either way, it’s made me completely paranoid about getting them again and for that reason absolutely nothing goes into my wardrobe unless it’s totally clean and unworn.

Sgtmajormummy · 22/07/2026 09:39

I count on wearing my outfits for 2 days then into the washing basket and I have a shower.
If that isn’t possible they go on a hanger outside the wardrobe for max 3 days.
Cardigans and hoodies go in a “used but clean” area of the wardrobe cordoned off by the mini ironing board that lives in there.

Chilly80 · 22/07/2026 10:05

Towel rail on radiator

katepilar · 22/07/2026 10:12

Nos4r2 · 22/07/2026 06:48

Me too. I just think if you wear them then throw them on the chair they would get screwed up so I would just wash it all, but I love putting on fresh clean clothes after a shower , wear pyjamas twice though.

You wash clothes just because you cant store them overnight without screwing them up?

IFancyGregDavies · 22/07/2026 10:12

I put them on top of the laundry basket in the en-suite but it really pisses DH off!
I don’t like the ‘visual noise’ of seeing the clothes hanging anywhere, on the floor or on a chair but I don’t like putting them away with the clean clothes either.
I’m the same with all my skincare, if I put it away I don’t bother using it but the sight of it all out on display is unpleasant to me.

Mollymoo67 · 22/07/2026 10:13

WinWhenTheyreSinging · 21/07/2026 19:16

I either with buying a Floordrobe, but they’re still on the chair yet.

https://floordrobe.co/?srsltid=AfmBOoqmg84BHqLRmUPHRDY3ARrVV2D6HPHp2dTtExGGXWiR4fwlm-cb

OMG floordrobes are a thing?? I thought that just meant when people leave all their clothes on the floor!

Personally I couldn't be without my trusty chairdrobe, which I did not buy specially for the purpose, it's just a normal chair 😄

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/07/2026 10:14

GrannyAchingsShepherdsHut · 21/07/2026 18:10

Clothes that have been worn and put away again can attract moths, I don't put them away again for that reason.

I just wear it again in the next day or 2, if it's going to be longer than that between wears I wash it as I think the smell of them changes after a few days.

Ikea do a stick out clothes hanger holder thing you fix to the wardrobe

applink.ikea.com/tY8M9r9M4w--70256931--gb--en

Moths don’t attack clothes because they’ve been worn and put away. They attack them because they’re made of wool, cashmere or alpaca, etc. AFAIK they lay their eggs in them so that there’s a food source for the larvae.

Melograno · 22/07/2026 10:58

GETTINGLIKEMYMOTHER · 22/07/2026 10:14

Moths don’t attack clothes because they’ve been worn and put away. They attack them because they’re made of wool, cashmere or alpaca, etc. AFAIK they lay their eggs in them so that there’s a food source for the larvae.

They are particularly attracted to the smell of human skin and oils
I would never risk it, never store worn clothing and all my woolens/yarn is stored in moth proof bags

ApolloandDaphne · 22/07/2026 11:37

I put worn clothes back in my wardrobe. Always have done and I have reached the age of 63 without attracting moths or any other issues.

Melograno · 22/07/2026 12:17

ApolloandDaphne · 22/07/2026 11:37

I put worn clothes back in my wardrobe. Always have done and I have reached the age of 63 without attracting moths or any other issues.

They are absolutely rife in some areas and tricky to eradicate
IYKYK

TheKeatingFive · 22/07/2026 12:41

ApolloandDaphne · 22/07/2026 11:37

I put worn clothes back in my wardrobe. Always have done and I have reached the age of 63 without attracting moths or any other issues.

Me too. Never had a problem.

DilemmaDelilah · 22/07/2026 12:54

I know of at least 3 solutions.

  1. Hang them in the wardrobe - but in a separate section. I do this. Worn once clothes go on the left hand (smaller) side.
  2. Hang them in the wardrobe, but with the hangers facing the opposite way. So worn once - open side of the hook towards you.. clean - closed side of the hook towards you.
  3. Hang them in the wardrobe - but inside out.
DilemmaDelilah · 22/07/2026 12:58

With reference to the floordrobe - if you're going to buy (and have room for) that, you might as well just get a separate small thin wardrobe specifically for your worn clothes!

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