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To feel utterly miserable about a future with Andy Burnham as PM?

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OneWarmHazelQuail · Yesterday 01:23

I feel like I'm being stung in every possible way at the moment- £15 a day on tube to work, high mortgage costs, high energy costs, private schooling for SEN child (I was told state wouldn't be unlikely to assist him as he isn't mute or violent). My parents have had to help fund schooling it felt like my only hope as son has behavioural issues.

I also have an unsold old home that I have to rent out as it wouldn't sell. Buy-to-let mortgage costs, agent fees, maintenance and tax put me in a loss position.

I can't bear what the future holds with Andy Burnham. I have no doubt that he will find new and imaginative ways to keep me in this financial nightmare. I'm literally struggling from food poverty but regarded as rich by policy.

YABU- Andy Burnham is actually going to make things better

YANBU- I'm screwed

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glitterpaperchain · Yesterday 10:50

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 10:49

The asset is usually a house, particularly in London, where are they supposed to live?

If all they own is one home then I don't think that's really the issue

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 10:50

We don’t need to stress - the markets will do the talking the minute Burnham tries to implement one of his rehashed Corbyn policies.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · Yesterday 10:53

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 09:58

It’s preposterous that pp on benefits screaming to tax ‘the rich’ seem to be unaware that their lights are on, and the food in their stomachs comes from ‘the rich’ otherwise known as the working demographic, and without them the lights will indeed be turned off. You can’t continue to tax and tax without reform.

I’ve been a higher rate tax payer for almost a couple of decades, as has my husband. Neither of us has ever claimed a single benefit. Still think we should tax the super rich. HTH.

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 10:53

glitterpaperchain · Yesterday 10:50

If all they own is one home then I don't think that's really the issue

It is if it’s the reason they’re a millionaire and according to a pp they’re not supposed to claim their state pension.

chocoluv · Yesterday 10:54

You have an extremely privileged life and it’s offensive for you to imply otherwise.

You do realise that there are people who can’t afford food but don’t own 2 homes, who pay an insane amount in rent and do not have the security that an owned home provides.

They are also going through traumatic events but can’t just up and leave.

They also have DCs with much higher needs than yours but do not have the money or family money to send them to private school.

You are moaning about your sons needs and money but then you chose to have a second child?

You can absolutely ask for advice on here but you are one of the most privileged in this country and you need to recognise that.

Carry on fighting for the EHCP.

Aside from that, your biggest issue is owning 2 homes.

You can either - live in your first home and sell your second home, if the first home won’t sell.

Or if you’ve tried everything else, then you can raffle it off - people pay £10 a ticket and you set a minimum for it to go ahead.
You get the money to pay back the mortgage and someone gets a home for a tiny price.

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 10:55

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · Yesterday 10:53

I’ve been a higher rate tax payer for almost a couple of decades, as has my husband. Neither of us has ever claimed a single benefit. Still think we should tax the super rich. HTH.

Of course you are - happy to pay 60-80% tax - sure thing 😉

bigboykitty · Yesterday 10:56

HectorPlasm · Yesterday 10:36

End the benefits culture, cut the benefits bill. Fix that and other things will flow from it.

Let's have some facts!

To feel utterly miserable about a future with Andy Burnham as PM?
glitterpaperchain · Yesterday 10:57

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 10:55

Of course you are - happy to pay 60-80% tax - sure thing 😉

I think you don't understand what PP means when she says to tax the 'super rich'

It doesn't mean people who earn 200k

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 10:58

bigboykitty · Yesterday 10:56

Let's have some facts!

Oh dodgy territory there! Facts are very unwelcome in threads like this.

Joe7t8 · Yesterday 10:58

thefireinyourheart · Yesterday 10:40

The biggest benefit is the state pension.

22% of pensioners are millionaires but still claim the state pension

It's insane that people who own their homes outright and have a private pension income in the higher-rate tax band on its own are still eligible for a 12.5K benefit, isn't it?

thefireinyourheart · Yesterday 10:58

OneWarmHazelQuail · Yesterday 10:48

Do I not?

I'm from an immigrant family. My parents worked multiple minimum wage jobs and they continue to work despite being in their 70s. My dad spent most of his life eating bread and butter sandwiches for lunch because we couldn't afford filling. I was taught to dry out and re-use nasal tissues because each tissue was expensive (very unhygienic, I know). I know poverty. Please don't lecture me about poverty.

Your assumptions are astounding.

Why are you unwilling to help yourself then?

KTheGrey · Yesterday 10:58

lxn889121 · Yesterday 03:12

Personally I think the entire problem is that the issues in the U.K. are far more structural and deep than a prime minister. (which is partly why we have entered this cycle of quickly changing leaders, because none of them can actually solve the fundamental issues we face, yet are blamed for not magically turning the country around).

Of course in certain specific cases you might be unlucky and one of his policies may hit you in a bad way, but in general on average, The biggest problems facing people in the U.K. over the next 5 years, will barely be scratched by any new leader.

And do you think that’s because the problems are insoluble or because this government are unequal to the task?

BIossomtoes · Yesterday 10:59

Joe7t8 · Yesterday 10:58

It's insane that people who own their homes outright and have a private pension income in the higher-rate tax band on its own are still eligible for a 12.5K benefit, isn't it?

It would be if it was actually a benefit but it’s not. It’s taxable income. Anyone in the higher rate band will be paying it back anyway.

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · Yesterday 11:00

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 10:55

Of course you are - happy to pay 60-80% tax - sure thing 😉

I’m not the super rich though! Read what I wrote properly.

bafta16 · Yesterday 11:00

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 10:04

Ultimately op you must hold on. Burnham doesn’t even want this job, won’t last long, and has no mandate or authority. Labour’s last chance is about to go up in smoke, and then the adults will take over. This isn’t forever. It will pass.

And the adults are? Farage? Cameron back again?

bigboykitty · Yesterday 11:01

HectorPlasm · Yesterday 10:36

End the benefits culture, cut the benefits bill. Fix that and other things will flow from it.

And finally. Do you see what it is yet?

To feel utterly miserable about a future with Andy Burnham as PM?
Newbutoldfather · Yesterday 11:02

@ThatSunnyCrow

‘Equalising income tax and CGT is a terrible idea.’

You probably won’t be surprised to find that I disagree with that!

‘Two thirds of total tax take comes from income tax, national insurance, VAT and corporation tax. These are the big levers to pull if you want to increase government income.’

The big levers that the wealthy care not one jot about but put yet more pressure on the middle classes.

‘CGT is currently about 1% of tax take. Equalising with income tax raises this to about 2.5%. It won’t bring in meaningful money.’

I just checked and it is currently 1.6% (according to the IFS), so it would probably go up to closer to 3%. That’s more than we spend on our entire defence, so certainly a significant sum.

‘In the early 90s around 50% or shares in uk listed companies were owned by uk pension funds, Gordon Brown took away their pension tax credit and it’s about 2% today. And we wonder why uk growth is sluggish.’

I don’t know where to start here! It is a different issue anyway but the whole world has globalised a lot since the 90s. I doubt the pension credit was a major factor.

‘Incentivising people to invest and take risks benefits us all in the long run. If you massively increase CGT people will stop investing and hold onto assets rather than sell them.‘

Again, this doesn’t make a lot of sense. Real investors do tend to buy and hold fairly long term. Look at Warren Buffet. I am not sure we want to incentivise punting as opposed to investing.

I also think that the wealthy aren’t taking more risk, they are merely being tax efficient. Look at share buybacks, as opposed to paying dividends. It is exactly the same cash flow, but miraculously suddenly taxed at a much lower rate.

There are so many legal ways at transferring income into CGT without really increasing risk. It is pretty much the basis of private equity (large loan and lots of equity priced at a peppercorn amount).

We could still have ‘founder’ tax breaks and things like that for genuine entrepreneurs who start a business and then sell it, but not for the tax lawyers and spins who are merely creatively minimising tax.

‘But saying tax wealth sounds good on tv/social media hence the reason it’s a popular phrase right now. Anyone with any common sense (or a calculator) knows it’s just a popular sounding phrase.’

It sounds good because is is fair and makes sense! Taxing wealth is leaning into a pro wealth policy that governments have followed for years (QE, Covid subsidies, globalisation etc etc). The U.S is the extreme where their mean wealth looks great but, despite all their economic successes, on all meaningful metrics (life expectancy, infant mortality, median wealth etc) they lag even the poorer members of the EU.

Where I do agree is that wealth tax doesn’t work practically unless we impose it globally, which will never happen.

But a fair property tax (which affects the wealthy, not the already squeezed middle class) and CGT equalisation are a good start.

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 11:03

Youhadrambledonfor18pages · Yesterday 11:00

I’m not the super rich though! Read what I wrote properly.

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You are still going to be taxed into oblivion, they are coming for you, and anyone earning more than minimum wage. Luckily you don’t mind giving away your salary, so not an issue for you. Others may take another view.

JHound · Yesterday 11:03

I don’t particularly dread him. I doubt I will notice much change compared to Starmer or the previous Tories in terms of taxation levels and how much of my money they government helps itself to.

bafta16 · Yesterday 11:03

Joe7t8 · Yesterday 10:58

It's insane that people who own their homes outright and have a private pension income in the higher-rate tax band on its own are still eligible for a 12.5K benefit, isn't it?

Can I politely suggest life is a little more complex than that. Like many older women my pension is shall we say " fragmented" 2 children, zero support from family, partner shift worker. Bye bye career. Bye bye pension.
Still have a morgage, still working at 70.

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 11:03

bigboykitty · Yesterday 11:01

And finally. Do you see what it is yet?

More union propaganda being regurgitated.

SummerPeonies2026 · Yesterday 11:04

JHound · Yesterday 11:03

I don’t particularly dread him. I doubt I will notice much change compared to Starmer or the previous Tories in terms of taxation levels and how much of my money they government helps itself to.

If you are on benefits it won’t affect you, agreed

1dayatatime · Yesterday 11:05

Joe7t8 · Yesterday 10:58

It's insane that people who own their homes outright and have a private pension income in the higher-rate tax band on its own are still eligible for a 12.5K benefit, isn't it?

This is the problem with emotion based thinking - "they're already rich so why do they deserve a state pension ".

If you means test state pensions all you will do is discourage people from investing in their own private pensions and encourage them to spend the money now.

ThatSunnyCrow · Yesterday 11:05

Newbutoldfather · Yesterday 11:02

@ThatSunnyCrow

‘Equalising income tax and CGT is a terrible idea.’

You probably won’t be surprised to find that I disagree with that!

‘Two thirds of total tax take comes from income tax, national insurance, VAT and corporation tax. These are the big levers to pull if you want to increase government income.’

The big levers that the wealthy care not one jot about but put yet more pressure on the middle classes.

‘CGT is currently about 1% of tax take. Equalising with income tax raises this to about 2.5%. It won’t bring in meaningful money.’

I just checked and it is currently 1.6% (according to the IFS), so it would probably go up to closer to 3%. That’s more than we spend on our entire defence, so certainly a significant sum.

‘In the early 90s around 50% or shares in uk listed companies were owned by uk pension funds, Gordon Brown took away their pension tax credit and it’s about 2% today. And we wonder why uk growth is sluggish.’

I don’t know where to start here! It is a different issue anyway but the whole world has globalised a lot since the 90s. I doubt the pension credit was a major factor.

‘Incentivising people to invest and take risks benefits us all in the long run. If you massively increase CGT people will stop investing and hold onto assets rather than sell them.‘

Again, this doesn’t make a lot of sense. Real investors do tend to buy and hold fairly long term. Look at Warren Buffet. I am not sure we want to incentivise punting as opposed to investing.

I also think that the wealthy aren’t taking more risk, they are merely being tax efficient. Look at share buybacks, as opposed to paying dividends. It is exactly the same cash flow, but miraculously suddenly taxed at a much lower rate.

There are so many legal ways at transferring income into CGT without really increasing risk. It is pretty much the basis of private equity (large loan and lots of equity priced at a peppercorn amount).

We could still have ‘founder’ tax breaks and things like that for genuine entrepreneurs who start a business and then sell it, but not for the tax lawyers and spins who are merely creatively minimising tax.

‘But saying tax wealth sounds good on tv/social media hence the reason it’s a popular phrase right now. Anyone with any common sense (or a calculator) knows it’s just a popular sounding phrase.’

It sounds good because is is fair and makes sense! Taxing wealth is leaning into a pro wealth policy that governments have followed for years (QE, Covid subsidies, globalisation etc etc). The U.S is the extreme where their mean wealth looks great but, despite all their economic successes, on all meaningful metrics (life expectancy, infant mortality, median wealth etc) they lag even the poorer members of the EU.

Where I do agree is that wealth tax doesn’t work practically unless we impose it globally, which will never happen.

But a fair property tax (which affects the wealthy, not the already squeezed middle class) and CGT equalisation are a good start.

We don’t agree but thank you for a reasoned reply, rare on here!

OneWarmHazelQuail · Yesterday 11:05

chocoluv · Yesterday 10:54

You have an extremely privileged life and it’s offensive for you to imply otherwise.

You do realise that there are people who can’t afford food but don’t own 2 homes, who pay an insane amount in rent and do not have the security that an owned home provides.

They are also going through traumatic events but can’t just up and leave.

They also have DCs with much higher needs than yours but do not have the money or family money to send them to private school.

You are moaning about your sons needs and money but then you chose to have a second child?

You can absolutely ask for advice on here but you are one of the most privileged in this country and you need to recognise that.

Carry on fighting for the EHCP.

Aside from that, your biggest issue is owning 2 homes.

You can either - live in your first home and sell your second home, if the first home won’t sell.

Or if you’ve tried everything else, then you can raffle it off - people pay £10 a ticket and you set a minimum for it to go ahead.
You get the money to pay back the mortgage and someone gets a home for a tiny price.

My son was my first born. People spoke of terrible 2s etc, I didn't know anything was wrong until after I was pregnant. I had never heard of autistic regression.

Have I lived an otherwise privileged life? How on earth would you know that? Ridiculous assumptions. The purpose of my post is to really to say that the so-called rich aren't necessarily rich. I have parents working minimum wage jobs to try and help fund care for my son. I'm working full time, I'm doing everything I can.

I dont lead a luxury lifestyle. People hear 'second home' or 'private school' and miss the context. You are clearly one of them

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