Help end medical misogyny. Sign our petition.

Help end medical misogyny.
Sign our petition.

Sign the petition

Please or to access all these features

AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

In thinking the worst thing about this hot weather is smelly people?

65 replies

sweetkitty · Today 16:35

I’m on a train back from London after a few days break and the whole place seemed to smell of BO, I know it’s very hot and sticky but it’s vile.

sitting on this train there’s been several people sitting/standing beside us who have been so smelly they’ve made me feel literally sick. I don’t know how hard it is to wash once a day and stick deodorant on?
There was one man, well dressed stand beside me whilst I was sitting and I could smell what I thought was poo off him like a not wiping/festering in the heat situation. Then there’s the BO/stale fags/stale beer delight we had on the way down.

I know I’m tired and perimenopausal but subjecting other people to your smelly body is horrible IMO

OP posts:
Illbethereinaminute · Today 19:37

Glitchymn1 · Today 17:33

If you shower, put on clean clothes at the start of the day you shouldn’t smell surely?

I did yesterday. Showered Monday evening (didn't wash hair) Had another quick one Tuesday morning and washed my hair, put on a clean work uniform and my deodorant. Got home, changed into my semi clean pyjamas to do a few things before I had to put my clean dress, bra and knickers on to go out. By the time I got back I was a bit smelly, not outrageously so but I definitely smelt less than fresh so I had another quick wash.

The showers don't last long if I'm having 2 a day and not washing my hair (I do that every other day) but I'm washing the essentials with proper soap.

You wouldn't be able to smell me from a foot away but if I was crammed onto a train or something like a sardine then maybe.

VeneziaJ · Today 19:40

I have a colostomy and in hot weather it sometimes leaks so I would smell of poo through no fault of my own! Other people may also have medical issues despite constant washing and deodorants! Try not to be so judgmental

HumberSquid · Today 19:40

Glitchymn1 · Today 17:33

If you shower, put on clean clothes at the start of the day you shouldn’t smell surely?

I spent today chasing 5 cows that escaped from a field, then fixing the fencing that some scrote had cut, all in the bloody sun. I can assure you that, despite my morning shower, I reeked by 3pm. Luckily my work has a shower, and I scavenged a clean tshirt but I dont think that's standard.

Dweetfidilove · Today 19:41

It's dreadful, OP. And it's not sweat from the heat, but the ones testing their deodorant's 48hr staying power; or perfuming unwashed bodies.
Can't stand that stale smell.
If you're physically capable of washing yourself and have access to running water, there's no excuse for not showering daily.

SalaDaeng · Today 19:46

The tube in London is revolting. At the very least we should copy somewhere like Bangkok where the underground and the BRT have hard washable seating, are air conditioned and get hosed down and disinfected. It is rare to have to put up with smelly people in the city.
Fabric covered seats are a health hazard. Especially now we have an invasion of mutant bed bugs.

NameChangeScot · Today 19:49

RudolphTheReindeer · Today 19:13

No but I also generally drive. Even changing clothes and freshening up it's not the same as a proper shower and who's carrying around multiple sets of clothes to change every day? Change when you get to work, change before you leave work (if I train it rather than drive) it's not exactly practical. I can't just change my top and suddenly the smell goes away either I sweat all over (unfortunately!).

Edited

The op was talking about public transport though, your own car is a bit different if you're going straight home for a shower. But I do think most people should be taking a change of top and deodorant in this weather to freshen up. It won't be perfect but it's better that nothing.

I do think the issue is the great unwashed though, not generally clean people who've got a bit sweaty during the day. Its the stale, days old BO and dirty clothes that's the worst.

plomh · Today 19:50

I have no idea why anti-perspirants say 72 hours protection etc.

They don’t. Even when it’s mid winter

I can see some people just spraying themselves every 3 days because of this

CinnamonBuns67 · Today 19:55

Yanbu. Some people can't help being whiffy even if they do wash everyday and apply deodorant especially with it being hot but what you have described is vile. I once was on a hot bus with someone who smelt like bad BO and piss, I had to get off and walk because I'd have thrown up if gone any longer.

Electricsausages · Today 20:04

@CheesusBeesus try wiping surgical spirit on your armpits after shower and before deodorant it stops mine being pongy

dudsville · Today 20:11

I think the worst thing about the situation you describe is the absence of humane tolerance.

Nellodee · Today 20:20

It was definitely the worst thing about teaching in the heat.

MidnightMeltdown · Today 20:32

YABU it’s a hot day, some people will smell by the end of it, even if they washed this morning. If you don’t like it, don’t take public transport.

walkingmyway · Today 20:39

CheesusBeesus · Today 19:17

TBF since I hit mid forties I’ve really struggled with BO. I used to use perspirex which worked but it started giving me a really bad rash and I haven’t found anything else that’s worked.
I wear clean tops and bra daily, use deodorant and antiperspirant, carry deodorant wipes, shower twice a day and literally scrub my armpits with soap and a sponge but when I dry my pits the towel smells of that horrible beef and onion BO smell. It’s as though it’s ingrained in the skin somehow.
I assume it’s a hormone thing as I had similar shortly after having DC1 but I hate it and am really self conscious about it. I’ve stopped wearing vest tops and sleeveless dresses despite the heat as I feel the skin on skin makes it worse. I’m at a loss to know what to do.

This is good before antiperspirant - also good for acne, using as a hand sanitiser etc https://amzn.eu/d/01ixlpey

have you tried the sure max applied at night? This one

https://amzn.eu/d/0hejSdDx

Amazon

Amazon

https://amzn.eu/d/01ixlpey?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-am-i-being-unreasonable-5551982-in-thinking-the-worst-thing-about-this-hot-weather-is-smelly-people

ImPamDoove · Today 20:42

I think most people with stinky BO are not those who have showered in the morning, put on anti-perspirant and clean clothes.

beadystar · Today 21:05

There’s a difference between fresh sweat on someone who’s washed and put on clean clothes in the recent past and stale BO that’s gone rancid. I had to step away from a man on my train first thing this morning as he was just foul. God knows how his office coped with him. Unusually though, I’ve noticed younger girls being stinky too, and I do think the natural deodorant thing is to blame. I tried one a while ago and it just didn’t work.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread