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Pubs open til 5am, children encouraged to miss school by the England manager.

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canthavetoomanylights · 02/07/2026 21:35

Surely this is going too far. I wouldn’t agree with it if it was the final.

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MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 09:12

SamPM · 04/07/2026 04:33

The dictator of New York has ZERO say in when a child goes to bed. That is for the parent to decide.

Actual intelligent adults understand this. And can also understand a joke.

MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 09:19

mumumental · 04/07/2026 03:31

I don’t remember football ever being this important . It seems crazy to me.

You’re either so young that this is your first World Cup or you’ve been living under a rock. This is tame compared to previous tournaments. I’ve not seen nearly as many houses, cars or pubs decorated as previous years.

I was working in a pub during the Japan/South Korea tournament and pubs were opening at 5am to show games. Extended opening hours are nothing new, it’s just that the most recent tournaments haven’t required them due to the time difference being more favourable

Words · 04/07/2026 09:27

You are not remotely unreasonable. Making memories my foot. With any luck they will be out and this will all be over. After all, they haven’t won this thing in over half a century.

BobbySox71 · 04/07/2026 09:33

downloadtoad · 04/07/2026 08:07

Football*

Football is a different game in Ireland 😂

LuckyHazelFox · 04/07/2026 09:36

Words · 04/07/2026 09:27

You are not remotely unreasonable. Making memories my foot. With any luck they will be out and this will all be over. After all, they haven’t won this thing in over half a century.

I hope you're not in any coaching or teaching position with that negative attitude.

Boolabus · 04/07/2026 09:46

Something has struck me about all of this and it's that England, as far as I remember, qualify for nearly every world cup. I'm in Ireland we have been in three world cups, last one was 2002, so none in my childrens lifetime and this is similar for many other nations so when you finally do qualify, after often gruelling stressful qualifying matches and then play offs people make the absolute most of it. They've no guarantee they'll ever see their nation in another one. Look at Italy not qualified since 2014. So all those saying what's the big deal it's on every 4 years that's a massively privileged position to be in and it might not be it might be 8, 12, 16.....No one ever knows for sure so celebrate and enjoy it while you're there.

LuckyHazelFox · 04/07/2026 10:00

Boolabus · 04/07/2026 09:46

Something has struck me about all of this and it's that England, as far as I remember, qualify for nearly every world cup. I'm in Ireland we have been in three world cups, last one was 2002, so none in my childrens lifetime and this is similar for many other nations so when you finally do qualify, after often gruelling stressful qualifying matches and then play offs people make the absolute most of it. They've no guarantee they'll ever see their nation in another one. Look at Italy not qualified since 2014. So all those saying what's the big deal it's on every 4 years that's a massively privileged position to be in and it might not be it might be 8, 12, 16.....No one ever knows for sure so celebrate and enjoy it while you're there.

Its all about the mindset. Negative people will put a dampner on anything and everything.

MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 10:04

LuckyHazelFox · 04/07/2026 10:00

Its all about the mindset. Negative people will put a dampner on anything and everything.

True. They’re exhausting.

If something doesn’t interest you then ignore it and do something else! Don’t go out of your way to try and ruin it for others.

downloadtoad · 04/07/2026 10:35

Gloriia · 04/07/2026 08:10

We know. We also know altitude will be a problem which begs the question why fifa allow this unfair advantage surely there's thousands of stadiums to choose from. Why Mexico city?

We all know fifa is corrupt af.

topcat2014 · 04/07/2026 10:36

TimeFlysWhenYoureHavingRum · 02/07/2026 21:42

Bridget Phillipson has said its for parents to decide if their children watch the match and how to manage that but that they ARE expected to attend school the next day.
Seems reasonable.

She could have been tougher and said all children need to be in bed at their proper times - but she is scared of her football mad voter base.

ovals · 04/07/2026 10:41

Maybe put them to bed with no dinner too. Make sure they know that misery is the way forward.

LuckyHazelFox · 04/07/2026 10:46

topcat2014 · 04/07/2026 10:36

She could have been tougher and said all children need to be in bed at their proper times - but she is scared of her football mad voter base.

Feck me are all those kids at boarding school, you refer to? Give them the slipper or the cane if they don't do as they are told. Actually scrub that, sounds more like Fagin's hideout at bedtime.

MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 10:47

topcat2014 · 04/07/2026 10:36

She could have been tougher and said all children need to be in bed at their proper times - but she is scared of her football mad voter base.

Do you need her to tell you how to be a parent? Can you not make decisions for yourself?

Zpacncmcnsna · 04/07/2026 10:53

Should be the same as like with work. You watch the match..but you still need to come in to work the next day.

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:00

Whether or not staying up is good, the really bad part of the comment was "Write an excuse for school...". Way to go Thomas - teach parents and children to lie.

LuckyHazelFox · 04/07/2026 11:06

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:00

Whether or not staying up is good, the really bad part of the comment was "Write an excuse for school...". Way to go Thomas - teach parents and children to lie.

Talk about infantalising parents! I think they are the best judge of character for their children's needs. This is hilarious in believing every single school child watched that interview and will badgering their parents to stay up!

MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 11:07

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:00

Whether or not staying up is good, the really bad part of the comment was "Write an excuse for school...". Way to go Thomas - teach parents and children to lie.

Haha it was clearly a jokey light hearted comment.
It’s quite worrying how seriously people are taking it.

thisfilmisboring123 · 04/07/2026 11:07

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:00

Whether or not staying up is good, the really bad part of the comment was "Write an excuse for school...". Way to go Thomas - teach parents and children to lie.

😂😂
Are you for real? Teach parents to lie?

Surely the big grin on his face told you it was a very light-hearted comment.

I think his biggest mistake was assuming the English still have a bloody sense of humour!!

anon199900 · 04/07/2026 11:11

Luckily my boys are not that bothered - my eldest is staying up but he has finished for summer.
The school is playing it at 9am Monday for them all and we are to keep the result a secret - I think it’s such a lovely idea but I am sure they will find out the result before then 😂

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:11

LuckyHazelFox · 04/07/2026 11:06

Talk about infantalising parents! I think they are the best judge of character for their children's needs. This is hilarious in believing every single school child watched that interview and will badgering their parents to stay up!

Absolutely correct. Tuchel was infantilising parents, telling them what to do,

MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 11:13

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:11

Absolutely correct. Tuchel was infantilising parents, telling them what to do,

Are you for real? Do you always take parenting instructions from the England manager?

Most people can see it for the joke that it was.

MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 11:14

thisfilmisboring123 · 04/07/2026 11:07

😂😂
Are you for real? Teach parents to lie?

Surely the big grin on his face told you it was a very light-hearted comment.

I think his biggest mistake was assuming the English still have a bloody sense of humour!!

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I’m astounded at the fact people are taking this seriously.
We’re doomed.

LuckyHazelFox · 04/07/2026 11:15

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:11

Absolutely correct. Tuchel was infantilising parents, telling them what to do,

You took that seriously - really?

Smeuse · 04/07/2026 11:20

Isabella70 · 04/07/2026 11:11

Absolutely correct. Tuchel was infantilising parents, telling them what to do,

And whisper it, he is German Shock Grin bloody foreigners telling us English parents what to do

MickyMoonshine · 04/07/2026 11:24

Smeuse · 04/07/2026 11:20

And whisper it, he is German Shock Grin bloody foreigners telling us English parents what to do

lol. Perhaps some of us do still have a sense of humour.