Bums hanging out of the bottom of teeny tiny shorts

[Noodleschicken]

Don’t know if this really AIBU or a question!
AIBU to think that shorts have become way too short ?
I have seen a LOT of girls in shorts today - with their bum cheeks hanging out the bottom ! Personally I wouldn’t let my daughter out like that. And I wouldn’t were them myself (I would give everyone nightmares !).
so what’s the consensus on bums hanging out of shorts ?

That's not what she's saying, and you know it. They're frigging ugly.

To be fair, online porn wasn't around until the early 2000s. There's evidence Pornhub etc have tried to push stuff like stepdaughter which isn't want most men usually search for- at least initially...

But too many men have sadly always harassed underage girls. And I think some teen girls are away of that : after all, many women report getting the most hassle when young & in school uniform.

Feminism will never be 100% successful while the world is full of women judging other women, it’s fucking depressing

No, it's not that MN loves to judge other women's choices, it's that we all love to judge other people's choices, and MN is an anonymous forum where we can discuss it openly.

Most lesbians don't dress like this, revealing bums etc. It's almost wholly something girls who are trying to attract boys do : an extreme reaction to the fact boys are more visually triggered sexually, generally speaking. Same reason some gay men dress really skimpily.

I'm in my 60s as well, and no one showed their bum cheeks.

The point I am making is that people who are wearing this generally don't care - everyone here bitching about some of them not having the "right figure" for them and that they must be upset that "people on the internet are bitching about them" - really? Do people really think people will be so sad to learn that judgemental prudes they never met don't like the way they look? Pfft. Some of you clearly have had very strict rules on your own joy. It is so boring to see the same worn arguments about everything women do to make themselves cool, feel good, comfortable etc etc being only FOR MEN.

Still waiting for someone to explain why they have the right to police the clothing of strangers just because they don’t like it.

I was on a train recently and there were toddler twins in a buggy and they were covered in snot. It made me feel a bit queasy so I looked away. All sorted.✔️

They might not mind at all, may find it amusing.

DD bought a pair for holiday from Subdued that are super short at the front but slightly longer at the back so no cheek. They look great. She hates the cheek showing so chose them herself but they might be a good compromise for mums battling with their DDs over how short their shorts are! I think it’s these ones: https://www.subdued.com/uk_en/pc06grq

Those aren't anything like what we're talking about.

So the solution is for more people to dress like porn stars?

'large numbers of the public have no self-awareness or individual thought process' . Yes, I think that's generally true.

They’re fine!

My sister wore very short shorts in the 1980s with her bum cheeks on show. My figure was much better but I hated the trend then and I still do. You can wear what you want. I can and will still judge you for your awful taste.

Perhaps it offends public decency

Then it’s a criminal matter

The irony of that comment on a thread full of people clutching their pearls and being of the same opinion about something.

If it offends public decency then report it. But what you mean is that it offends the people of MN. Individual right to expression isn’t something that’s popular on here 🤣

I did too. Really short. But they were not like the shorts they’re wearing now.
yjese are cut to show the buttocks.

No, really?!

Spat my brew out at this brilliant comment!

You didn’t though, did you

Don’t think right of expression means flaunting your backside in public!