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To be cheesed off with Universal Credit entry fees?

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MaturingCheeseball · 28/06/2026 11:43

I know it’s been done before, but…

I thought I’d like to visit Chatsworth House with (teenage) dd. The cost is £33 each PLUS parking at £7.50. So £73.50.

Then I saw the universal credit/pension credit/pip etc price. THREE POUNDS. And free parking! So £6.00 for two adults (age 17+).

I do not have 12 times as much money as someone on these benefits. I doubt many people do. I’m not begrudging the disadvantaged a day out, but come on! The price differential is ludicrous.

When I saw the £73 price I just decided we couldn’t go, and so be it. But upon seeing the potential for a £6 entry, it made me feel mugged off.

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QuadrupleH · 28/06/2026 12:20

MaturingCheeseball · 28/06/2026 12:03

Don’t be so rude.

I am talking about the price differential . The chasm, really.

But why does your first response be that they should pay more? Not that regular families are being priced out of a nice/educational day out?

It's great that the children of people on benefits have barriers removed to visit sites of historic learning.

Doseofreality · 28/06/2026 12:20

IllBurnThatBridgeWhenIGetToIt · 28/06/2026 11:45

The jealousy of UC claimants (and council house tenants) on this site is getting out of hand.

It’s not jealousy at all, just people fed up of a two tier system where some are taxed to shit and get fuck all in return.

CaptainMyCaptain · 28/06/2026 12:20

GetAbsOrDieTrying · 28/06/2026 12:16

I am with you OP, as a high rate tax payer I think everyone deserves to get to see these things and not only those on benefits.

My kids attend a state school and the kids who could not afford to go on the school trip and had to sit it out were those whose parents both work and get zero benefits.

All the kids whose parents are on benefit could go as it was a free trip for their kids. I think we should treat all children the same. If both parents are working it sets such a good example and then to penalise the kids is just mean.

That wouldn't have happened at the school where I worked. The cost would have been covered somehow. Maybe those parents just didn't give permission.

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 28/06/2026 12:20

Stressedandgrey · 28/06/2026 12:06

Yes that's on the list of qualifying benefits, along with PIP/DLA

a pensioner who has paid in and now gets just a state pension doesn't get the freebees?

SerenaCat93 · 28/06/2026 12:20

madroid · 28/06/2026 12:14

Comparison is the thief of joy.

I hope you had a nice day out despite the cost, but please don't begrudge others who may be having the hardest time of their lives.

My neighbours did a day trip using this because the dad has cancer and has had to give up his job while having treatment.

You just don't know what other people are going through so try to be kind.

Can't you read? She didn't go. She can't afford it.

The full price ticket is too expensive for her despite working full time so she doesn't get to go. People who earn nothing or far less than her get to go because they get 3 quid tickets whilst hard workers can't afford to go. It's not right. Understand now?

crackofdoom · 28/06/2026 12:21

Yeah, my mate got the whole of our party into a Great Garden at the discount rate because she's on UC a few weeks ago.

She's on UC because she has terminal cancer and this was her last big holiday with all of us before she's too ill to go anywhere.

Bet you're well jealous of the scrounging cow, aren't you 🙄

Jamesblonde2 · 28/06/2026 12:21

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 28/06/2026 11:53

And because they don't work or only work 12 hours a week, they can go when they like.

Quite. Hadn’t thought of that.

Shatteredallthetimelately · 28/06/2026 12:22

ainsleysanob · 28/06/2026 12:09

You want her to be glad that because she is unable to claim UC, her family are priced out of activities? Why would that make anyone ‘glad’? You want her to be happy that her children miss out, whilst her tax contributions mean the children of those who don’t contribute as much, don’t? You must be easily pleased.

100% agree...

A lot of these replies don't take into consideration that if you don't claim any type of benifit children like the OPer also miss out on days out in these circumstances, but seems thats ok.

thepariscrimefiles · 28/06/2026 12:22

So you could afford the cost of having a lovely day out at Chatsworth House but because people on benefits are getting it much cheaper, you decided not to go?

That sounds like cutting off your nose to spite your face.

redskyAtNigh · 28/06/2026 12:22

I think the issue is the imbalance. The average working family (whatever such a beast is) might typically go to 2 or 3 of these higher priced attractions in a year because they can't afford them otherwise.

No one (I hope) begrudges UC recipients being able to go to attractions. But I guess it feels unfair if the lower price means they can go to a dozen a year. Maybe we need a voucher scheme or something so that attractions are cheaper for UC recipients but they can only go to 2 or 3 a year to bring them in line with the "average" family?

Jamesblonde2 · 28/06/2026 12:22

TigerRag · 28/06/2026 11:54

This again? But thanks for letting people know about this

They all know already.
Imagine the chaos when they all turn up.

PeriPeriMayo · 28/06/2026 12:23

BillieWiper · 28/06/2026 12:11

Just imagine being jealous of people who have the least money and possibly disabilities? That's the worst type of human emotion. Everyone feels the need to find someone to step on. But they deny the reality of these people's lives and reframe it as a picnic. Like people who minimise atrocities against the vulnerable.

It's not being jealous. The point is, there are huge amounts of middle class families that have to scrimp and save for these days out, or can't actually afford them. Why is a family on UC more deserving than them? And why should the middle class family subsidise the tickets of the family on UC when they struggle to afford days out themselves??

SerenaCat93 · 28/06/2026 12:23

crackofdoom · 28/06/2026 12:21

Yeah, my mate got the whole of our party into a Great Garden at the discount rate because she's on UC a few weeks ago.

She's on UC because she has terminal cancer and this was her last big holiday with all of us before she's too ill to go anywhere.

Bet you're well jealous of the scrounging cow, aren't you 🙄

Of course no one is jealous of her. The rest of you should have paid full price.

MissCooCooMcgoo · 28/06/2026 12:23

Ooh, thanks op! Didn't realise chatsworth was in the scheme. I'll be booking for next weekend❤️

InNeedOfAbleph · 28/06/2026 12:24

Maybe start looking up rather than down for the source of the problem to taxpayers ? The royal family charge rent for ambulances to be stored and charge the MoD to use certain areas of shoreline don’t tell me some of those costs aren’t put back onto the taxpayers.

But let’s just concentrate on some cheap tickets for days out…

slashlover · 28/06/2026 12:24

MyLimeGuide · 28/06/2026 12:02

But not everyone is a freeloader

Including the people on UC.

littlemousebigcheese · 28/06/2026 12:24

It’s so hard with these schemes though as where do you draw the line? The list to qualify for a reduction is quite long - pip, DLA, pension, uc etc so quite a chunk of people could end up going for the discounted price but how else can they support individuals? Not everyone claiming benefits is struggling, not everyone working is living the life of Riley and can afford a £70+ day out but there has to be a cut off point! Unfortunately everyone just wants the line to be whatever is just above them.

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 28/06/2026 12:25

The system needs OP to be at work earning and paying taxes, not swanning around at Chatsworth house.

Alwayswonderedwhy · 28/06/2026 12:25

I do understand your frustration. I work with a couple of women who get UC, the kids get free school meals, free school holiday clubs etc. One of them goes abroad twice a year & has paid her mortgage off.
We have been abroad a handful of times in the last 20 years & at times been really skint. Things are getting easier now the kids are older & the mortgage payments have reduced slightly.
It's not about bashing people on benefits, people are only claiming what they're entitled to but middle earners do seem to draw the short straw.

Jamesblonde2 · 28/06/2026 12:26

Sux2buthen · 28/06/2026 12:02

I have two jobs (full time hours) and still need a top up. I do the ‘right thing’ and I’m ‘penalised’ for it by not being able to survive alone on full time wages.
This thread is gross

So why should you get discounted entry when someone on a slightly higher income than you pays full whack? And it is a big whack difference.

BringBackCatsEyes · 28/06/2026 12:26

GoneWithTHeWindJammers · 28/06/2026 11:53

And because they don't work or only work 12 hours a week, they can go when they like.

Who's "they"? All the people claiming UC? Could you look down your nose any more?

IllBurnThatBridgeWhenIGetToIt · 28/06/2026 12:26

Doseofreality · 28/06/2026 12:20

It’s not jealousy at all, just people fed up of a two tier system where some are taxed to shit and get fuck all in return.

It's is 100% jealousy.

Mt563 · 28/06/2026 12:26

Coffeebeansforever · 28/06/2026 12:08

It is a disincentive to work - for me at least. I've been unemployed for 8 months following some health issues. Partner works full time in a low wage job and we have 1 primary age DC. He brings home about 2200 a month and we get nearly £800 UC because we privately rent. From September DC will also get free school dinners, which will save me over £60 a month during term time.

If I go back to work - which is my aim after the 6 week holiday if I can find a job - I then have to contend with finding childcare (which is very limited in my area) and worrying I won't be well enough to keep the job.

The fact is, there's very little benefit to both of us working

Would you rather be forced back into work when you're not well enough, potentially making everything worse?

OneShyQuail · 28/06/2026 12:26

MaturingCheeseball · 28/06/2026 12:01

But the only way I could go to Chatsworth is through this scheme! That’s my point - why do people assume that working = Elon Musk, not working = oh, poor needy person. Nowt in between.

Would you begrudge me a visit to such a place, when I was working as a teacher, with 2 young children and my marriage ended very suddenly much like the horror stories you read on here?!

The issue is there is no distinction for people - if youve never had to rely on a benefit when your world came crashing down around you, you really have no place to criticise.

Not everyone on UC is lazy, taking the piss, workshy or commiting fraud. Its a minority making it bad for others.

Lots of people are only one family emergency or marriage breakdown away from needing support.

CaptainMyCaptain · 28/06/2026 12:26

Jamesblonde2 · 28/06/2026 12:22

They all know already.
Imagine the chaos when they all turn up.

I've seen the forms through volunteering at a Foodbank. Applying for the tickets is quite complicated I doubt there'll be a rush. We do have leaflets about applying for free tickets to English Heritage properties though. They are quite straightforward and there is no means test, they can be given to anyone.

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