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To be cheesed off with Universal Credit entry fees?

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MaturingCheeseball · 28/06/2026 11:43

I know it’s been done before, but…

I thought I’d like to visit Chatsworth House with (teenage) dd. The cost is £33 each PLUS parking at £7.50. So £73.50.

Then I saw the universal credit/pension credit/pip etc price. THREE POUNDS. And free parking! So £6.00 for two adults (age 17+).

I do not have 12 times as much money as someone on these benefits. I doubt many people do. I’m not begrudging the disadvantaged a day out, but come on! The price differential is ludicrous.

When I saw the £73 price I just decided we couldn’t go, and so be it. But upon seeing the potential for a £6 entry, it made me feel mugged off.

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BIossomtoes · 28/06/2026 22:03

Snoopymayhem · 28/06/2026 21:29

Thanks
I just checked
In case it was worth the trip up
but we live in Kent so probably not

but for those going on holiday or living nearby it’s approx £20/£30 saving 👍

You don’t have to live in Scotland.

fashionqueen0123 · 28/06/2026 22:03

MyArtfulGreySloth · 28/06/2026 18:34

They can’t just claim it and do nothing, they would have to show they are actively looking for work for 30 hours a week at least, attending interviews and courses plus sessions with their job coach at the job centre.

According to some people that’s not the case. It seems if one of them is earning enough they don’t need to. Which makes no sense to me.

emuloc · 28/06/2026 22:04

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 28/06/2026 19:32

There people who game rhe system and genuine claimants. I wish the government could differentiate between the two.

🥱

ThreadGuardDog · 28/06/2026 22:04

Sleepysleepycoffeecoffee · 28/06/2026 21:51

Yes I know exactly how long the form is and what sort of evidence is required. It really doesn’t have to be that detailed and can easily be forged. The threshold is not black and white and so again, it depends who is seeing it and making the decision. There are forums on Facebook where mums are giving each other tips on what to write to get DLA for their child. I think the people shocked by what I’m saying really think too highly of the DWP and the whole SEN system. It does not work the way it should. Too many actual disabled children, and yes I include autistic children, are not getting the support they need while far too many non-disabled children are being given a label in one hand and benefits entitlement in the other

Do you realise that in many cases the information given out on these FB forums is actually based on the DWP’s own information for claimants. And that these forums in the main are not doing anything wrong. They’re not encouraging cheating, they are simply advising on the best way to make a successful claim because the application process is so difficult.

Child DLA is one of the hardest benefits to claim. All children have support and care needs. For child DLA you have to demonstrate that your child has needs over and above that of a child of comparable age without the disability.

Pickledonion1999 · 28/06/2026 22:05

HRTQueen · 28/06/2026 22:01

We all know what the loophole is and that is anxiety

its shocking that many people are not getting the benefits that they absolutely should be entitled to, hasn’t helped that assessments are no longer or rarely in person

but the amount of people who are for anxiety is ridiculous, that’s not to say sown do not need it but many are absolutely ripping the system off

I think they are making a move back to face to face assessments thank goodness.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 28/06/2026 22:06

fashionqueen0123 · 28/06/2026 22:02

What is AET? I don’t think you should need to work 30, but how can someone claim and not work at all?! Surely instead of paying UC the second parent should be working? (I don’t mean if you’re a carer- they should receive far more!)

It is the amount needing to be earned in order that work commitments interviews and nagging from the job centre are turned off.

HRTQueen · 28/06/2026 22:06

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why take that assumption

if I was earning just a little more or my rent was less I would not qualify for UC but I couldn’t afford to spend the costs quoted on a day out many people are in that situation

maybe the op is just in a slightly better position than I am and woudl welcome higher wages so less people are on UC

it is an absolutely ridiculous system that consecutive governments for the last 30 years have kept in place

XenoBitch · 28/06/2026 22:06

fashionqueen0123 · 28/06/2026 22:03

According to some people that’s not the case. It seems if one of them is earning enough they don’t need to. Which makes no sense to me.

For the NI stamps.

ThreadGuardDog · 28/06/2026 22:06

fashionqueen0123 · 28/06/2026 22:03

According to some people that’s not the case. It seems if one of them is earning enough they don’t need to. Which makes no sense to me.

There are no set hours for UC. It depends on what you are earning as well as hours worked.

Sux2buthen · 28/06/2026 22:08

Cel77 · 28/06/2026 21:49

We both work: full time for him, part time for me because it helps with childcare and the general run of things.
We have not had a single day out this year apart from St Paul's cathedral as I am an unpaid carer for my autistic son and we got cheaper tickets ( I think it was£37 instead of around £60 like that). That's it. I'd love to go to the zoo but even with a carer's ticket, it's too much for us. How is that fair? We absolutely do not qualify for UC but live in our overdrafts.

But that’s not the fault of people that are entitled to a reduced rate, my children included. People here can compare how tough they have it until the cows come home but it’s not going to help anyone.
im walking round with holes in my underwear because I can’t afford to replace them; I have to prioritise other things and put myself last. Two of my children are also autistic and one in particular is struggling with heartbreaking meltdowns so if they I get a chance to do something nice for them I absolutely will. And that should not offend anyone.
Im also doing it entirely alone so it’s not easy.
i send lots of good wishes to you and your family, life’s hard for a lot of people.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 28/06/2026 22:08

Sleepysleepycoffeecoffee · 28/06/2026 21:51

Yes I know exactly how long the form is and what sort of evidence is required. It really doesn’t have to be that detailed and can easily be forged. The threshold is not black and white and so again, it depends who is seeing it and making the decision. There are forums on Facebook where mums are giving each other tips on what to write to get DLA for their child. I think the people shocked by what I’m saying really think too highly of the DWP and the whole SEN system. It does not work the way it should. Too many actual disabled children, and yes I include autistic children, are not getting the support they need while far too many non-disabled children are being given a label in one hand and benefits entitlement in the other

How do you know those children getting it are non disabled? They might be.

scoopofmintchocchipicecream · 28/06/2026 22:11

HRTQueen · 28/06/2026 22:01

We all know what the loophole is and that is anxiety

its shocking that many people are not getting the benefits that they absolutely should be entitled to, hasn’t helped that assessments are no longer or rarely in person

but the amount of people who are for anxiety is ridiculous, that’s not to say sown do not need it but many are absolutely ripping the system off

DLA is based on needs, not diagnosis. Same for PIP.

Child DLA assessments aren’t in person assessments. I’m not sure what you mean by ‘no longer’ because they haven’t changed.

AgileBee · 28/06/2026 22:11

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menopausequeen · 28/06/2026 22:12

What’s wrong with the UK? What about helping people who actually support themselves for a change?

GiaGia16 · 28/06/2026 22:13

menopausequeen · 28/06/2026 22:12

What’s wrong with the UK? What about helping people who actually support themselves for a change?

Never going to happen.

scoopofmintchocchipicecream · 28/06/2026 22:13

Pickledonion1999 · 28/06/2026 22:05

I think they are making a move back to face to face assessments thank goodness.

The benefit being discussed in that chain of posts is DLA. That isn’t moving to F2F assessments.

OonaStubbs · 28/06/2026 22:17

menopausequeen · 28/06/2026 22:12

What’s wrong with the UK? What about helping people who actually support themselves for a change?

There's nothing wrong with it but it doesn't win you votes, unfortunately.

ChefsKisser · 28/06/2026 22:17

PeriPeriMayo · 28/06/2026 12:23

It's not being jealous. The point is, there are huge amounts of middle class families that have to scrimp and save for these days out, or can't actually afford them. Why is a family on UC more deserving than them? And why should the middle class family subsidise the tickets of the family on UC when they struggle to afford days out themselves??

Well put.

vote with your feet OP. We are emigrating to somewhere our money goes a lot further and isn’t propping up everyone else to our detriment.

Pigeonatthewheel · 28/06/2026 22:17

Probably already said somewhere in the first 900 posts, but surely the pension discount rather than the universal credit discount is the one to be more annoyed by.

BIossomtoes · 28/06/2026 22:18

Pigeonatthewheel · 28/06/2026 22:17

Probably already said somewhere in the first 900 posts, but surely the pension discount rather than the universal credit discount is the one to be more annoyed by.

There isn’t a pension discount. There’s one for people claiming pension credit.

80smonster · 28/06/2026 22:19

Snoopymayhem · 28/06/2026 21:09

Wouldnt it be amazing also if @giggidygiggidygiggidy also had the time
energy
and money aswel to be able to treat her kids to these sort of places too

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Yes it would, but I’d rather have a child that can aspire to work and contribute meaningfully, than one constantly on the scrounge for handouts.

Snoopymayhem · 28/06/2026 22:19

OonaStubbs · 28/06/2026 22:17

There's nothing wrong with it but it doesn't win you votes, unfortunately.

I think the table might be turning

Squiillionaire · 28/06/2026 22:20

I haven't read the full thread . I probably should have. The problem isn't offering a discount to people on benefits. The problem is the outrageous prices charged for everyone else. If the entry price was fairly low and someone in receipt of benefits got a couple of pounds off no one would complain.

Where I live entry prices to most places are low, discounts are offered to large families, pensioners (sometimes) , students and under 18s. No one complains as the entry prices are low to being with.

Pickledonion1999 · 28/06/2026 22:21

scoopofmintchocchipicecream · 28/06/2026 22:13

The benefit being discussed in that chain of posts is DLA. That isn’t moving to F2F assessments.

No. The post I was responding to was talking about people claiming it for anxiety, the post did not mention DLA and I imagine most DLA claims are not for anxiety.

Thedevilhasfinallycaughtupwithhim · 28/06/2026 22:21

It’s perfectly possible for people to be on benefits and to have very little spare money and feel completely defeated. I can see why these people would be very grateful to have access to schemes that enable them to take their children to the zoo or for them to have a day in a stately home for next to nothing.

I also think it’s perfectly possible for people who work all week, only to have no spare money after paying all their outgoings, to feel completely defeated. I also think it’s reasonable for them to be annoyed that they cannot afford to take their children to the zoo or to visit a stately home on the weekend after working all week; and that this makes working seem pointless.

These aren’t mutually
exclusive points. Acknowledging one shouldn’t dismiss the other.

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