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To be cheesed off with Universal Credit entry fees?

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MaturingCheeseball · 28/06/2026 11:43

I know it’s been done before, but…

I thought I’d like to visit Chatsworth House with (teenage) dd. The cost is £33 each PLUS parking at £7.50. So £73.50.

Then I saw the universal credit/pension credit/pip etc price. THREE POUNDS. And free parking! So £6.00 for two adults (age 17+).

I do not have 12 times as much money as someone on these benefits. I doubt many people do. I’m not begrudging the disadvantaged a day out, but come on! The price differential is ludicrous.

When I saw the £73 price I just decided we couldn’t go, and so be it. But upon seeing the potential for a £6 entry, it made me feel mugged off.

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OneCoralHare · 28/06/2026 17:59

Just to say re art fund-You have to have an Art fund card to get the discount- it gets checked as there are a lot of dodgy codes out there.

Everlore · 28/06/2026 17:59

To add insult to injury, our seventeen-month-old also typically gets into events and attractions for free, despite never having worked a day in her life. Babies are such freeloaders aren't they?

dizzydizzydizzy · 28/06/2026 18:02

Katypp · 28/06/2026 17:58

As the average UC payment across the board is just over £1k a month, the likelihood is most people will not have an income 12x that

You’re missing the point. I was talking about disposable income, so what is left over after bills etc.

FWC2026 · 28/06/2026 18:02

Fififlamingo · 28/06/2026 13:37

I know someone who doesn’t work and is on benefits etc - just been given a brand new ‘mobility’ electric car - retailing £47,000. Quite mobile in so far as they can easily walk their dog! Unbelievable in my opinion. What a drain on society.

You don't get 'given' the car 🙇🏻‍♀️

you don't own the car
you don't get back your hefty initial contribution to it

I'm nursing my old car along because getting one on the mobility scheme is expensive & requires a lump sum, which I'll lose when it has to be replaced in 3 years (I think it is)

NoNotWilma · 28/06/2026 18:04

MaturingCheeseball · 28/06/2026 11:56

But it’s got to a point where it’s “working bashing”. As I said, I do not have 12 x more money at my disposal than a person on even the minimum benefits.

The lower admission is offered by the trust in charge of Chatsworth, not subsidised by the government, though? They almost certainly offer it partly because increasing accessibility helps them with their charitable (and therefore very likely tax-efficient) status. Complain to them, maybe?

This post could so easily have been "Chatsworth's way overpriced - can't believe they've got the cheek to charge that much". I sympathise. We can't afford stuff like this at the moment either. But instead you chose to complain about people with zero control over the system for - God forbid - wanting a nice day out. And then the usual suspects joined in to say they think cheap tickets to a fancy house make people lazy and feckless.

Dear God, I just looked up the net worth of the Duke of Devonshire. You're being very unreasonable!

Shatteredallthetimelately · 28/06/2026 18:05

Zeroperspective · 28/06/2026 17:50

I'm on UC and PIP and I fully understand that you are not saying I shouldn't get the discounted rate but that the difference in what i pay and what you pay is extreme and i agree. I'm not sure why PP have taken it as a benefits/disabled/class difference/insert other negative connotation here...bashing thread

It's very, very rare on MN to be able to start a thread such as this one, have a grown up adult discussion about the actual subject and it not be turned into a benefits bashing thread.
Notably by those that claim benifits.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 28/06/2026 18:05

fashionqueen0123 · 28/06/2026 17:43

Why is a SAHM allowed to claim if their child is school age?!

As long as he earns over the AET she is allowed. Oh and no you don't need to work 30 hours when your child is three especially in a couple. I can work just one shift a week and I don't get in trouble although I am now down as carer for my four year old.

Katypp · 28/06/2026 18:05

dizzydizzydizzy · 28/06/2026 18:02

You’re missing the point. I was talking about disposable income, so what is left over after bills etc.

A family with two or three children on UC is likely to have the same - if not more - disposable income as a family with two NMW workers.
Assuming all UC claimants are struggling financially is wrong, and that's why blanket discount schemes which include high-level UC claimants but exclude low-paid families is unfair and breeds resentment.

tinygingermum · 28/06/2026 18:07

THisbackwithavengeance · 28/06/2026 11:58

lol at all the defensive replies on here. I agree with the OP. In this country you are penalised at every turn for trying to do the right thing and contribute to society. And lazy bastards get away with it. And no, I don’t want to give up work and claim UC instead because I’ve got self respect.

I have a friend who works full time but she is still entitled to uc. I will let her know you think she’s a lazy bastard with no self respect.

80smonster · 28/06/2026 18:09

UC wants canning, too many are gaming the system, I think it’s immoral.

themoirarosee · 28/06/2026 18:09

Katypp · 28/06/2026 18:05

A family with two or three children on UC is likely to have the same - if not more - disposable income as a family with two NMW workers.
Assuming all UC claimants are struggling financially is wrong, and that's why blanket discount schemes which include high-level UC claimants but exclude low-paid families is unfair and breeds resentment.

Hello! I have three kids, I work and receive top up from UC. After I’ve paid all the bills, we have £122 left a month.

I’m not sure where you’re getting this hate brained idea we’re all rolling in it. But I can tell
you were absolutely not.

declutteredliving · 28/06/2026 18:10

tinygingermum · 28/06/2026 18:07

I have a friend who works full time but she is still entitled to uc. I will let her know you think she’s a lazy bastard with no self respect.

No that’s not quite right. But if you do know any unemployed with no reason not to be working (kids at school age without disabilities isn’t a reason to be sitting at home) then you could tell them.

80smonster · 28/06/2026 18:10

tinygingermum · 28/06/2026 18:07

I have a friend who works full time but she is still entitled to uc. I will let her know you think she’s a lazy bastard with no self respect.

Serious question: why doesn’t your friend find a job that adequately supports her life/children?

DontBuyAnotherBook · 28/06/2026 18:11

declutteredliving · 28/06/2026 18:10

No that’s not quite right. But if you do know any unemployed with no reason not to be working (kids at school age without disabilities isn’t a reason to be sitting at home) then you could tell them.

Technically in a couple as long as one is earning a certain amount the other is left alone and can stay home if they want.

Otterloverfrenchielady · 28/06/2026 18:13

Katypp · 28/06/2026 18:05

A family with two or three children on UC is likely to have the same - if not more - disposable income as a family with two NMW workers.
Assuming all UC claimants are struggling financially is wrong, and that's why blanket discount schemes which include high-level UC claimants but exclude low-paid families is unfair and breeds resentment.

what exactly are you basing this on? Do you know and understand the UC taper rate? Meaning that like for like someone with 2 or 3 kids on nmw would be our earning the same family on UC, thus having more money….

TheFairyCaravan · 28/06/2026 18:13

Crosorbled · 28/06/2026 16:27

Having recently discovered that places take part in this outrageous scheme , I am now boycotting them . I absolutely resent subsidising others day trips .
When my child was younger with both my husband & I working full time , I had to forfeit these places and take him swimming or to the park . This is what my hard earned wages are going to pay , days out for families of most benefit claimants who do not want to work.

This attitude really pisses me off. I worked until I physically couldn’t drag myself in anymore. I’d love to work but my disabilities make me unreliable so I can’t. DH works, and has done since he was 16, including serving this country for 35 years. When the going got tough we didn’t give up we cracked on. I stayed at home for months on end, with 2 kids, not knowing if he was coming home, some days not able to drag myself out of bed. My kids leaned to cook full meals before they left primary school because they had no choice.

My sister had to go on UC for a time because her, late, DH had the audacity to get to early onset dementia. They both worked, but he was the main bread winner, so when he had to give up work they needed help. She eventually had to give up work to care for him, then he died leaving her a widow in her early fifties with a child just about to go to university.

Anyone’s circumstances can change in a heartbeat and it’s incredibly arrogant to think yours won’t. Soldiers, teachers, nurses and a whole lot more are on UC. The vast majority of people on benefits aren’t sitting at home taking the piss, that would be those at the top. But keep punching down because it’s much easier.

Sirzy · 28/06/2026 18:14

80smonster · 28/06/2026 18:10

Serious question: why doesn’t your friend find a job that adequately supports her life/children?

Or you could ask why wages are so low for the lowest paid workers they require top ups to make it to a liveable wage?

GillyGillys · 28/06/2026 18:15

There are FREE public stuff to go to

GillyGillys · 28/06/2026 18:15

Sirzy · 28/06/2026 18:14

Or you could ask why wages are so low for the lowest paid workers they require top ups to make it to a liveable wage?

Skill, supply and demand.

declutteredliving · 28/06/2026 18:16

DontBuyAnotherBook · 28/06/2026 18:11

Technically in a couple as long as one is earning a certain amount the other is left alone and can stay home if they want.

Then they shouldn’t be claiming. The second adult should be going to work to bring in money to fund their families lives. Tax-payers should not have to fund this

As long as both are physically and mentally able to work ofcourse. Looking after kids is not a reason not to work.

Tableforjoan · 28/06/2026 18:16

80smonster · 28/06/2026 18:10

Serious question: why doesn’t your friend find a job that adequately supports her life/children?

If good jobs were that easy to walk into we wouldn’t have a youth employment issue.

FWC2026 · 28/06/2026 18:16

IDrinkTeaAllTheTime · 28/06/2026 13:38

Sorry you’re getting a hard time here, OP. I didn’t see your post as benefit bashing or jealousy at all.

If anyone actually read your post they’d realise that you’re frustrated with the massive price difference. I also work full time on a decent salary that is luckily above the threshold to not need benefit top ups. I live in a pretty low cost living part of the UK, and I would struggle to justify over £70 for a basic day out.

Of course these initiatives are good things, especially for children, but there needs to be a better balance when it comes to the price of things.

As you say, working full time without needing benefits doesn’t mean you have 12 times more disposable income for things like this.

I really don’t know what the solution is, but I agree with you completely that it’s not fair.

It's not 'faiiir'.

Seriously, you need to adult here.

The participants in this scheme are in it for the money (mostly) they sell the vast majority of tickets at a standard orrcs. In ADDITIKN to thus they sell around 2% of their tickets at a hugely reduced price to bring in people who wouldn't otherwise go. Thereby getting ticket sales they wouldn't otherwise get (plus income from food/drinks/gifts etc).

it's adding to their profits, it's not taking away from other people. It wouldn't bring them additional profit to increase these discounted tickets & decrease the discounts.

it's simple economics, it's about profit, nothing to do with being nice or fair.

DontBuyAnotherBook · 28/06/2026 18:19

declutteredliving · 28/06/2026 18:16

Then they shouldn’t be claiming. The second adult should be going to work to bring in money to fund their families lives. Tax-payers should not have to fund this

As long as both are physically and mentally able to work ofcourse. Looking after kids is not a reason not to work.

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It is when your child is SEN. Plus it won't save tax payers money if you force parents to work as UC will be paying the childcare fees. May as well let them be at home.

BIossomtoes · 28/06/2026 18:21

80smonster · 28/06/2026 18:10

Serious question: why doesn’t your friend find a job that adequately supports her life/children?

Probably because she can’t.

GillyGillys · 28/06/2026 18:21

Like I understand kids and being a single parent....... But like surely most people should be self sufficient barring major health issues

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