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Is it acceptable to travel in shorts and sandals?

234 replies

sevenwonde · Yesterday 10:47

Help! The friend group is split on this one and it is largely tongue in cheek

We’re off on a girls holiday soon. Half the group thinks it’s fine to travel in shorts and sandals (Birkenstocks), the other half thinks you need to look put together in the airport and dress in a nice outfit (linen, silk trousers etc), in case of an upgrade. They think the nicer you’re dressed the less likely you are to be asked to check your bag at the gate etc.

So, is it acceptable?! They’re not tiny shorts that show my bum cheeks!

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RampantIvy · Yesterday 12:21

Miranda65 · Yesterday 12:10

I would wear sandals on a beach, but not in a city....ever. Nothing to do with dogs, but just because they don't feel like city wear.

Why on earth not?
Last year I visited Liverpool when it was 34 degrees. There is no way I would want to be sweating in trainers or other enclosed shoes at those kind of temperatures. It was flat sandals all the way.

Isometimeswonder · Yesterday 12:22

I wear trousers because planes get cold. And seats are plastic and I don't want skin to stick!

notimagain · Yesterday 12:23

GCAcademic · Yesterday 12:13

Then why do they make cabin crew dress the way they do?

Customer facing staff.... marketing/brand image trumps pretty much everything else...(and of course these days there's often a trousers option for cabin crew anyway).

For info on the odd occasion our crew used to (might still do) get the slide experience during initial training or recurrent training they put overalls on over their uniforms to protect the uniform and to help avoid slide burns.

thesealion · Yesterday 12:23

Your friends would hate me, I always travel in a cotton tracksuit!

CeeceeBloomingdale · Yesterday 12:26

BlindSpotForCats · Yesterday 12:00

I once had a debate with my husband about being upgrading. He and I both have dietary requirements that we declare beforehand. I said ruefully when about to go long-haul 'We have lost our chance to be upgraded then' and he said he felt sure that having a special meal did not eman we would not be upgraded, but that our ordered meal might be delivered to us in Business. I feel sure that's just way too much faff for the airline tbh!

In any case, when we travel we wear comfortable clothes- jersey harem pants and long sleeved tshirts for me. But that's mainly because we go to Australia or New Zealand and it has to get us through.

You're right, they wouldn't usually choose someone with a special meal. It's rare they choose anyone though, they will go with empty premium seats instead. Upgrades are only if it benefits the airline such as an over sales issue or similar.

Snufkin88 · Yesterday 12:30

No matter what I wear in an airport I always end up feeling gross by the time I reach my destination for some reason

TransportNerd · Yesterday 12:30

GreekMountain · Yesterday 12:15

This is like something people used to do 30 years ago 😂 It was nonsense then and it’s nonsense now.

Dressing up to fly is more like 60 years ago. 30 years ago we already had airlines like Ryanair and easyJet, and flying was a completely normal everyday event.

I don't get this at all. Flying is an uncomfortable, inconvenient faff with a lot of standing around waiting for things. What on earth would possess you to make it an even more uncomfortable experience? No-one cares what you're wearing.

Ablondiebutagoody · Yesterday 12:31

I always travel in clothes I'd like to be wearing to escape a burning aircraft wreck. Trainers, often jeans.

CurlewKate · Yesterday 12:32

Have your friends time travelled from the 1960s?

Marycontrarygarden · Yesterday 12:33

Your friends are weird

MoonriseKingdom · Yesterday 12:34

The only time I ever got upgraded, on a flight to Australia in my 20s, I was very casually dressed in combat trousers, t-shirt and trainers. There were several people upgraded, we were all lone travellers who had checked in early.

Snufkin88 · Yesterday 12:35

As if the lady checking you in behind the desk gives a shit what you are wearing. Do they honestly think they are sitting there going let’s wait for the most presentable person to give an upgrade to ? If it happens which is very rare how you look or what you are wearing would have zero to do with it . Such a ridiculous thing to think

concertinacornflake · Yesterday 12:37

Oh just wear what you want. Life's way too short for this nonsense: the other half thinks you need to look put together in the airport and dress in a nice outfit

Marycontrarygarden · Yesterday 12:37

sevenwonde · Yesterday 11:28

I’ve never really found a plane to be that cold! I do plan on taking a jumper with me but for the evening - but it will match my planned outfit

Jesus....this is an ott trip. I wouldn't have friends who would ever be "horrified" by my wearing shorts. How old are these women?

Kevinbaconsrealwife · Yesterday 12:39

Wowisthisit · Yesterday 10:55

I don't know I got an upgrade to an exit row seat 😂

Well check you out my lovely 😁

TransportNerd · Yesterday 12:42

MoonriseKingdom · Yesterday 12:34

The only time I ever got upgraded, on a flight to Australia in my 20s, I was very casually dressed in combat trousers, t-shirt and trainers. There were several people upgraded, we were all lone travellers who had checked in early.

The thing is, with a short haul trip like this, the upgrade gives you virtually nothing anyway, and you'll have absolutely minimal contact with airline staff. You check in online, go through security, and then get admitted to the plane. No-one is going to even think about offering you an upgrade.

Globules · Yesterday 12:44

Could there be an any more Mumsnet thread? 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Fwiw my 2 chn (aged 6 + 4) and myself were once upgraded to business for free.

None of us were wearing linens or looking put together. We weren't frequent flyers either.

I could never go on a plane wearing sandals. Far too cold!

sevenwonde · Yesterday 12:46

I’m an anxious flyer anyway so really can’t fathom planning my outfits around the possibility of a less painful death - it would stop me even getting on the plane.

The Birkenstocks are Milano, so they have a strap at the back and stay on

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BerryTwister · Yesterday 12:52

Dress for comfort.

And anyway, people wearing linen, by the time they’ve sat in a car to the airport, will look as if they’ve slept on a park bench.

Yetone · Yesterday 12:56

Airlines have been known to to ask people to cover up.

Nsky62 · Yesterday 13:00

catslovehairties · Yesterday 10:54

I don’t own any linen or silk trousers so I’d be very unpopular with your friends 😂

Nor I, cropped cotton yes

sevenwonde · Yesterday 13:05

Yetone · Yesterday 12:56

Airlines have been known to to ask people to cover up.

Not in normal shorts!

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OnlyGarden · Yesterday 13:08

Slip on sandals dont seem very practical for schlopping about an airport. Or if you somehow end up having to run for your flight.

Won't shorts be cold?

I dont know the upgrade procedures but I can't imagine that a group would be upgraded anyway.

Ponoka7 · Yesterday 13:10

beigetriangle · Yesterday 12:10

an airline pilot said to me to always travel in clothes/shoes you can run with and garments that don't melt in case of fire.

I don't wear sandals, I have foot problems. Trainers are my go to, because I like to walk/take public transport. But it doesn't make sense, you're more likely to have a train incident or car crash, or be mugged etc, so outside of a closed resort, there's no place for holiday clothes, by that pilot's logic.
When younger, pre scanners, I'd wear a strappy dress and flat, sling backs, to save being searched/having to remove clothing/shoes.
I've never been cold on an airplane, though, or hyper about supposed hygiene risks.

Ponoka7 · Yesterday 13:13

"Could there be an any more Mumsnet thread"
It's given posters the chance to declare their status re flights, it's probably made their day 😄

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