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Is it acceptable to travel in shorts and sandals?

334 replies

sevenwonde · 27/06/2026 10:47

Help! The friend group is split on this one and it is largely tongue in cheek

We’re off on a girls holiday soon. Half the group thinks it’s fine to travel in shorts and sandals (Birkenstocks), the other half thinks you need to look put together in the airport and dress in a nice outfit (linen, silk trousers etc), in case of an upgrade. They think the nicer you’re dressed the less likely you are to be asked to check your bag at the gate etc.

So, is it acceptable?! They’re not tiny shorts that show my bum cheeks!

OP posts:
SadiraOfTyr · 27/06/2026 10:59

Imlyingandthatsthetruth · 27/06/2026 10:52

Where are you flying? 'Cos there ain't no upgrades on flights to Europe...

I’ve been upgraded several times on Lufthansa when they’ve overbooked economy.

But the idea that you’ve more chance of an upgrade if you are smartly dressed is ludicrous: upgrades go to crew/employees first, followed by frequent flyers with gold status and so on down the list.

notimagain · 27/06/2026 11:00

sevenwonde · 27/06/2026 10:54

We’re flying BA to Mykonos. They think there’s a chance if we get lucky. No cabin crew with us but they’re genuinely horrified that I would consider wearing shorts! My rationale is it’s an evening flight, I have appointments in the morning before I travel and have to get to the airport. I don’t want to be hot and sweaty before we get on a plane!

Upgrade will almost entirely driven by frequent flyer status, accrued points, etc.

Also without wishing to be alarmist @Fiftyandme makes a valid point re-clothing.

sevenwonde · 27/06/2026 11:02

Fiftyandme · 27/06/2026 10:53

Flying on a plane requires wearing cottons/natural fibres and decent shoes - if you need to exit the plane quickly or god forbid escape from a fire you’re not going to want to be wearing flimsy footwear or clothes that melt into your skin.

Edited

Christ. That’s a bit OTT!

OP posts:
Gettingbysomehow · 27/06/2026 11:02

Linen? You'd look like a crumpled messy bag lady at the end of the flight.
I wear things that dont crease and have plenty of room to move in.

paulinespecial · 27/06/2026 11:03

The kind of flight you could get upgraded on is not asking anyone to check in bags at the gate.
Upgrades go to passengers with status or solo flyers that they need to move for operational purposes.
They aren’t upgrading a gang of women on a girls
holiday so wear want you want.

bryceQ · 27/06/2026 11:03

😂😂 so funny. Isn’t it self service these days? No one cares what you are wearing.

notimagain · 27/06/2026 11:04

@SadiraOfTyr

upgrade if you are smartly dressed is ludicrous: upgrades go to crew/employees first, followed by frequent flyers with gold status and so on down the list.

I wouldn't rely on that order for upgrades, certainly not with the airline the OP is flying with...

It wouldn't be a good look to move employees up and then leave Gold card holders crammed in economy....

McSpoot · 27/06/2026 11:04

SadiraOfTyr · 27/06/2026 10:59

I’ve been upgraded several times on Lufthansa when they’ve overbooked economy.

But the idea that you’ve more chance of an upgrade if you are smartly dressed is ludicrous: upgrades go to crew/employees first, followed by frequent flyers with gold status and so on down the list.

I have as well. Amusingly, once at boarding where I scanned in just in front of my boss and got a "ping" to tell me I had been upgraded. I started to wonder if I should offer the upgrade to him (it was only a couple of hours - from Germany to Egypt), but, luckily, as he scanned his boarding pass, he got the same "ping".

In terms of clothing, I fly business for anything long haul and, depending on the airline, they give you PJs (or "lounge wear") that they encourage you to wear.

LittleBearPad · 27/06/2026 11:05

notimagain · 27/06/2026 11:04

@SadiraOfTyr

upgrade if you are smartly dressed is ludicrous: upgrades go to crew/employees first, followed by frequent flyers with gold status and so on down the list.

I wouldn't rely on that order for upgrades, certainly not with the airline the OP is flying with...

It wouldn't be a good look to move employees up and then leave Gold card holders crammed in economy....

If the Gold card owners have booked economy seats then that probably where they should be.

Evaka · 27/06/2026 11:06

Your friends sound very innocent. Have you been in business class? Tech bros who look homeless is more the look.

McSpoot · 27/06/2026 11:06

@paulinespecial - The kind of flight you could get upgraded on is not asking anyone to check in bags at the gate.

Not true. I've been on many flights with 2+ classes where, since the flight was full and many people had carry-on, they asked/forced some people to gate check their roll-on cases.

Candleabra · 27/06/2026 11:07

They won’t have room to upgrade a big group anyway. Wear what you want.

notimagain · 27/06/2026 11:07

sevenwonde · 27/06/2026 11:02

Christ. That’s a bit OTT!

It's not completely OTT..

You look at how some folks dress and wonder what state their backsides/legs are going to end up in in the ( highly unlikely etc) event they have to use the slides......

DidntLikeTheEnding · 27/06/2026 11:08

They think the nicer you’re dressed the less likely you are to be asked to check your bag at the gate etc.

These people are delulu. Have they flown much recently?!

CeeceeBloomingdale · 27/06/2026 11:08

notimagain · 27/06/2026 11:04

@SadiraOfTyr

upgrade if you are smartly dressed is ludicrous: upgrades go to crew/employees first, followed by frequent flyers with gold status and so on down the list.

I wouldn't rely on that order for upgrades, certainly not with the airline the OP is flying with...

It wouldn't be a good look to move employees up and then leave Gold card holders crammed in economy....

Staff who have bought upgrade eligible tickets would certainly be upgraded before frequent flyers who haven't paid for the privilege.

BeSunnyLemonSheep · 27/06/2026 11:09

sevenwonde · 27/06/2026 11:02

Christ. That’s a bit OTT!

Not really. It happens.

mindutopia · 27/06/2026 11:09

I think people can wear what they feel comfortable in.

Personally, I dress nicely for travel. I mean it wouldn’t be silk trousers. 😂 But I do dress work casual, not like I’m off to Ibiza. That’s a personal choice.

paulinespecial · 27/06/2026 11:09

Just saw you are on a BA flight to Mykonos. Yeah you aren’t going to get an upgrade. It’s a fairly small short haul Airbus. They move the curtain according to how many business seats they sell. There are none to be upgraded to. Even if they were you would be last on their upgrade list I’m afraid.

Alsosa · 27/06/2026 11:10

Wear what you’re comfortable travelling in, you won’t be upgraded, and it won’t make a difference to bags checked, wear what you want to travel in

Felineheaven748 · 27/06/2026 11:10

I’m past short wearing age now but travelled long haul frequently in the past.

I would never wear shorts on a plane from a hygiene point of view! Anything and everything has been spilled on those seats and cleaning turn around time is fast. Also they use chemicals to clean.

And personally, I would only wear shoes that were easy and practical to wear and could easily take me down an escape chute.

Always take a light thin wool wrap with me to use as a pillow or a blanket.

I always try and dress smart casual when travelling. Comfort is key. Pack as light as possible!

Fluffypuppy1 · 27/06/2026 11:11

sevenwonde · 27/06/2026 10:54

We’re flying BA to Mykonos. They think there’s a chance if we get lucky. No cabin crew with us but they’re genuinely horrified that I would consider wearing shorts! My rationale is it’s an evening flight, I have appointments in the morning before I travel and have to get to the airport. I don’t want to be hot and sweaty before we get on a plane!

If you’re flying economy BA from T5 Heathrow, you’ll be using the self service bag drop, so won’t see anyone anyway. If one of your group has BA Executive Club Bronze or higher, they can bag drop at the Business Class desks, but you’ll probably still have to do the self service. So it still won’t matter what you are wearing.

BA do offer paid upgrades on flights, but that’s usually either cash or Club points.

paulinespecial · 27/06/2026 11:12

McSpoot · 27/06/2026 11:06

@paulinespecial - The kind of flight you could get upgraded on is not asking anyone to check in bags at the gate.

Not true. I've been on many flights with 2+ classes where, since the flight was full and many people had carry-on, they asked/forced some people to gate check their roll-on cases.

Fair enough. I’m pretty high tier in all the airlines I fly so never been asked!

Howmanycatsistoomany · 27/06/2026 11:12

MickyMoonshine · 27/06/2026 10:58

They’re not going upgrade a whole group. It’ll be a solo traveller who is part of their loyalty scheme.

Flying is hellish, I always prioritise comfort over style.

This^

I've flown from/to Paris CDG this week and there were a lot of bum cheeks on show. Normal shorts and sandals will be absolutely fine.

McSpoot · 27/06/2026 11:13

paulinespecial · 27/06/2026 11:12

Fair enough. I’m pretty high tier in all the airlines I fly so never been asked!

So am I (and usually in business where they'd never ask) - but I can still see/hear others being asked.

Greentoytractor · 27/06/2026 11:14

I got upgraded once on a long haul flight from Auckland to Santiago. I was three months in to a year long backpacking trip, and dressed like one. Harem pants, flip flops, you get the picture. I still to this day have no idea why I was upgraded (maybe they needed a solo traveller) but it certainly wasn't because of the way I was dressed!