AIBU to think neighbours should not be naked in their garden?

[babypickles]

For context: Our house is on a new build estate and the houses are pretty close together. It’s fairly easy to see into neighbours gardens because the trees etc are not well established yet.

AIBU to say my neighbours shouldn’t be naked in their garden. They are often out in the garden totally naked taking photos of themselves. They have parties quite often and it’s not uncommon for them and friends to be out in the garden naked / using the hot tub etc.

Am I being a killjoy ? Seems excessive to me.

Yes. And onlyfans is BAD! But taking naked selfies in the garden for the world to see: OK.

Oh no I’d be knocking on the door telling them to cover up. I don’t want to look out the window to see Jim’s conkers on show. It’s weird behaviour in the middle of a housing estate

Probably makes a difference if they are good looking or not 🫣

Agreed. It’s just MN in general - I swear you could post saying someone drove into your car and the same people would say “well why were you out driving” 😂

YANBU and it’s really boring the people saying you are

YANBU and it’s really boring the people saying you are

No you shouldn’t be naked in your garden. Unless it’s totally private. But if other homes naturally overlook the garden - as with the OP’s kid seeing them - it’s fucking creepy boundary crossing.

Naked sunbathing I can understand. But anything else and I’d be mortified. It would make me very uncomfortable in my own garden knowing they were next door naked!

Ah yes, Donald and Jacqueline entertaining the West Mulberry Swingers Association. Big Dom was unable to make it this year, he's at a stamp fair in Accrington.

If OP and her neighbours, quite rightly, arent happy about what's going on then they should report it

Its not illegal.

If you're not happy about people doing legal stuff then that gives you no rights whatsoever.

So dont waste police time

No. It does not.
Neither does standing at your window naked.

i beg to differ. Having sex orgies in a visible hottub would absolutely be indecent exposure.

😁

So what? They're just bodies. It'll help him understand normal bodies are less than perfect porn bodies.

Walking about naked where other people can see you just means you're desperate for attention. Mind you, walking about naked in the depths of winter would get you all the attention you need.

YANBU. Would not want to see a naked man in a changing room, nor out of my window.

Exactly.

Naturists don't do that sort of thing. Being naked isn't a sexual thing at all at naturist beaches et, and they don't just strip off anywhere.

The neighbours know what they're doing, they know they're overlooked, and they seem to be getting a kick out of being observed.

Foisting the sight of your naked body on someone, just because you can get away with it is quite aggressive and crosses boundaries. It's not the body that bothers, me, it's the lack of permission: "You have to look at my nakedness because I have decided to make you see".

If you can see your neighbours and their naked guests, when you're doing normal garden activities, you should tell them to put up fencing.

Eeeeew that's gross!!

I wouldn't be happy if my kid's bedroom looked out over rando's with their danglies out.

I would find that hilarious tbh! Are they fit of jiggly?

@babypickles put up a fence topper of some sort. If the neighbour asks why just say, Too much skin, Mike. 🙂

Why have you not been invited is the real concern.

Exactly. I might gate crash the next one. At least I wouldn’t have to think about what to wear 😆

would you be saying that if it was the OP’s DD?

Must be a big cock if it confronted you all the way from their garden to your bedroom window.