@Ilovemychocolate I think you are getting a rough ride off some here.
I don’t think you are being unreasonable here at all. In fact you sound quite tolerant in regard to the growing pet collection.
The tenant originally asked for permission for one rabbit. She then added a cat and two large dogs without permission, which is already well outside what was agreed. Pets are her responsibility to manage, especially when she’s chosen to have more than the tenancy allowed.
The plastering visit was arranged two weeks in advance and the tenant agreed to the date. The plasterer turned up, started the job, and the tenant sent him without speaking to the you, because her house cat got out. You had no reason to believe personal attendance was required. The actions were the tenants choice, but it doesn’t make you, the landlord, liable for the £250 wasted visit. It’s no different from refusing access on the day, the tenant caused the failed appointment, so the cost sits with her.
I think you need to take it out of her deposit at the end and to do that you need to have documentation because deposit schemes love documentation:
- The invoice for the wasted visit
- The message trail showing the tenant agreed to the date
- A note of why the plasterer was turned away
As for the flooring: if the dogs have damaged it, that’s not “wear and tear”, and it’s certainly not the landlord’s problem given the dogs weren’t authorised in the first place. As long as there’s a proper check‑in inventory with photos, and the damage is documented at check‑out, the landlord can deduct the proportionate repair/replacement cost from the deposit at the end of the tenancy.
So yes, I think its reasonable that the plasterer’s wasted visit and any flooring damage can be taken from the deposit when the tenancy ends, provided you keep the evidence. That’s exactly what the deposit is for: putting right tenant‑caused damage and losses.
In fairness though, I think you need to tell the tenant now, in writing with something along the following lines:
"Just to confirm, the £250 wasted plasterer visit will be charged to you at the end of the tenancy, as the appointment was agreed in advance and you ejected the plasterer on the day without recourse to me.
I also need to note that the flooring damage caused by the dogs will be assessed at check‑out and any repair costs will be deducted from the deposit. The tenancy only permitted one rabbit, so the additional pets (which you have not formally advised me, as your landlord, about and resulting damage are your responsibility.”