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To think my universal credit feels generous.

942 replies

MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:10

I got to my early 40s without ever needing to claim but circumstances find me single and paying the lions share of child related outgoings.

I work full time on£31,000 and have found out this year thanks to applying that I get on average about £800 from UC. It has been an absolute life changer and will hopefully be able to afford a modest uk holiday actually during the summer holidays and pay the school back some debt im in for after school care.

So many benefits bashing threads so I just wanted to present another side that as a cash strapped mum of two who works full time, UC is making a positive difference to our life. I didn't even think id qualify!

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randomchap · 20/06/2026 14:11

This will soon turn into a benefits bashing thread. People complaining that UC pays too much.

HoneyPie12 · 20/06/2026 14:14

Is that £800 a month extra? I think it's deserved to be honest love, your working and providing the best life you can for your babies x

MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:15

I hope not random chap. 😕

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Chestecoffthatcarriedheroff · 20/06/2026 14:15

randomchap · 20/06/2026 14:11

This will soon turn into a benefits bashing thread. People complaining that UC pays too much.

That’s what OP is hoping for surely and it will work!

MissSeven · 20/06/2026 14:15

If you have been in debt recently, I’d probably use the money to buy next size up of and kids shoes and clothes, stock up on groceries, service the car etc rather than spend it on a holiday

vodkaredbullgirl · 20/06/2026 14:16

🤔

JabbaTheBeachHut · 20/06/2026 14:17

You're not 'presenting another side'.

We've had plenty of 'Aren't benefits so generous' threads.

And as you'll be well aware, they cause just as many bun fights as the more obvious goady benefit threads.

0livetree · 20/06/2026 14:17

A lot of people I know who work can’t afford holidays but not eligible for benefits

MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:17

I understand this is an area that gets a lot of trolling but I'm not. Im trying to spread a bit of positivity in the face of some blatant uc trolling posts today.

When I say debt I only mean £150 I owe to school which ive got down to £60 now!

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XenoBitch · 20/06/2026 14:17

If you applied and that is what you are entitled to, then you are not doing anything wrong.

However, some people will see that as bragging on here and this thread will attract the benefit bashers... it will get nasty, and the attacks on the claimants will start.

It happens every time, am I think you know that as it was your intention.

Frequency · 20/06/2026 14:18

Chestecoffthatcarriedheroff · 20/06/2026 14:15

That’s what OP is hoping for surely and it will work!

Agreed.

I also have to assume that OP is living in the north and either has family help towards childcare or has children who no longer need childcare while she works.

She'd feel very differently if this weren't the case.

And on the subject of the north, it is worth bearing in mind that jobs paying £30,000k p/a are not the norm; in fact, jobs are not the norm full stop. We have a massive problem with a lack of opportunity and poor or failing infrastructure.

JabbaTheBeachHut · 20/06/2026 14:18

MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:15

I hope not random chap. 😕

Awww, complete with sad face emoji.

Bridgertonisbest · 20/06/2026 14:19

I think that a modest uk holiday is the bare minimum people working full time should be able to have. I’m just cross that the money has to be made up by UC and salaries are inadequate.

Cross is probably the wrong word but I’m pleased that UC has given you a lifeline and things are looking up a bit for you.

Error404FucksNotFound · 20/06/2026 14:19

If its too much then donate some to charity. Maybe foodbanks.

loveandletdie · 20/06/2026 14:21

Excuse my ignorance as I’m not from the UK but my understanding that universal credit was to help low income people/families with day to day life but not to fund holidays as they are a luxury

Frequency · 20/06/2026 14:21

Error404FucksNotFound · 20/06/2026 14:19

If its too much then donate some to charity. Maybe foodbanks.

Is being able to live without debt and afford a small holiday once a year too much if you're working full-time?

If so, that's beyond depressing.

icannotlivelaughloveintheseconditions · 20/06/2026 14:21

People will be thinking but 31k is an ok wage but it’s the ONLY wage you have coming in. And you have the same bills/ utilities/ insurance etc as two income families. Thats why you are getting the top up and that’s what it’s for.

homebytheseanearme · 20/06/2026 14:21

Is the children’s father not paying anything?

youalright · 20/06/2026 14:22

Now imagine trying to live on that without your full time job due to having to be a carer or being disabled then see how generous you think it is.

icannotlivelaughloveintheseconditions · 20/06/2026 14:22

loveandletdie · 20/06/2026 14:21

Excuse my ignorance as I’m not from the UK but my understanding that universal credit was to help low income people/families with day to day life but not to fund holidays as they are a luxury

It’s to top up low income families. 31k for one household is low income.

MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:23

@Error404FucksNotFound I dont think I'm getting too much. I am getting help that possibly will enable a small caravan holiday and help buy my children clothes.

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XenoBitch · 20/06/2026 14:24

icannotlivelaughloveintheseconditions · 20/06/2026 14:21

People will be thinking but 31k is an ok wage but it’s the ONLY wage you have coming in. And you have the same bills/ utilities/ insurance etc as two income families. Thats why you are getting the top up and that’s what it’s for.

OP only gets them because she is a single parent with a kid.
If you are single with no kids, you get no help.

JabbaTheBeachHut · 20/06/2026 14:24

MoonBaby1 · 20/06/2026 14:23

@Error404FucksNotFound I dont think I'm getting too much. I am getting help that possibly will enable a small caravan holiday and help buy my children clothes.

Strange choice of thread title then?

youalright · 20/06/2026 14:24

XenoBitch · 20/06/2026 14:24

OP only gets them because she is a single parent with a kid.
If you are single with no kids, you get no help.

This as soon as her kids are out of education it will be taken away

BootMaker · 20/06/2026 14:26

Frequency · 20/06/2026 14:18

Agreed.

I also have to assume that OP is living in the north and either has family help towards childcare or has children who no longer need childcare while she works.

She'd feel very differently if this weren't the case.

And on the subject of the north, it is worth bearing in mind that jobs paying £30,000k p/a are not the norm; in fact, jobs are not the norm full stop. We have a massive problem with a lack of opportunity and poor or failing infrastructure.

People in 'the north' don't'' have jobs? Is that what you're saying? And those that do earn less than 30k? Have you ever even been to 'the north'?